[Help] I have a wonderful boyfriend.

Reply from metropolyric

metropolyric — Thu, 21 May 2009 21:12:09 +0100

True all of the above said; however, you have to realize that guys this ambitious and dedicated to achieving their goal will not let anything stand in their way. It’s not that he doesn’t care about you, he just has a long term goal he ultimately wants to accomplish. Sure, it may also be a bit of time that you’re asking from him, such as attending his sister’s graduation, but there could be many reasons why he is acting like this: maybe he feels his sister and family deserve his full attention…or maybe he’s so busy he forgot? To be honest, you’ll have to clarify this with him.

Reply from R.A.M

R.A.M — Thu, 21 May 2009 21:01:57 +0100

Well!
Did you try telling him that you would love to attend his sis’s graduation as well?
Or are the number of seats limited?
thats may be why he didnt invite you as there werent any spare seats…

Reply from humblylost

humblylost — Thu, 21 May 2009 20:59:03 +0100

you should definitely tell him how you feel. He may be under a lot of stress right now, and it seems you are doing your best to support him however he needs you to… But he needs to meet your needs in this relationships too. It goes both ways! And maybe he has no idea you feel hurt. Try bringing it up in a non-defensive way, and ask if there’s a time you could talk about this. maybe you could even write a note to him, if that seems easier at the time being.