[Help] I am Contimplating SUICIDE and need help ! Updates to this post /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need Fri, 04 Dec 2009 23:03:10 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5078129 oh well

]]> Anonymous Wed, 17 Jun 2009 07:49:42 +0100 Reply from srnityblu /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5078124 It is never too late. You are not beyond help or hope… Please find a way back to your computer and we can help you work through this.

You are very courageous and very strong, more than you know…

]]> srnityblu Wed, 17 Jun 2009 07:45:23 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5077793 I think its just to late.. Ty anyways those who replied…

]]> Thunders_lai Wed, 17 Jun 2009 02:06:07 +0100 Reply from srnityblu /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076717 As a crisis line worker, I can honestly say that the rule for us is that we never get help unless the person was suicidal in that moment while on the phone.

Your safety and the safety of others is most important and I truly hope that you find the help you need and deserve.

If you ever want to talk here, We’re listening.

Hope you have a better day today.
hugs!
Shannon

]]> srnityblu Tue, 16 Jun 2009 15:59:38 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076058 These are very good people and can help at its best its for consultation and can give you a very good place near you where they can help you with this, people who actually have been through this also will help etc.

]]> Anonymous Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:25:34 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076055 YEs I got it call this number and tell them how you feel 1-(707) 763-3576.

]]> Anonymous Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:24:08 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076048 Goodnight and have a good day i hope :)

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:17:22 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076044 well ty very much and im sorry for taking up your time ill call both my dr and the hotline tomorrow thank you very much have a good nite

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:15:21 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076036 begining to think that day will never come im 34 yr old male and i feel like a 90 yr old man some days

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:13:02 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076032 [quote Thunders_lai]um no all i did was go see another family physician asking a second opinion about my care and i was told that if i dont like hiw services then it might be good for me to remember that u can remove me from my contract at any time.. its like im going through hell with this guy[/quote]

Im not sure if they can do that or not. Im not legal expert.

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:12:37 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076029 Theres still hope though. This kind of thing happens a lot. Person goes to doctor, doesnt get cured, person goes to another doctor and doesnt get cure, person gets depressed and suicidal, then person sometiems does find a doctor who finally gets whats up and then they are better.

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:11:05 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076028 um no all i did was go see another family physician asking a second opinion about my care and i was told that if i dont like hiw services then it might be good for me to remember that u can remove me from my contract at any time.. its like im going through hell with this guy

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:11:02 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076021 Oh no i know there is a system set up to help prevent you from going to doctor after doctor for more meds. I dont think there is anything against sending you to a specialist.

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:08:46 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076017 i would love a dr do go through what i go through just 1 day of his life and i bet he would be finding a cure tomorrow so he wouldnt have to go through this but since its not him he is slow to react

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:08:06 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076010 Yea ive got other opinions but couldnt find awnsers.. also i dont know how it works where u liv e but here the drs kind of have u bent over a barrel.. see if u get your pain meds through your family physician and they find out u have gone to another dr with out there permission they can fire you from there service and stop all your pain meds without notice then if i think the pain is bad now i couldnt imagine how bad it would be if i was to stop all pain meds at once

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:06:33 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5076005 No problem, i just hope you can get better :)

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:05:16 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075998 That list is vwrry interesting i never seen that.. im sorry i dont know hjow to resond to a specific thing someone writes but that list makes me feel alot better about maybe calling ty so much

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:02:07 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075997 [quote Thunders_lai]I went and saw my regular dr and hes got me on oxycontin and every other pain med u can think of which bailey touch the pain so i really dont even wanna take em anymore but now im to a point im kind of stuck and have to take em just to cut maybe 10 percent of the pain away[/quote]

So get another doctors opinion on whats wrong then. A specialist. Just do a search for your symptoms online and maybe you could find something better.

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 05:00:41 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075995 I went and saw my regular dr and hes got me on oxycontin and every other pain med u can think of which bailey touch the pain so i really dont even wanna take em anymore but now im to a point im kind of stuck and have to take em just to cut maybe 10 percent of the pain away

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:59:23 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075990 [quote Thunders_lai]Yes I do Im just worried that if i call one of those hot lines that they will be more concerned with finding me then helping me find the help i need.. Yes i want to go see a shrink or something not be locked up or something because i am upset[/quote]

They dont do that though at all, not everyone who calls is suicidal and that wouldnt make sense to track calls. They even have a site see > http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline….

“What will happen when I call?

* You will hear a message saying you have reached the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.
* You will hear hold music while your call is being routed.
* You will be helped by a trained crisis worker.
* You will be given mental health services referrals if needed.
”

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:57:53 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075988 I just dont know what to do I have migrains atleast 3 hours out of every day where i just sit in a room in pain crying and i have a broken back and several other medical problems that make my quality of life very poor

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:56:32 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075978 Yes I do Im just worried that if i call one of those hot lines that they will be more concerned with finding me then helping me find the help i need.. Yes i want to go see a shrink or something not be locked up or something because i am upset

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:53:20 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075977 [quote jrh297]I assume your doctor is no help. I had a very long term medical problem and considered ending my life as I just couldn’t stand the pain, the constant pain. I asked my doctor and she gave me the name of a great shrink that was covered by my insurance. This was three years ago and though I am still not pain free, it is so much better and I am SO GLAD I SAW IT THROUGH. Medical miracles happen every day and once you end your life it is ended forever. Keep the faith. Call a suicide prevention number, ask your doctor. Help is out there.[/quote]

Doctors sometiems do that if they cant figure out a problem with you. Just get better doctors.

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:53:05 +0100 Reply from jrh297 /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075970 I assume your doctor is no help. I had a very long term medical problem and considered ending my life as I just couldn’t stand the pain, the constant pain. I asked my doctor and she gave me the name of a great shrink that was covered by my insurance. This was three years ago and though I am still not pain free, it is so much better and I am SO GLAD I SAW IT THROUGH. Medical miracles happen every day and once you end your life it is ended forever. Keep the faith. Call a suicide prevention number, ask your doctor. Help is out there.

]]> jrh297 Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:51:24 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075967 What? They dont do that. I thought you said you wanted to find professional help.

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:50:53 +0100 Reply from Thunders_lai /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075964 Well i saw the adress first posted but i feel i need someone to talk to and not someone who all they wanna do is try to trace my call and find out where i am so they can break my front door down because i mentioned the word suicide i just really badly NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO… ty for your help though

]]> Thunders_lai Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:49:44 +0100 Reply from sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075954 Ive never had one before but you could call that number above and they can direct you to how to find a psychiatrist, or therapist, or psychologist.

Ive made a post before that I asked the difference between those so you can look there to see what you think you need more >>> http://help.com/post/270374-whats-the…

]]> sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:44:48 +0100 1 user were invited to read this post by Aries /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-8503046 Aries Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:43:58 +0100 Reply from BaconByAnyOtherName /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-5075945 most of the time you can find some doctors in a hospital that can refer you to a good shrink.

]]> BaconByAnyOtherName Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:41:34 +0100 The post was retagged by sum /post/285947-i-am-contimplating-suicide-and-need#reply-8503044 sum Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:41:19 +0100