[Help] is it him or is it just me? Updates to this post /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me Mon, 30 Nov 2009 15:41:16 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4991997 [quote LeoLady89]My advice from expierience is as follows. Find somebody else because once this guy sees that he no longer holds your attention he will get jealous. If he texts don’t answer but me nice to him. If it turns out he really likes you then you will know what to do. Some people just do not realize how special someone is until they are no longer there…[/quote]

wow leolady. i like that! thanks really. i think its worth a try. :)

]]> shazzy8 Wed, 06 May 2009 03:38:25 +0100 Reply from LeoLady89 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4991270 My advice from expierience is as follows. Find somebody else because once this guy sees that he no longer holds your attention he will get jealous. If he texts don’t answer but me nice to him. If it turns out he really likes you then you will know what to do. Some people just do not realize how special someone is until they are no longer there…

]]> LeoLady89 Tue, 05 May 2009 22:14:07 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988424 [quote littlenick]Try to make it work.[/quote]

thanks nick. :)

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 17:11:44 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988423 [quote velvettundr][quote shazzy8][quote velvettundr]If you’re not going to ask and he’s being an *** then how bout for the next week don’t really talk to him. When he texts you and ask what you’re doing then say you are going out with friends or something.[/quote]

ah. thats a good idea…i should try that. though its gonna be really hard cos everytime i try to keep to myself, he haunts my mind.

honestly, we just click somehow, as much as we quarrel. :)[/quote]

I know what you mean. It’s really hard but you gotta ask yourself if you BOTH are clicking or if you’re just attracted to him. If it’s not going both ways then it’s honestly not gonna be worth it. I know this is hard but i’m sure whichever way it goes will work out[/quote]

yup. i see where ur coming from. thanks velvettundr. :)

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 17:11:07 +0100 Reply from velvettundr /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988411 [quote shazzy8][quote velvettundr]If you’re not going to ask and he’s being an *** then how bout for the next week don’t really talk to him. When he texts you and ask what you’re doing then say you are going out with friends or something.[/quote]

ah. thats a good idea…i should try that. though its gonna be really hard cos everytime i try to keep to myself, he haunts my mind.

honestly, we just click somehow, as much as we quarrel. :)[/quote]

I know what you mean. It’s really hard but you gotta ask yourself if you BOTH are clicking or if you’re just attracted to him. If it’s not going both ways then it’s honestly not gonna be worth it. I know this is hard but i’m sure whichever way it goes will work out

]]> velvettundr Mon, 04 May 2009 17:08:10 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988410 Try to make it work.

]]> littlenick Mon, 04 May 2009 17:07:38 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988398 [quote usurper][quote shazzy8][quote Miss Jessica Bunny]Just ask him[/quote]

ah. been thinking of it. but our friends who knows about how im feeling towards him think that i be patient with it and keep it slow. hah.

plus i dare not ask actually. hah.[/quote]

In my experience, this usually means that he doesnt like you. if the mutual friend is advising against it. But there is only one way to truly find out[/quote]

ouh yes. especially the ones whos close to him advised that i give some time. what other way is that?

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 17:03:09 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988389 [quote littlenick]Sounds like a love/hate relationship and neither one of you can make up your minds as to whether it’s worth it to give it a shot. So when you think you might be close to giving in and giving the relationship a chance, you begin to quarrel because it’s easier to quarrel and maybe “destroy” the relationship for that moment or day than to actually make an effort and really find out if it can work.[/quote]

i guess what u say applies to him. but not to me. cos since the 1st time i knew him, we bicker alot but we always end up laughing it off. and til now, it becomes a norm and we never really take things to heart everytime we quarrel.

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 17:00:45 +0100 Reply from usurper /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988384 [quote shazzy8][quote Miss Jessica Bunny]Just ask him[/quote]

ah. been thinking of it. but our friends who knows about how im feeling towards him think that i be patient with it and keep it slow. hah.

plus i dare not ask actually. hah.[/quote]

In my experience, this usually means that he doesnt like you. if the mutual friend is advising against it. But there is only one way to truly find out

]]> usurper Mon, 04 May 2009 16:59:37 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988375 [quote velvettundr]If you’re not going to ask and he’s being an *** then how bout for the next week don’t really talk to him. When he texts you and ask what you’re doing then say you are going out with friends or something.[/quote]

ah. thats a good idea…i should try that. though its gonna be really hard cos everytime i try to keep to myself, he haunts my mind.

honestly, we just click somehow, as much as we quarrel. :)

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:57:31 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988374 Sounds like a love/hate relationship and neither one of you can make up your minds as to whether it’s worth it to give it a shot. So when you think you might be close to giving in and giving the relationship a chance, you begin to quarrel because it’s easier to quarrel and maybe “destroy” the relationship for that moment or day than to actually make an effort and really find out if it can work.

]]> littlenick Mon, 04 May 2009 16:57:15 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988360 [quote oipriorgior]the relation will be worst effected by avoiding it, at least you can tell him about you tangent feeling and at worse he rejects you, maybe makes a joke and you move on, and at best he like you to and is to chicken to say it[/quote]

hahah. thats cute. thanks anyway. :)
im waiting for the right time to ask actually.. but when is it… i dont really know.

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:52:36 +0100 Reply from velvettundr /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988355 If you’re not going to ask and he’s being an *** then how bout for the next week don’t really talk to him. When he texts you and ask what you’re doing then say you are going out with friends or something. Oooor you can think about the kind of person he really is and ask yourself why you really wanna go out with him

]]> velvettundr Mon, 04 May 2009 16:51:12 +0100 Reply from oipriorgior /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988350 the relation will be worst effected by avoiding it, at least you can tell him about you tangent feeling and at worse he rejects you, maybe makes a joke and you move on, and at best he like you to and is to chicken to say it

]]> oipriorgior Mon, 04 May 2009 16:49:09 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988342 [quote oipriorgior]for the love of monkeydom why are you wasting your time moping over this when you could ask him and get it over with, ego or no ego get it over with and get it out of you mind[/quote]

its easier said than done but theres lots to be considered really. cos we are very good friends and we have alot of mutual friends as well. i just didnt want to affect the friendship in any way.

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:45:06 +0100 Reply from oipriorgior /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988329 for the love of monkeydom why are you wasting your time moping over this when you could ask him and get it over with, ego or no ego get it over with and get it out of you mind

]]> oipriorgior Mon, 04 May 2009 16:40:25 +0100 The post was edited by shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-8294673 shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:37:28 +0100 The post was retagged by shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-8294664 shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:35:53 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988319 [quote usurper]What do you mean “his ego that doesn’t want people to know that he may like me back”

Why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel like that?[/quote]

well. maybe hes too ego to confess?

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:34:59 +0100 Reply from shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988317 [quote Miss Jessica Bunny]Just ask him[/quote]

ah. been thinking of it. but our friends who knows about how im feeling towards him think that i be patient with it and keep it slow. hah.

plus i dare not ask actually. hah.

]]> shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:34:15 +0100 Reply from usurper /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988308 What do you mean “his ego that doesn’t want people to know that he may like me back”

Why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel like that?

]]> usurper Mon, 04 May 2009 16:31:35 +0100 Reply from Miss Jessica Bunny /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-4988306 Just ask him

]]> Miss Jessica Bunny Mon, 04 May 2009 16:31:32 +0100 The post was edited by shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-8294621 shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:29:33 +0100 The post was edited by shazzy8 /post/272555-is-it-him-or-is-it-just-me#reply-8294618 shazzy8 Mon, 04 May 2009 16:28:48 +0100