[Help] One last try. Updates to this post /post/228997-one-last-try Mon, 09 Nov 2009 00:57:54 +0100 Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4628287 Yeah, i know that, its wierd though, he freaks me out, but i think i have a crush on him, but he isnt even a nice looking person =S

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Soph-14-94-8 Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:56:58 +0100
Reply from Grim_Hardcastle /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4628270 It`s probably just because he gives you a lot of attention. It`s really not something you should be drawn to..

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Grim_Hardcastle Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:50:58 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4628263 Well, its a bit stupid/daft/childish. But i think *takes deep breath* i think i MIIGHHTTTTTTT have a tiny weeny lil chrush on him =S really i think i do, its odd though, he is freaky, but i dunno its all really wierd.

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Soph-14-94-8 Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:47:38 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4628256 [quote Mas 1st]As this poster knows, these posts have been bothering me for a while. They dont change and the outcome is the same. What is starting to niggle me now is that the poster either has a very real problem that they arent posting or that they are not what they appear to be.
Why? when you are given the most solid advice, why arent you responding like a worried 14 yr old? The way you brush off suggestions that WOULD help is stunning.
Any chance you could tell us what is really the matter here? - Mas[/quote]

Well, that was sort of nice =S anyway, that IS the problem i think, i think that i dont know what the real problem is.

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Soph-14-94-8 Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:43:47 +0100
Reply from Left /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4625206 You continue to condone what he is doing by claiming that all hes doing is staring. But coming here and complaining about him with a more thorough description of uncomfortable for instances, is serving only to frustrate others. You know deep down that someone needs to speak up. Why do you continue to ask what to do?

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Left Sun, 21 Dec 2008 17:01:10 +0100
Reply from -Sophie- /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4624717 [quote Mas 1st]
I think you have 2 choices. Put up with it and say nothing or speak out. - Mas[/quote]

I agree with this and the real problem is YOU.

If you dont speak up.. in fact shout at the top of your voice you will always have to put up with this sort of thing all through your life.

Go to your headmaster. If you dont feel life talking then put it in writing.

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-Sophie- Sun, 21 Dec 2008 12:55:23 +0100
Reply from Left /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4622383 Ask to be moved to another class

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Left Sat, 20 Dec 2008 22:34:24 +0100
Reply from Kuvri (yodaluv12) /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4622363 how about if you just send in an anonymous tip? they won’t know it’s you…

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) Sat, 20 Dec 2008 22:13:55 +0100
1 user were invited to read this post by Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-7563408 Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 20:50:13 +0100 Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621579 ok, thats pretty S-I-C-K he doesnt do anything like that, just, stares, a bit to much.

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:12:12 +0100
Reply from mrs c /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621576 we used to have a perv at school too!

i used to come around checking our work,only he wasnt checking our work but what was in our bra!!!

sometimes he would ask me to help him put the books away in the cupboard!

noooooooo way!!!! i always had my friend there!
otherwise god knows what he would of done!!!
some of these teachers are there under false pretencies!!!
these pervs need to be squashed once&for all!

how are you going to feel if some poor young child gets raped&you could of saved her!
i wouldnt like to be in your shoes if the inevitable does happen!!!
seriously you need to put a stop to this before it esculates into something worse than what it is!!!

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mrs c Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:11:18 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621572 Its been going on for 2 years now, even when i wasnt in his class, if he came into my class he would aks what mark i got in a test or something.

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:08:55 +0100
Reply from Grim_Hardcastle /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621571 You are not taking it too far. Such a thing needs to be handled as soon as possible.

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Grim_Hardcastle Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:08:08 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621567 i know what you all mean, i know i have to tell a teacher higher than him, like the head of science, my tutor or a deputy head or even the head himself, but i dunno, i feel like im taking it all a little to far =S

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:06:00 +0100
Reply from Grim_Hardcastle /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621566 If u want change u don`t have any choice. It`s all for the better. No institution is served with such an individual..

