[Help] how do you tell you parents someone has asked you out for the first time? Updates to this post /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone Wed, 02 Dec 2009 09:49:59 +0100 Reply from robinellengorha /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5071660 Personally, I would just tell them I’m going out for a bit with a friend, tell them that right now, it isn’t a big deal. If you two go out on more dates, or if it evolves into a relationship, then would be the time to really talk to your parents about what it means that you two are going out, explain how you feel and how happy you are. Make sure you take their feelings into consideration, and remind them how reponsable you are.

]]> robinellengorha Sun, 14 Jun 2009 05:17:33 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5062933 so all that aside, should i like, wait or something?

]]> Anonymous Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:42:16 +0100 Reply from carpe_noctem /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5062876 [quote advice queen… ish][quote advice queen… ish]dont worry, my parents know im a very responsilbe 17 yr old. we’re be rare :P[/quote]

wow you make it sound like all teenagers are addicts… lol[/quote]

oops, sorry. mum’s using my account again… see what i mean? nosey.

]]> carpe_noctem Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:20:43 +0100 Reply from carpe_noctem /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5062861 [quote advice queen… ish]dont worry, my parents know im a very responsilbe 17 yr old. we’re be rare :P[/quote]

wow you make it sound like all teenagers are addicts… lol

]]> carpe_noctem Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:18:09 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5062854 my parents trust me… its not a party with alcohol, and the parents will be there. im 16…

]]> Anonymous Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:15:03 +0100 Reply from carpe_noctem /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5062849 dont worry, my parents know im a very responsilbe 17 yr old. we’re be rare :P

]]> carpe_noctem Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:12:07 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5062838 how old are you? if your under 15 i suggest telling them in advance, like a couple of days, because if you don’t they will think your irresponsible, if its a late night party, you need your parents okay to go anyway. and keep you phone on.

]]> Anonymous Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:08:38 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5062827 so its been set, right after a party at a friends house, everyones there, him too, and we’ll probably go right after… so should i just mention it before i go? or tell the parents after…….. they dont know when the part ends, nobody really does.

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]]> Anonymous Wed, 10 Jun 2009 00:04:21 +0100 Reply from 231me231 /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061383 get the date b4 u say anything then. and when u ask 4 a date. make it really casual, talk about places to go then ask if he wants to go, set a date. get his numba ;) then tell ur parents

]]> 231me231 Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:17:42 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061375 but the date isnt set, it was a, ’so… maybe sometime…?’ rather than a ‘would you like to …. this friday?’ soim not sure it would work…

[quote 231me231]talk about him a bit, say something like (this is just an example) John is really funny the other day he said tht his brother made a squirrel out of a hamster!. THATS JUST AN EXAMPLE! but then maybe say that your going out with him to the cinema. make sure you know your cerfue and keep your phone on (even on silent) and say if your worried about me phone me.[/quote]

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:14:43 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061370 [quote 231me231]talk about him a bit, say something like (this is just an example) John is really funny the other day he said tht his brother made a squirrel out of a hamster!. THATS JUST AN EXAMPLE! but then maybe say that your going out with him to the cinema. make sure you know your cerfue and keep your phone on (even on silent) and say if your worried about me phone me.[/quote]

i guess so… interesting choice of example btw… lol

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:13:30 +0100 Reply from 231me231 /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061368 talk about him a bit, say something like (this is just an example) John is really funny the other day he said tht his brother made a squirrel out of a hamster!. THATS JUST AN EXAMPLE! but then maybe say that your going out with him to the cinema. make sure you know your cerfue and keep your phone on (even on silent) and say if your worried about me phone me.

]]> 231me231 Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:12:20 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061364 my parents even like him… whats wrong with me?? even worse, im nervouse to tell my best friend cuz she thinks he’s a little wierd… i would never let that impact a relationship, but i’m still nervouse, im so spineless!!!!

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:11:19 +0100 Reply from riyasharmagir /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061361 my parents r strict…they wont allow me ever…..though they knw the boy…..

]]> riyasharmagir Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:08:11 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061355 [quote Anonymous]lol mine are really carefree. i could go up to them and say ‘pick a cerfue’ and they would say something like ‘8-9pm’ and i’d just leave XD and for a 15 year old 9pm is a little late i think XD, they dont even care who i go out with[/quote]

jealouse!! so what do i do?

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:05:48 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061353 lol mine are really carefree. i could go up to them and say ‘pick a cerfue’ and they would say something like ‘8-9pm’ and i’d just leave XD and for a 15 year old 9pm is a little late i think XD, they dont even care who i go out with

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:04:53 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061352 [quote advice queen… ish][quote Anonymous]go, im going out wid a mate on (whatever date) trust me they wont care.[/quote]

you’d think so… but my parents actually made me show them how to get to a place where my friends will be having a beach party. as in kool-aid tanning oil and watermelon party, not wild fire beer typico teenage party. beleive me, they’d want to know everything down to the color of his socks. they’r odd people, my folks…[/quote]

my parents arn’t that wierd, but they would be nosey…

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:04:43 +0100 Reply from carpe_noctem /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061349 [quote Anonymous]go, im going out wid a mate on (whatever date) trust me they wont care.[/quote]

you’d think so… but my parents actually made me show them how to get to a place where my friends will be having a beach party. as in kool-aid tanning oil and watermelon party, not wild fire beer typico teenage party. beleive me, they’d want to know everything down to the color of his socks. they’r odd people, my folks…

]]> carpe_noctem Tue, 09 Jun 2009 06:02:28 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061339 go, im going out wid a mate on (whatever date) trust me they wont care.

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 05:56:35 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061335 its just that im really shy… should i just wait for it to be a set date them just drop it in somewhere?

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 05:54:05 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061330 oh sorry i didnt ur whole thing…

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 05:52:53 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/283895-how-do-you-tell-you-parents-someone#reply-5061329 who ever u are closer to, u shud tel them first, jus say some boy asked me outm what shud i do, or if u already said yes or no, ur parnets will prbably jus say its part of growing up :)

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Jun 2009 05:52:34 +0100