[Help] im in love with someone that isnt my boyfriend. Updates to this post /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m Thu, 03 Dec 2009 01:07:41 +0100 Reply from *Dougie* /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4580218 Regardless of where the other guy lives.
You are not in love with your boyfriend.
So you should not be with him.

Someone once said that insecurity and the great unknown are the best kind of security you can ever have.

There is life in uncertainty
Certainty is boredom, stagnation, and entropy!

]]> *Dougie* Tue, 09 Dec 2008 12:25:54 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4575161 Look girl, you gotta let your boyfriend go. He deserves a girl that truly love him. Not one that’s using him for security. Sorry.

]]> Anonymous Mon, 08 Dec 2008 00:55:39 +0100 Reply from supersarahd1 /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574985 thanks..i think im just going to give it time. i guess if hes worth it, ill find that out on my own

tay_wyh…that was terrible advice. sorry.

]]> supersarahd1 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 23:33:48 +0100 Reply from tay_wyh /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574934 i think u shud just move on somethings just aint meant to be. Sad i know.

]]> tay_wyh Sun, 07 Dec 2008 23:13:58 +0100 Reply from Red_Sky /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574926 And as for your friends thinking, “he’s not worth it” I know how that goes. If he’s important to you, make sure he knows that. But you can only do so much, as for the rest of it, you gotta leave it up to him.

]]> Red_Sky Sun, 07 Dec 2008 23:09:59 +0100 Reply from Red_Sky /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574924 I know it’s hard and there seems like a lot of barriers preventing you from doing things you know need to get done, but you just have steel yourself and get them over with.

]]> Red_Sky Sun, 07 Dec 2008 23:08:56 +0100 Reply from supersarahd1 /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574910 thanks. but im afraid to talk to seth…ive messaged him twice asking him to forgive me and that all i want is his friendship and he never replied. people always tell me “oh well then hes not worth it” but then why do i feel like he is? its getting worse, and im afraid to say anything like that to justin cuz hes overly sensitive. :/

]]> supersarahd1 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 23:02:27 +0100 Reply from Red_Sky /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574902 Makes sure you have that conversation with Seth the, that just want to be friends. You can always ask Justin for a break just to get your head together. You can tell him that you’re going through some things that you just need to deal with on your own. I had dated my ex for four years, and when I was 17 I had to do the same thing. It helps so much, just to have a little time to yourself and to put things in perspective.

]]> Red_Sky Sun, 07 Dec 2008 22:59:18 +0100 Reply from supersarahd1 /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574894 i am 19

]]> supersarahd1 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 22:54:34 +0100 Reply from Red_Sky /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574893 Well how old are you?

]]> Red_Sky Sun, 07 Dec 2008 22:53:50 +0100 Reply from supersarahd1 /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574889 the only thing is…seth was my best friend. and if u read what i said about “being with justin for the security” it may help ya out. i love justin, but i still have feelings for seth. i just want to be seths friend again, cuz that means more to me than actually being with him…

]]> supersarahd1 Sun, 07 Dec 2008 22:52:15 +0100 Reply from Red_Sky /post/225178-im-in-love-with-someone-that-isnt-m#reply-4574885 Sorry, but don’t do this to your boyfriend, it honestly isn’t fair to him. Even if it can’t work with Seth, for both your and Justin’s sakes it would be better to just break it off.

]]> Red_Sky Sun, 07 Dec 2008 22:48:46 +0100