[Help] What is this emptiness? Updates to this post /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness Tue, 08 Dec 2009 02:03:28 +0100 Reply from sophiexx0 /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-5323475 if youre friends dont make u happy u should try something new or find new freinds that you can relax with???

]]> sophiexx0 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 15:03:13 +0100 Reply from jwm23 /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-5157278 or NeedHim.org

]]> jwm23 Tue, 28 Jul 2009 03:52:28 +0100 Reply from jwm23 /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-5157266 I guess the answer begins with a good question. Why are you going there…no really, just for fun? Could it be you want to feel a part of something, you want to feel significant, you really are looking for the “filler” for the emptiness you actually walked in with. Don’t we all just want to be loved and feel significant just because we are who we are? What if someone walked up to you while you were in the club (looking for whatever you were looking for) and told you that He knows you, and that He loves you and that He has a future for you that is more than you could ever dream of. What if He told you that He’s been looking for you, not for the “smiling” I’ve got everything going for me person - you, plain and simple. He’s got answers to your questions, healing for your hurts, future plans (good plans), a clean slate to offer you, a new beginning, and a love that will fill you up (so much that it will overflow)? You won’t be empty anymore, ever again, guaranteed!

Of course it’s all up to you… If you want to know more check out the Billy Graham official website, or google Jesus Christ has a plan for my life, or what is salvation. There are answers, go for it! As I press send I will say a prayer for you to the One who knows your name!

Sounds pretty amazing, doesn’t it? Well all of it is true even down to the part that He’s been looking for you…Jesus Christ is looking for you, He’s calling your name (you are not anonymous to Him), He has a plan, a purpose, for your life.

]]> jwm23 Tue, 28 Jul 2009 03:43:37 +0100 Reply from respect4thendvdua /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-5141114 I went through that same phase 5 years ago. Now I am dead on the inside. I work for a giant retail corporation that has no moral conscience. I’ve learned to forget myself and just do a job that keeps me busy and that’s all I need to keep myself going. As long as they don’t fire me I am stable.

]]> respect4thendvdua Mon, 20 Jul 2009 01:39:36 +0100 Reply from Eimu /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4726811 been there, done that. i feel u. in my case it i found that i’m sick of the normal social scene that i always go to. same faces and same friends every weekend. and yeah, like what was suggested by the other replies, u need a new scene. something more well….different with new ppl. i found my smile back when i started playing tennis. i started meeting new ppl and have fun at the same time. anyway its always good to have more than one circle of friends. :P

]]> Eimu Sat, 24 Jan 2009 16:18:12 +0100 Reply from Here_4_U /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4697704 The only reason I smile and laugh and don’t feel empty is because Jesus is in my life and he gives me love, joy, hope, and strength to endure everyday life.

]]> Here_4_U Wed, 14 Jan 2009 10:18:24 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4693005 You’re at a pub! They’re not truly happy, they’re drunk! It’s not a problem you have- it’s theirs’!

]]> Anonymous Mon, 12 Jan 2009 12:09:41 +0100 Reply from dimmingstar1376 /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4578673 if they are your friends they might try new places with you also you might find other friends at these places that share similar social scene its not a fault in you

]]> dimmingstar1376 Tue, 09 Dec 2008 02:15:09 +0100 Reply from dimmingstar1376 /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4578670 not that you aren’t social enough but that it may not be your social scene

]]> dimmingstar1376 Tue, 09 Dec 2008 02:13:49 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575960 thank you everyone.
I might not have enough social skills.
sometimes you have to talk about something you arent interested in, right?
But recently I am so tired of it.
I used to do more volunteer works but now I am also tired of it(physically).

I want to be more social person (I go out every weekend with my friends) when I meet new people. But do i need at a club or bar?
I see people and wonder what they want here.

I know i just should stop going those places but feel im left behind if i don go out…

]]> Anonymous Mon, 08 Dec 2008 07:11:40 +0100 Reply from bkny /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575930 It’s more about the friends you’re with than the setting.

]]> bkny Mon, 08 Dec 2008 06:46:17 +0100 Reply from kottonmouth1 /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575913 Ha maybe you need to listen to some sadistic music as in scarry… sometimes you need to be reminded how scarry things can be so you can be releived it isn’t that way…. that in itself is contentment… Being happy its not worse… suggestions “mary magdalin “rage” or hrm.. anything by ICP makes u go uhhh what? just try experiencing something new…

]]> kottonmouth1 Mon, 08 Dec 2008 06:33:35 +0100 Reply from loontal /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575900 i wish i knew, i seem to go about my days doing what is expected of me. i keep tring new and different things hoping to find anything to put a smile on my face. i know it can be done because people do it everyday. i guess some people are harder to please.

]]> loontal Mon, 08 Dec 2008 06:25:46 +0100 Reply from ioeojifewio /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575897 here is a strage idea that help.

try to pretend to enjoy yourself.

you do not have to just try to put on a mask, eventually one of these days you will forget you are pretending and before you know it you may actually enjoy spending time with some body

]]> ioeojifewio Mon, 08 Dec 2008 06:24:50 +0100 Reply from veg_head /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575824 I agree with the other replies. You aren’t having fun because that isn’t fun for you! You’re not boring just because you don’t like to tear it up at the bar every night! Those people may not be having as good a time as they are pretending to.

]]> veg_head Mon, 08 Dec 2008 05:49:23 +0100 Reply from dawn.saucyminx /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575804 I agree with maybe you arent doing something you enjoy.. More going with the crowd more than anything.
In order to smile and laugh and mean it.. You need to be doing what you enjoy and be with people who -know- you.
Sounds like its time to get in touch with YOU.
Emptiness its not.. Just a lack of knowing whats there.

]]> dawn.saucyminx Mon, 08 Dec 2008 05:37:39 +0100 Reply from . - : 2511 : - . /post/225313-what-is-this-emptiness#reply-4575792 You aren’t doing something that makes you happy…
Maybe you’ve expectations that are too hard to please, maybe you don’t know what you want or perhaps you just need some fresh air in your life =P

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