[Help] Ok, So how do i make my ex-husband leave me alone. Updates to this post /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband Tue, 01 Dec 2009 11:03:40 +0100 Reply from Depressed702 /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband#reply-5070704 I will try. thank you!

]]> Depressed702 Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:42:02 +0100 Reply from c-eek /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband#reply-5070702 [quote Depressed702]OMG! my kids are only 5 and 8. I have long ways to go huh?[/quote]

Yes, but you don’t have to deal with him the way you are now. Just cut the communication, unless it directly concerns visitation or other important child-related matters. It sounds like he does not have much to do and amuses himself by getting a rise out of you. End the drama by not responding.

]]> c-eek Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:41:00 +0100 Reply from Depressed702 /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband#reply-5070693 OMG! my kids are only 5 and 8. I have long ways to go huh?

]]> Depressed702 Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:36:19 +0100 Reply from c-eek /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband#reply-5070684 My ex-husband and I were like you and your ex until I decided I was really not interested in communicating with him any longer. At that point, I just stopped talking with him about any subject that did not relate to our children. Once the children were grown, my contact with him came to an end, except for rare family celebrations, like weddings and graduations.

]]> c-eek Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:33:39 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband#reply-5070663 Both of you will be connected until your kids grow up, marry and go off on their own. Your kids should see him for what he is and will grow up resenting him, but that is what he is sowing in them. Every dog has its day and your husband’s day will come sooner or later. You will see.

]]> littlenick Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:18:57 +0100 Reply from Depressed702 /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband#reply-5070662 But he just makes me so mad. I just want to yell and choke him LOL! but i know you are right, i shouldn’t let him get to me. I guess am just more frustrated at the fact that he will NEVER go away.

]]> Depressed702 Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:17:15 +0100 Reply from NoGifts /post/285227-ok-so-how-do-i-make-my-ex-husband#reply-5070656 He will never go away, so you are going to have to find a way to deal with it. First, the children should never be in the middle of it. Tell him that you are not going to tolerate that any more. Second, center yourself. You know you are happy in your life and you don’t have to listen to what he says. Do not argue with him, do not even respond to his craziness. He will start wondering why you’re not fighting back, you should tell him “I’m not participating in the crazy aspects of our relationship any more.” Then don’t. Let him say what he wants, he’ll soon get tired of having no response. Act completely normal like you would with a co-worker. After a while, he will start to act normal too.

]]> NoGifts Sat, 13 Jun 2009 19:12:39 +0100