[Help] I lost a very close friend today , he was like a brother

Reply from troy_

troy_ — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 04:07:23 +0100

i know what ur going through bro… today a closest friend of mine was murdered, while having a dinner at home, we use to play sports together and i have never seen a guy like him with such a pure heart, it feels like a knife going through my heart.. he was so joyfull and good hearted , he was married a year ago and was very happy living a wondefull life with his wife, but now he is no more with us,,cant even believe this just happened… he was from pakistan n was murdered by the talibans… hope they all die a pain full death for wat they have done to such wounderfull people, i pray to God to grant my friend and urs a place in heaven and give their family patience and strenth to face such terrible newz…

Reply from auroranflas

auroranflas — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 14:43:20 +0100

I’m glad you got to speak with him before this happened. It is very sad. I have lost three friends suddenly… it is a horrible pain, but one that will bring you and the people who knew him closer together. I definitely know how you feel, and I hope your good memories together console you through a tough time.

Reply from Vyste

Vyste — Sat, 02 May 2009 15:23:46 +0100

Im sorry about your loss!remember all the good times you spent together and be glad that at least the last time you spoke , you werent mean to him.and make hom a bouqeut for his funeral!!!!and also support his other friends and family strugling with the loss!!!!!helping other will distract you and meke you feel better!

Reply from scuzzle.jami

scuzzle.jami — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 16:42:01 +0100

i am very sorry to hear that about your friend, gokumane1 is right you should think about all the good times that make you laugh and cry, to lose someone close to you is very shocking, and unexpected for you. but you must carry on in life and do your best in things for your dearly departed friend, and remember him as a very good friend. again i am sorry to hear, and hope you feel better soon. :)

Reply from gokumane1

gokumane1 — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 02:25:28 +0100

Oh I am so sorry that must be very bad on you i think you should remember the good times and stay positive he was a good man so he must of went to Heaven.

Reply from ~LazyDaze~

~LazyDaze~ — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 21:24:09 +0100

No thanks needed but I appriciate it.

If you want to talk more about your friend, anything you want to vent about or just to feel sad etc I am here to listen, if you want, or shout me :)

Reply from Goodfella

Goodfella — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 21:20:46 +0100

LazyDaze , thanks for caring .

Reply from ~LazyDaze~

~LazyDaze~ — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 21:05:09 +0100

Oh, poor kid :S

But at least you have someone to share his life with, I know it may not seem that way now but in a few months maybe less you will have someone to laugh with over how he used to be, what he got up to etc but more importantly you have someone to share the grief with.
Be there for each other :)

Reply from Goodfella

Goodfella — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 20:58:26 +0100

Yes a wife and a 16 year old son , were close………………………Thanks everyone !!

Reply from ~LazyDaze~

~LazyDaze~ — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 20:34:21 +0100

I’m back :)

What I wanted to ask was did your friend have any family and if he did do you know them?

Reply from n.u.m.b.e.r

n.u.m.b.e.r — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 20:29:11 +0100

what a loss! i wish u get over this terrible situation,
yours my condolences.

Reply from ~LazyDaze~

~LazyDaze~ — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 19:50:08 +0100

I wish I could stop and talk with you longer but I just have to go and feed a baby, speak in abit :)

Reply from brooksa050

brooksa050 — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 19:49:55 +0100

I am so sorry that this happened. Its ashame that God does not tell us when our time is up but take it as a lesson to live everyday with purpose and fullfillment because tomorrow isn’t promised.

Reply from Goodfella

Goodfella — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 19:48:04 +0100

Yes shocked !!! Thank you so much for your time .

Reply from ~LazyDaze~

~LazyDaze~ — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 19:45:49 +0100

I am so sorry to hear that, You must be feeling shocked right now rather than anything else yet.
Sudden death is hard to wrap your head around :S

I hope your ok.