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Grim_Hardcastle Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:04:45 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621564 i know! i should! but, i dont think i can, i really want to know why i cant! but i just dont!

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:04:08 +0100
Reply from mrs c /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621562 its not a matter of being quiet!
its a matter of putting this guy in his place!

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mrs c Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:03:23 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621557 hmmmm that could work, but the thing is, im really quiet, so im not really the type to report things and stuff =|

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:00:22 +0100
Reply from mrs c /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621555 keep a record of all the times&the things he is doing to your friend&yourself

then take all the evidence to the headmasterlet him deal with the issue :)

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mrs c Sat, 20 Dec 2008 13:59:33 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621552 [quote Mas 1st]Anon is right you know and that never occurred to me. He teaches other classes, who is to say he wont pick on someone who doesnt have a friend, a vulnerable person.
I hope you can find a way of letting someone know about this. I’m sure you could phone and make an anonymous report just to get him a warning. Something has to be done. You keep thinking about it and let us know. (I have a funny feeling you are sleeping right now)I’ll keep watching this post and see what you think - Mas[/quote]

hehe :P i was, at that point anyway, well im gonna be on help.com all day, untill about 11:00pm, i think anyway, so ill be watching this post =]

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 13:57:54 +0100
2 users were invited to read this post by Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-7561426 Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 13:56:04 +0100 Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621422 [quote littlenick]If you look up the words child molester in the dictionary and your teacher’s picture comes up, you might have a problem![/quote]

hahahahahaha! thats funny =P

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 11:22:08 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4621420 [quote Dougie the Pisces]Is this the same one that typed P on the computer and Pedophile came up as one of the P words?[/quote]

yes. it is

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Soph-14-94-8 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 11:20:20 +0100
Reply from Michael Leibman /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4620479 [quote Soph-14-94-8][quote Michael Leibman][quote Soph-14-94-8][quote Michael Leibman]Have you done anything to solve the problem?If not, why not?[/quote]I havnt done anything, coz my mam would just say stuff like, ooh thats nothing, and theres nothing really there to tell a teacher or something, [/quote]If there’s nothing to tell about it, how can you make post after post about it? There must be something you have to say.[/quote]

i knew someone would come out with that, Mas told me to do it scince i apologised and said that i wanted opinions and stuff, and yeah, i just want to know what people think on it, thats all.

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I didn’t read all the replies but it looks like the general opinion is that your teacher is acting inappropriately and you should tell someone. You may have a credibility problem, like your mom didn’t care, and I’d be extremely skeptical of this story from most of the teenage girls I’ve had to deal with in my neighborhood — but if it is true, and your teacher is really acting wrong in some way, then you are in the right to carefully, thoughtfully, and honestly tell someone in your local real-people world. And if they don’t want to hear it you can apologize and say that it actually is something important you want to tell someone about.

That’s what I get from reading the post and replies.

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Michael Leibman Sat, 20 Dec 2008 02:58:26 +0100
Reply from Leslie63 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4620095 oh sorry i didnt read all of the top i must have missed that bit write one to a teacher you trust idk if that would work.

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Leslie63 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 01:15:20 +0100
Reply from Leslie63 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4620044 write an anonymous note to the guidence counselor

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Leslie63 Sat, 20 Dec 2008 00:59:24 +0100
Reply from Kuvri (yodaluv12) /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619710 He sounds like a creep… stay away from him as best as possible. Obviously you still need to attend class, but be extra careful to follow the rules and do well so he doesn’t give you detention or make you stay after. If that happens anyway and he tries anything, give him a disgusted look and DON’T be nice! Be a real b**ch to him if he makes a move and don’t be afraid to protect yourself if he won’t stop. I suggest talking to someone at the school, as many others have already said. Good luck!

