One of the problems here is I don’t want to end all forms of communication. I learnt my lesson after the first girl and now I find it very difficult to let go of someone I find so special. It doesn’t matter what I do or where I am–she has a way of invading my thoughts…even my dreams. I feel like perhaps I will need better closure here. I have this urge to talk to her and tell her that I like her, but at the same time a resounding fear of the awkwardness and rejection that that could entail. But then maybe we could still be friends…I just don’t know.

The rightness or the wrongness should not be the issue. All that matters is that you love each other. I think there’s somebody out there for you. Keep on looking for that girl…even if it means falling for the wrong ones before you end up with the girl.

About trying to move on, I suggest you end all forms of communication with the girl so as not to re-enkindle old feelings. Indulge in a good hobby. Busy yourself with self-improvement and social activites. Being busy would keep your mind off of her. Plus, it helps you become a better person.