[Help] She's going to ruin my sister's birthday... Updates to this post /post/283862-shes-going-to-ruin-my-sister Tue, 01 Dec 2009 06:32:05 +0100 Reply from pengy2 /post/283862-shes-going-to-ruin-my-sister#reply-5200659 i would find a way to lock her inside her car so she couldnt get out and take her cell phone hehehehe

]]> pengy2 Wed, 19 Aug 2009 16:05:19 +0100 Reply from chocomad /post/283862-shes-going-to-ruin-my-sister#reply-5182165 Take her out somewhere.

]]> chocomad Sun, 09 Aug 2009 13:11:09 +0100 Reply from marmoffi /post/283862-shes-going-to-ruin-my-sister#reply-5135609 Why don’t you and your silbings go out and celebrate your sister’s birthday, just the three of you and have a good time. Then celebrate it a second time including your father and his lady friend. Make a jesture of peace. Call her up and invite her to your sister’s second birthday gathering.

Your father will be pleased and his lady friend will be surprised. Stop complaining to your father about her. Accept her as she is. Eventually your father will come around and so will she when she realizes she doesn’t have to defend herself against you to your father. Your father might also come around when he sees that you are making an effort to get along with his lady friend.

It’s very possible that your father’s lady friend is afraid that your dislike for her will affect her relationship with your father. People react differently to fear.

You can’t change your father but you can change how you feel. You have a right to be happy and so does your father. Be respectful of your father and be nice to this woman. Accept her as she is and don’t let her get to you. Take the higher road. It’s going to be hard but accept it with a grain of salt and you will start to feel better and maybe she, herself will come around when she realizes she can’t get to you.

Good luck!

]]> marmoffi Fri, 17 Jul 2009 14:48:48 +0100 Reply from IDon'tEverQuit /post/283862-shes-going-to-ruin-my-sister#reply-5061667 Wow, now that’s a rough situation :( I’m sorry. I’m not really sure how you can stop them from coming….The only thing I can think of (but won’t solve what you’re asking) is to take her out (just her) and do something special. If the family thing is a must do thing, take her out afterwards and cheer her up.

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