[Help] I want this to end... Updates to this post /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end Tue, 08 Dec 2009 18:25:45 +0100 Reply from BeeCountry /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5086811 they r tryin to work it out an r in consuling but they still hav these arguements every now and then…neither of them know how to let things go.

]]> BeeCountry Sun, 21 Jun 2009 14:45:29 +0100 Reply from ke5fr /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5085554 My parents divorced, it is a very difficult thing to go through.
I myself am beginning to wonder if there is anything I can do to resolve family issues. Sometimes you just have to accept things, even if they hurt. Maybe your parents still love each other and can work things out, but you can’t FORCE them to and neither can your siblings. All you can do is love them and comfort them both. taking sides is not the answer unless ONE OR THE OTHER is truly, truly the one to blame for it all. This is rarely the case, relationships are a two way street.

I may not be the best person to help you, I’m going through some issues of my own here. I wish you the best of luck and I want you to be strong for yourself, because ultimately your the one you have to care for above all.

]]> ke5fr Sat, 20 Jun 2009 23:46:16 +0100 Reply from Sasha101 /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084868 Bee, sad to say your having to cope with “Adult issues” here. Why don’t you sit down and write a letter, telling Mum and Dad your true feelings and fears. Often Adults get caught up in their own lives and forget what an impact this is having on the children.
You probably think that Dad wont care, but when he has time alone, he may well read your letter and realize what his actions are doing to his family.
I don’t know all the details, only what you’ve said here, but I think he needs to know how you feel. Don’t get into an argument with him, stay calm, give him the letter and say Dad I need you to read this. I can see by this that whats happening is upsetting you, this shouldn’t be your burden to carry. This may or may not change the situation, but when he’s had his fling, he may just give thought to whats important in his life. :-)

]]> Sasha101 Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:52:50 +0100 Reply from BeeCountry /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084821 i havent thrown anything but i feel like throwing dads cell which seems to be the cause. im strong there have been times where ive wanted to cry bout this but i havent cause of my sibs. the only person in my family that would help would be my uncle and his gf prob wont let him come and if he does come he would prob kill dad cause he almost did when he found out bout the girl

]]> BeeCountry Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:19:01 +0100 Reply from BeeCountry /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084814 both of my siblings try to get into it and take sides, i try to keep them out of it. i cope with it by letting them work it out and keeping it in control and not letting it get wild. dad is never home hes a mechanic and goes to charlotte every day and thats where he met the girl and started talking to her bout all of us. me and dad havent had a relationship in the past few years and i dont talk to him if i can help it.

]]> BeeCountry Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:16:12 +0100 Reply from ร๏๓ƹฬђƹг /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084813 You gotta be strong…you may be just 15, but, unless you’re not strong, you sibling too will get worried. I don’t whether you could do to stop the argument between your dad and mom. But, you could calm it down like asking your relatives help(I don’t knw whether it is possible)
But, you have to be stay focused on yur life and throwing things won’t help, you may end with having a stressful life, like mine. Throwing didn’t helped me either.
Be strong and don’t lose yourself.

]]> ร๏๓ƹฬђƹг Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:15:51 +0100 Reply from p.zilbe /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084804 hey BeeCountry. I know what your dealing with right now, its very hard, because you simply dont know what you can do. The biggest thing is, not to take sides. Talk to your siblings and give them hope, be the mature one, try to comfort them. Also, if you can get your mom or dad alone (who ever is more understanding) and talk to one of them about whats going on. A lot of the time parents are so focused on one thing, like fighting, they dont see the bigger picture, and thats when you have to step in and show them, however in a smart, non-harmful way.

]]> p.zilbe Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:12:29 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084800 Talk to us. How are you trying to cope with this situation?

]]> littlenick Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:10:34 +0100 Reply from BeeCountry /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084799 15

]]> BeeCountry Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:10:22 +0100 Reply from ร๏๓ƹฬђƹг /post/287275-i-want-this-to-end#reply-5084797 how old are you?

]]> ร๏๓ƹฬђƹг Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:09:43 +0100