[Help] the last thing she said before she left.. Updates to this post /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she Sat, 05 Dec 2009 06:22:08 +0100 Reply from Risen Demon /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944362 thx fatso
that makes sense
i often do find myself losing sight
but wen i try to think of myself
i feel i get a bit too selfish lol
O.o i need to find some sort of balance..

]]> Risen Demon Wed, 15 Apr 2009 03:02:55 +0100 Reply from Fatso /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944339 it means she believes you are taking her for granted.
what does she do in the relationship? does she work? clean? cook? does she do things that proper ladies wouldnt becase you like it?
would you switch places with her?

if you answered yes to any of those things then it sounds like she deserves an apology.

you also have to think about yourself. what thought processes lead you to fall into the behavior pattern that caused her to feel the way she does?

and you also have to think about what is best for you, which in my experience is often the root of the issue in situations like these. men lose sight of themselves. they do this because they are raised to think that is what they should do.
good luck.

]]> Fatso Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:53:19 +0100 Reply from Hellacious Haro /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944282 Eh.. I don’t know…
I guess you can say thank you more often?
That might helps
xD

]]> Hellacious Haro Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:32:40 +0100 Reply from nicoleee(: /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944274 look at all the minor details, whether its fixing dinner for you or something anything. just think about it

]]> nicoleee(: Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:30:09 +0100 Reply from Risen Demon /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944273 btw, no idea wy it posted anyonymus.. but it is my post. =p

]]> Risen Demon Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:29:32 +0100 Reply from Risen Demon /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944268 okay thx.. ye i think that may be the case that i often hav no idea wat she suposedly does for me. i dont rely recognize it, maybe im looking in the wrong direction? any ideas on how to b mor aware or even identify wat it is shes doing? o.O

]]> Risen Demon Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:25:41 +0100 Reply from Hellacious Haro /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944259 It sounds like she’s leaving you because she feels unappreciated…

]]> Hellacious Haro Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:21:53 +0100 Reply from nicoleee(: /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944244 sounds like she left for your own good? i dont know exactly but thats what it sounds like to me.

]]> nicoleee(: Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:16:07 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944224 Just what it sounds like…she was trying to do things for you, but they probably weren’t the things that you wanted her to be doing, so you didn’t notice them. Apparently men and women are different like that. (assuming you’re a guy?) Basically, she was trying to make you happy and failed, and that sucked for both of you…
Sorry, I realize I don’t know anything about the circumstances but that’s my guess.

]]> Anonymous Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:09:00 +0100 Reply from cheryl.lichen /post/265727-the-last-thing-she-said-before-she#reply-4944218 hmmmmm…any background???

]]> cheryl.lichen Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:08:04 +0100