[Help] is it bad to date someone over the internet? Updates to this post /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the Mon, 30 Nov 2009 22:55:26 +0100 Reply from ¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572794 One word: Yes.

I mean I can see if you two met, talked on the phone, talked on skype, etc ..and actually could see eachother every once in awhile - then from there sort of had a long distance relationship .. but you’re only 15.

]]> ¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:26:26 +0100 Reply from spiratec9 /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572678 how do you kiss over the internet??

]]> spiratec9 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 05:35:21 +0100 Reply from Hybrid Theory /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572618 Nope, very happy in my long distance relationship. you both just have to want it for real. want each other, and not date just to date.

]]> Hybrid Theory Sun, 07 Dec 2008 04:57:48 +0100 Reply from RuleCandela /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572425 at least they want to date you in some form, like look at the post of my problem now lol

]]> RuleCandela Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:49:03 +0100 Reply from Mez /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572414 Just be very careful about dating someone over the internet. As you know, never give out details that are private.

]]> Mez Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:45:46 +0100 Reply from SemiArt /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572395 If you like him this much in person, then don’t discount him only because it’s a long distance relationship.

]]> SemiArt Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:38:45 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572389 but we talk on the phone alll the time, and i was even supposed to go up and meet him, but i decided not to, so he’s coming down to boston over xmas break. and i knowww that he’s not a creep like that! he’s genuine, like ive even talked to his friends, and theyre friends with me on facebook too.

]]> Anonymous Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:36:56 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572383 if you really like him, i’d say try it out.. especially if he seems legit about wanting to date or be in a relationship

]]> Anonymous Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:36:11 +0100 Reply from SemiArt /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572380 Also, Don’t be afraid of what your friends think.

I know it’s tough, but if they are really your friends, and you explain this to them seriously and don’t just become defensive or make fun of yourself, then they will understand. Just give them some explanation time.

]]> SemiArt Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:35:52 +0100 Reply from RuleCandela /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572378 its not bad, you just get more comfortable aiming them and then it could get awkward in real life

]]> RuleCandela Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:35:00 +0100 Reply from SemiArt /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572376 [quote Anonymous]really? thats cool. but idk… like when i think about it, it seems wicked creepy[/quote]
Well, I can see that.

I’m really not trying to push this idea, I’m just giving an example of when it turned out well. (Because everyone knows times when terrible things have happened about contacting through the internet.)

Just think about it.
Do you see yourself being happy being mutually exclusive to each other? Do you trust him to do that? Are you going to talk to each other over video chat or on the phone a lot, or are you going to lose your life to him?
Are you ever going to see him in person?
Can you see your life being better because of him?

I wouldn’t call it creepy, but that’s just me, and not a whole lot creeps me out.

]]> SemiArt Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:34:11 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572372 exactly…

but like he really does want to be “in a relationship” and i do too. but im afraid all my friends will make fun of me… like its not that im so desperate that i go to the internet to find a bf… like theres other guys who have asked me out, but i jsut realllyyy like this kid

]]> Anonymous Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:33:34 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572364 is it really “dating” if it’s over the internet?

]]> Anonymous Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:31:42 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572355 really? thats cool. but idk… like when i think about it, it seems wicked creepy

]]> Anonymous Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:29:39 +0100 Reply from SemiArt /post/224944-is-it-bad-to-date-someone-over-the#reply-4572352 I don’t think so, if you both have good intentions.

My good friend had a boyfriend she met through a videogame. She lived in Michigan, and he lived in Kentucky. They dated for around 4 years.

]]> SemiArt Sun, 07 Dec 2008 03:28:26 +0100