Updates to this post /post/287980-living-with-boyfriends-parent Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:04:35 +0100 /post/287980-living-with-boyfriends-parent#reply-5091799 omg i dont feel so alone, i just went to a job placement this week and hes going to help me,and the me time, i need to find a way, i got too much clogged in my head, i understand that you cant read all that, i just didnt expect an answer, but just to spill it all out helped already. Once i get my job pay some debt im getting out. when they say try to help you out, ha. its toture im begining to act like my mom and talk to myself. this doesnt feel like me, thank thank thank you, id i dont stop myself i’ll go on and on, just knowing i dont feel so alone helps very much

]]> Janis Tue, 23 Jun 2009 20:41:18 +0100 /post/287980-living-with-boyfriends-parent#reply-5091530 Wow. Well first off I did take the time to read your entire post and I REALLY sympathize with you. I have experienced almost everything you have said. I am currently in a semi similar situation. I have lived with Hispanic in laws that eat unhealthy all the time and there was no room in the house. It sounds like you need to make a choice about if it is worth free room and board to stay in this situation while you are going to school or not. Maybe even a part time job on the weekends would help you to get away. Second, find someway to get some you time. Like a park nearby where you could set up your paints and express yourself with out all the stress around you. Also is it possible to sit down with your boyfriends parents and just discuss some of these issues and set some boundaries like not to wake you up, or when it is ok for you to babysit and when it isn’t? I know lack of sleep can strongly effect your mood and sensitivity as well. Not to mention stress from lack of job, close living quarters, being a student, ect…. maybe you could temporarily find housing near your school if they have assistance with that. I wasn’t clear if you have a child with your boyfriend, but if living on campus is a possibility just explain to your boyfriend that you are only doing it to concentrate more on your studies. I hope this helps. Get some rest and exorcise. Peace be with you.

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