[Help] Good friends? Updates to this post /post/258635-good-friends Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:56:01 +0100 Reply from Ex-Penguin /post/258635-good-friends#reply-4895570 It’s a good point, I guess I am the sort of person that needs a kick in the head before I start doing things. I guess the thing that annoyed me is that they always say how good friends we all are, and if we have a problem we just talk about it, and then they go for it and shout at me. If they’d have approached it in a more friendly way, rather than just yelling at me, I might have taken it on board quicker. And the way they were talking made me think that they’ve always been annoyed at me. Or maybe I’m just paranoid.

]]> Ex-Penguin Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:49:16 +0100 Reply from Dr. Ralph /post/258635-good-friends#reply-4895559 Maybe they are just trying to get a reaction out of you. Sometimes people need a good going over to get them back on their feet and fighting. It woke you up enough to write this post!

]]> Dr. Ralph Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:43:34 +0100 Reply from anomonusss /post/258635-good-friends#reply-4895541 Well done for plugging up the courage to try to help yourself!

Maybe your friends were saying that stuff to try to help you by trying to make you talk about how you feel?… anyway your not ridiculous, and your life is Holy and worth it!

Please try not to feel lonely or lost because were all here to help each other :)

]]> anomonusss Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:37:50 +0100 Reply from Ex-Penguin /post/258635-good-friends#reply-4895529 Thankyou guys.
I might try talking to them and see if they’ll discuss it. I have the feeling they’re not keen to talk about it, though, because I think they’ll just get mad at me again and tell me things aren’t happening fast enough or something. I’ll give it a try though.

]]> Ex-Penguin Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:33:09 +0100 Reply from penguin ◕‿◕ /post/258635-good-friends#reply-4895512 if thats what they think of you then stand up for your self. it’s about what you think not them. they obviously dont have the faintest idea in how you feel. it’s not your fault coz you dont wanna change for thier sake do you? who cares what they think? not you, thats who.

]]> penguin ◕‿◕ Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:27:26 +0100 Reply from Red_Sky /post/258635-good-friends#reply-4895492 If your friends hadn’t tried to talk to you before this, that was definitely a bad way of going about confronting you. But I certainly have blown up at my friends before, though the whole group attack thing was a very poor choice, at least if all they did was yell at you. If you’re feeling weird about it, talk to them about it. Let them know what’s up and that you are trying and you do see what they’re talking about, but that it’s not because you’re trying to gain attention or anything. Really just explain to them what’s going on. I mean if you think it’s worth it.

Hopefully it works out for ya :)

]]> Red_Sky Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:23:18 +0100