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Kuvri (yodaluv12) Fri, 19 Dec 2008 23:24:05 +0100
Reply from babacup /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619705 I think you should talk to the school counselor or another teacher that you trust. Just let them know he makes you feel uncomfortable and why he does. At this point, there is probable nothing that they can do. But you never know, other people may have made complaints and it may be what they need to investigate him. Or in the future if someone else complains, they will have a record of you complaining about him.

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babacup Fri, 19 Dec 2008 23:22:18 +0100
Reply from littlenick /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619660 If you look up the words child molester in the dictionary and your teacher’s picture comes up, you might have a problem!

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littlenick Fri, 19 Dec 2008 23:10:17 +0100
Reply from *Dougie* /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619657 Is this the same one that typed P on the computer and Pedophile came up as one of the P words?

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*Dougie* Fri, 19 Dec 2008 23:09:17 +0100
Reply from DoubleGin19 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619608 well thats what im good at :)

putting a smile on peoples face……….so have you talked to your friend about your teacher? and what does she think of him…….

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DoubleGin19 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 23:01:20 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619595 [quote DoubleGin19]well there you are then……….you are a fantasy of his. the quite shy girl, who is beautiful. and im sure you are. most people put themselves down. but i bet you have a great smile :)……and yes i wish my teachers kept me for detention. well the ones i fancied anyway……..they could spank me with whatever ruler they want lol!!!can i ask..when you say school do you mean english school? as in your under 16? or is it america? where school is under 18? (im just going with 18, i dont have a clue)[/quote]

and i just had to laugh at that :P

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Soph-14-94-8 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:59:19 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619592 [quote Michael Leibman][quote Soph-14-94-8][quote Michael Leibman]Have you done anything to solve the problem?If not, why not?[/quote]I havnt done anything, coz my mam would just say stuff like, ooh thats nothing, and theres nothing really there to tell a teacher or something, [/quote]If there’s nothing to tell about it, how can you make post after post about it? There must be something you have to say.[/quote]

i knew someone would come out with that, Mas told me to do it scince i apologised and said that i wanted opinions and stuff, and yeah, i just want to know what people think on it, thats all.

[quote DoubleGin19]well there you are then……….you are a fantasy of his. the quite shy girl, who is beautiful. and im sure you are. most people put themselves down. but i bet you have a great smile :)……and yes i wish my teachers kept me for detention. well the ones i fancied anyway……..they could spank me with whatever ruler they want lol!!!can i ask..when you say school do you mean english school? as in your under 16? or is it america? where school is under 18? (im just going with 18, i dont have a clue)[/quote]

english, 14 in year 10, leaving next year when im in year 11, got the same teacher in year 8, got him now, and i have him in year 11, great isnt it *sarcastic look on face*

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Soph-14-94-8 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:58:57 +0100
Reply from DoubleGin19 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619583 well there you are then……….you are a fantasy of his. the quite shy girl, who is beautiful. and im sure you are. most people put themselves down. but i bet you have a great smile :)……

and yes i wish my teachers kept me for detention. well the ones i fancied anyway……..
they could spank me with whatever ruler they want lol!!!

can i ask..when you say school do you mean english school? as in your under 16? or is it america? where school is under 18? (im just going with 18, i dont have a clue)

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DoubleGin19 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:56:42 +0100
Reply from Michael Leibman /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619580 [quote Soph-14-94-8][quote Michael Leibman]Have you done anything to solve the problem?If not, why not?[/quote]I havnt done anything, coz my mam would just say stuff like, ooh thats nothing, and theres nothing really there to tell a teacher or something, [/quote]

If there’s nothing to tell about it, how can you make post after post about it? There must be something you have to say.

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Michael Leibman Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:56:13 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619570 [quote 2Hazel]You and your friend could go together to the principle and tell them just what you told us. He could harm some other child if not stopped.[/quote]

[quote Anonymous]What options have you considered?[/quote]

well we both decided, if we think anything seriously wierd goes on with him and us or anyone in the class, we will tell the head teacher, only if he like, keeps us for detention and does something wierd or says something to us that we think is not right. We sit next to eachother in class, unfortunately in front of him, he put us there, its in register order, so we can look out for eachother and stuff.

