[Help] Currently I have been with someone for over 2 months. Updates to this post /post/272155-currently-i-have-been-with-someone Tue, 01 Dec 2009 19:15:11 +0100 Reply from Pac's Queen /post/272155-currently-i-have-been-with-someone#reply-4985736 [quote lucky8]Love has no time limit, you can’t help who u fall for and when it happens. Make him a nice dinner…. or write him a poem.[/quote]

I think both of those are great ideas. I’ll write him a song and take him out to dinner and we can talk and get to know each other better because it seems that I possibly fell in love with him before I got to know him very well and now everythings coming out

]]> Pac's Queen Sun, 03 May 2009 17:52:56 +0100 Reply from Pac's Queen /post/272155-currently-i-have-been-with-someone#reply-4985733 [quote matthewstuart3]I think your ‘off’ behavior is a your in built defense mechanism coming into play because you are afraid of losing him and don’t want to get hurt.. it’s almost as if you setting yourself up for the worst with him. just relax and enjoy the relationship. Be open and honest, and you won’t go wrong.[/quote]

I agree that because I’ve been hurt in the past I might be pushin him away 2 save myself from making it happen again. Also before we got together I had ended communication with someone who I cared about greatly and I dont know if I’m taking it out on him. But I’m scared I’m going to loose him. Maybe I should take him out

]]> Pac's Queen Sun, 03 May 2009 17:50:47 +0100 Reply from matthewstuart3 /post/272155-currently-i-have-been-with-someone#reply-4985491 I think your ‘off’ behavior is a your in built defense mechanism coming into play because you are afraid of losing him and don’t want to get hurt.. it’s almost as if you setting yourself up for the worst with him. just relax and enjoy the relationship. Be open and honest, and you won’t go wrong.

]]> matthewstuart3 Sun, 03 May 2009 15:09:43 +0100 Reply from lucky8 /post/272155-currently-i-have-been-with-someone#reply-4985376 Love has no time limit, you can’t help who u fall for and when it happens. Make him a nice dinner…. or write him a poem.

]]> lucky8 Sun, 03 May 2009 13:17:31 +0100 Reply from Lavis Knight /post/272155-currently-i-have-been-with-someone#reply-4985338 I agree with Anon, take your time it has only been 2 months.

If you are pushing him away you really need to try to analyze why you are doing it. Is it a certain emotion? Is it something he does? If you do not know why then you may be doomed to repeat it over and over.

]]> Lavis Knight Sun, 03 May 2009 12:32:35 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/272155-currently-i-have-been-with-someone#reply-4985334 Two months with someone… there is no way that early into a relationship you can be sure that he is the love of your life… or that he will even be around this time next week…. slow down…. relax….. enjoy the relationship for what it is…. eight weeks of getting to know someone better…. 56 days of being around someone you enjoy the company of.

]]> Anonymous Sun, 03 May 2009 12:27:59 +0100