[Help] An Egocentric and yet Selfless babbling of idea... Updates to this post /post/234900-an-egocentric-and-yet-selfless-babb Tue, 24 Nov 2009 20:13:25 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/234900-an-egocentric-and-yet-selfless-babb#reply-5194625 I completely agree with you guys, love isn’t something you throw around like a baseball or put out then take back, it’s something you need to feel, you can’t make it, and very rarely can you destroy it, it’s just there.

]]> Anonymous Sun, 16 Aug 2009 04:00:04 +0100 Reply from nidawi /post/234900-an-egocentric-and-yet-selfless-babb#reply-5147514 My granny once told me a wonderful piece of advice– love is not about compromise its about being yourself and doing what makes you happy and finding someone that likes to see you that way…………

]]> nidawi Thu, 23 Jul 2009 01:24:32 +0100 Reply from ktor3 /post/234900-an-egocentric-and-yet-selfless-babb#reply-4940270 Very powerfull statement, but I agree lots of people fill their mouth saying “I love you” or “I’m in Love”. Really some dont have an idea whats love, I’m 39 was married for 21 years I thought i was in love all those years, not knowing really what to feel, how does it feel, what it does to you, untill I found a new guy that showed me what love is. And how do I know that, because I had to compare how I was before and how I’m now. Its an amazing feeling u give your all, you cant get them aout of your head, you cant wait to be with them, your eyes are full all light at all times that people can see right through you. HAPPINESS is all around you. its simple yes.. and unexpected true.,,. but when its there you’ll know it. Now I also know how it feels not to be loved,and it hurts like hell. I being there and now I will take my time and look very well before I open my heart to any one, at least I know the two worlds and I feel lucky I went through it, not that its a great deal because you have to fail in life sometimes to learn, but I know now. Its going to take more than an ” I love you baby ” for me to believe it.
But trust me.. you will know when u fall in love, the world takes a different turn and u will in it to find out.

]]> ktor3 Mon, 13 Apr 2009 14:27:15 +0100 Reply from retrospace18 /post/234900-an-egocentric-and-yet-selfless-babb#reply-4686414 Thank you so much for taking the time to write that down. I really enjoyed readying your thoughts and ideas on such a confusing and mysterious topic.

And I agree completely , Love is contradictory. Its amazing how such a simply thing can be so crazy, And unexpected, And yet….Simple and expected. It really is perhaps the single most interesting thing in this universe.

I find it really interesting as well, That you , self proclaimed, have never experienced love, and yet know so much about it already. Another odd wonder of the feeling I suppose.

Please keep the ideas coming =D

]]> retrospace18 Sat, 10 Jan 2009 06:54:38 +0100 Reply from Polak_:] /post/234900-an-egocentric-and-yet-selfless-babb#reply-4685164 im not old enough to have experience love yet. And everywhere i see people, who for some reason, cant stop thinking about someone, or that someone completely overwhelmed their mind and they cant think straight. They say they’re in love, and then they break up the next day. The waterworks last for a week, and then they love someone else. What that is, what they’re feeling, i don’t think that’s love. Thats strong physical attraction. what i think love is, is something else. i think that love takes time to make. Love isn’t when someone loves them so much that they give them tons of presents, or do everything for them. Thats not love, because once u stop doing that they don’t love u no more because they don’t think u love them, or something like that. love is when someone that is happy just to be around u. in essence, love is friendship. Everyone’s mind is brainwashed from romantic comedies that love is fireworks. That someone cant live without the other without dying. Or the idea of love at first sight. i think that love at first sight is bull. if love is as little as seeing someone and u immediately love them , and cant live without them, that’s almost depressing. but love is important. People need to feel love and be loved. Some people just cant function without that constant attention. Thats just the way they are. And statistically people who are married, or have a long term boy/girlfriend are much happier than their single counterparts. i think that u gave up to quick. People find love and lose it countless of times. But that one moment, when u met ur boy/girl, and it just clicks, that makes it all worth it. No matter how much u put down love, when u get there u still will feel amazing. im sorry if im contradicting myself, but that’s the way love is. Love is so contradictory, so many cons, but equal number of pros. there are people who say that love doesn’t even exist. Then scientific types. i must admit that i have some of that outlook. I know that love fundamentally is just alot of chemical reactions, but its too depressing to think of it like that. I think that u should go out and not give up on love. (sorry if my explanation was confusing, contradictory, or just doesn’t make sense, but see, love doesn’t make sense, and my thoughts are all jumbled about this topic.)

]]> Polak_:] Fri, 09 Jan 2009 21:53:09 +0100 The post was edited by retrospace18 /post/234900-an-egocentric-and-yet-selfless-babb#reply-7688880 retrospace18 Fri, 09 Jan 2009 21:16:00 +0100