what do you think? Seems the likely answer yeah?

Only insecure guys need model girlfriends. Sure, its a plus if your lively fun person is also a aesthetically stunning, but it’s not that important.

That said, your face has an old school beauty to it. Get your self happy and healthy and decide which guys are good enough for you.

True, you do not look like a movie star or a runway model, but MOST guys are not looking for movie stars and runway models. Most are just looking for lively, normal-looking people whom they can have fun with. Confidence goes a long way toward making someone look beautiful, and for CONFIDENCE’s sake, no other reason, you might think of treating yourself to a mini-makeover with new make-up, new hairstyle, etc. If it increases your confidence, that will light up your face and lighten your attitude.

Also—and I know that this sounds corny, but I mean it LITERALLY—I think the absolutely BEST beauty aid there is is a great big SMILE. The face in that photograph would look extremely pretty if it were animated by joy and laughter. Honestly, it would. Try it—look in the mirror and flash a 100-watt grin. You’ll find that you become instantly GORGEOUS, and very appealing.

You’re halfway there already. The smile will close the deal.

Try to make a joke around going out or how it is unpleasant to go to cinema alone… you can find a way. If he says no or doesn’t answer, just don’t forget to smile, you survived it.

And maybe he mentioned his ex twice because he wants you to know that he’s not with anyone anymore.

For heaven’s sake, girl, the worst thing he can say is NO.

You can survive that, can’t you?

I hope you can, because we ALL hear “No” many times in our lives. Might as well get used to it.

On the other hand, maybe he’ll say yes.

You never know until you try.

make him adore you, so he has to do all the work? hahaha Gold.

works everytime :)

That makes it easier for both of you. If you say, “Do you want to go out some time?” and he says NO, then he is rejecting you overall, and he will feel like a heel while you feel like a reject.

But the other kind of invitation saves face. He could say, “No, I’m busy that night” or “I hate Four’s Company” or whatever, and then you don’t have to feel like it’s YOU he rejected.

Or he could say, “No, I have a family wedding on Saturday, but I’d like to go to another concert some time,” in which case you know he IS potentially interested.

Believe me, this is a lot easier on BOTH of you. In this scenario, you get to let him know YOU are interested, and he is able to let you know whether HE is potentially interested, and no one has been insulted outright.

Good luck—I hope he goes.

Good luck!

Yes, the vibe might be a little off balance, BUT what if he says yes? You’ll never know if you don’t try. ;)

Hehe, while that sounds easy, sometimes guys just don’t get the hint. Either that, or they ignore the signs because they believe they’re over-thinking.