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Soph-14-94-8 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:54:25 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619557 [quote DoubleGin19]honestly, if your that beautiful then no wonder he fancies you. but you should tell your school. he will get removed and you can get on with your life…….i fancied several teachers back in the day………if only they kept me for detention….[/quote]

hahaha i had to laugh at that, seriously, im nothing amazing to look at =/ oh and im really quiet in class as well so i cant really see why he has to pay attention to me (the checking my work bit)

[quote Anonymous]How do you expect to be able to help or resolve the situation, if you won’t go to any teachers or your parents? Do you just want us to sympathise, or do you actually want something to happen?[/quote]
No no! i dont want you to sympathise, its nothing to give sympathy about, i just wnat opinions and stuff really.

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Soph-14-94-8 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:51:40 +0100
Reply from Time Traveller /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619556 You and your friend could go together to the principle and tell them just what you told us. He could harm some other child if not stopped.

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Time Traveller Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:51:35 +0100
Reply from Dr. Wilson /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619549 If your parents won’t do anything you and your friend need to go talk to the principle or police.

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Dr. Wilson Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:49:33 +0100
Reply from DoubleGin19 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619548 honestly, if your that beautiful then no wonder he fancies you. but you should tell your school. he will get removed and you can get on with your life…….

i fancied several teachers back in the day………if only they kept me for detention….

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DoubleGin19 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:49:23 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619544 [quote Anonymous]Oooh hey :) I’ve had teachers like the one you’ve had… one asking to wash his car in a bikini (ew) another telling me to kiss him (double ew!). I’ve even had one who is in prison now because of the things he did to students.But the point is, teachers shouldn’t be allowed to act like that. Teachers AREN’T allowed to act like that, and the reason they get away with it is because students are too afraid to say anything. Sometimes they’re afraid they won’t be taken seriously, or they’ll get into trouble, maybe they’re scared of the teacher, maybe they think that people will blame them for anything that happens.As long as you stay silent, you are allowing the teacher to carry on with how he behaves. You don’t need to have a big part in anything, you don’t need to be centre of the action. Something as simple as telling your parents, who complain to the school. Do you have a tutor or a teacher you are particularly close to that you can speak to?[/quote]

well thats just SICK *look of horror on face* ANYWAYS i dont really want to take it to a teacher or anything coz of the above reasons ^ ^ ^

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Soph-14-94-8 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:48:51 +0100
Reply from Soph-14-94-8 /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619539 [quote 2Hazel]Stay away from him he is a letch. Tell your parents about him feeling your friends bum etc.[/quote]

The thing is, he is my teacher, i cant stay away from him, and about my friend, that was like 2 years ago now =/ i only found out like last month, coz i was telling her about how he freaks me out

[quote Michael Leibman]Have you done anything to solve the problem?If not, why not?[/quote]

I havnt done anything, coz my mam would just say stuff like, ooh thats nothing, and theres nothing really there to tell a teacher or something, and what he did to my friend, well thats kinda something i want to leave up to her to deal with.

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Soph-14-94-8 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:47:36 +0100
Reply from Michael Leibman /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619532 Have you done anything to solve the problem?

If not, why not?

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Michael Leibman Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:45:35 +0100
Reply from Time Traveller /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619529 Stay away from him he is a letch. Tell your parents about him feeling your friends bum etc.

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Time Traveller Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:44:39 +0100
Reply from - Fourthingsā„¢ - /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619527 Tell your parents and let them take the appropriate action.

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- Fourthingsā„¢ - Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:44:28 +0100
Reply from Grim_Hardcastle /post/228997-one-last-try#reply-4619517 I think this teacher should be removed. There are certain people who just ain`t right for a teacher position. This is such an individual. I think you should take this to the principal or talk to others in your school.

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Grim_Hardcastle Fri, 19 Dec 2008 22:42:28 +0100