[Help] Well.. Updates to this post /post/289301-well Wed, 02 Dec 2009 10:46:46 +0100 Reply from J.N Location unknown /post/289301-well#reply-5098506 Thats to be expected after all you’ve been through!
I know how hard it is to put everything you have into a relationship only to get nothing but hurt back in return, it bloody hurts!
You fell in love with the wrong girl, its not your fault, we start relationships with ppl we barely know & often we develop strong feelings for them before we really know them, by the time we get to know them & all their faults its too late coz we already have strong feelings for them & its not easy to walk away.
We try to adjust our standards to tollerate the things they do to hurt us but that only works short termhowever hard we try & why the hell should we have to do that anyway, we have those standards for a reason, we shouldnt try to change them we should change the person were with for 1 that fits said origional standards!

]]> J.N Location unknown Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:59:39 +0100 Reply from Wronged /post/289301-well#reply-5098465 I like my own company, I know I’m an honest decent guy and throughout this time my emotions have been all over the place, but Monday/Tuesday, I felt like I’d got my old self back, and felt like I have not felt since 8 years ago.. But then I got arrested.. lol Not sure how I feel now, I guess I’m in shock

]]> Wronged Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:47:31 +0100 Reply from J.N Location unknown /post/289301-well#reply-5098447 Wow thats different, jesus, when i want to get away or a fresh start i only go a few hundred miles away!
If its something youve been thinking about you should do it, dont put it off, now would prob be a good time to do it.
Time alone in unfamiliar surroundings goes a long way towards helping you to ‘find yourself’ as long as you like your own company!

]]> J.N Location unknown Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:40:35 +0100 Reply from Wronged /post/289301-well#reply-5098434 Hehe.. well I’ve been put off the idea of relationships and children for a long long time now.. I was actually thinking of getting on with something I wanted to do for a long time but never had the opportunity- Work for a little while get some money together, then take a plane to Cóban in Guatamala, where the ancient Mayans 1st settled, to run off and live in the jungle for a year or so like Ray Mears :D Maybe I’d find myself along the way..

]]> Wronged Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:35:35 +0100 Reply from J.N Location unknown /post/289301-well#reply-5098427 THat was maybe a blessing, she cant look after the kids she has & wouldnt you rather have sum1 normal to have kids with?
I was going to offer to date you to show you there are some normal ppl out there but i dontwant kids! :-)

]]> J.N Location unknown Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:32:47 +0100 Reply from Wronged /post/289301-well#reply-5098422 You are right there.. actually, a few months ago she fell pregnant, I decided, even though my personal circumstances were bad, that I would be happy having my 1st born with her.. as I’d already taken her own children under my wing and felt the happiness of being ‘dad’. She miscarried.. and took that out on me too

]]> Wronged Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:30:00 +0100 Reply from J.N Location unknown /post/289301-well#reply-5098409 You need to get the hell away from her, any1 that would swear on their kids life when they are lying should be shot & they dont deserve to have kids, that is low!
You will not feel like this forever, you are lucky you got out now, imagine if youd had kids with her, youd be tied to her & her screwed up life forever & shed screw the kids up & make them like her.
This girl is a disgrace!

]]> J.N Location unknown Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:25:54 +0100 Reply from Wronged /post/289301-well#reply-5098397 And ok.. point taken about the long post but this is the story. I do not want to cut any more detail otherwise, I may miss key points deeming the past “FALSE”. This is the story, complete truth, missing some details such as all the times she defended her lies and asked me to marry her to convince me she loved me. Thankyou to those of you who have read this through and replied.. in times like this it is really appreciated.

]]> Wronged Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:21:59 +0100 Reply from Wronged /post/289301-well#reply-5098390 Excuse me but I disagree entirely. Yes, maybe my emotions came across as this poor guy who can’t stand up for himself but that’s how this has made me feel.. I feel like I can’t do a single thing right anymore. And there is no truth, and nothing spurring these allegations on. I don’t even own a plastic bb gun. I never laid hands on her and it was her house, how can I imprison her when I had to leave to do stuff? I really don’t appreciate you summing my post as false. Some people are complete liars. And this is a case where I fell in love with one and didn’t see through the lies till the end. Yes these allegations are pretty full on, but somebody capable of doing that to the person that loves them unconditionally, and takes them back after they been wronged so badly… I’d say that’s pretty full on activity to start with, so why the surprise of these full on allegations?

]]> Wronged Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:18:17 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/289301-well#reply-5098389 [quote annabellambe]Im not sure if I am fully convinced that everybody else if fully in the wrong and your the good guy I mean somebody wont say somethiing like that if it wasnt true would they, its pretty full on!
Sounds as if you winded the story so that it was making you sound like some deprived poor man that cant stand up for himself!

and i agree with the above comment that people dont like reading long comments and dont reply to them!

Especially if they are as false as this one! =D

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Does an unverified member really have the right to say it isnt true?

]]> Anonymous Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:16:42 +0100 Reply from annabellambe /post/289301-well#reply-5098376 Im not sure if I am fully convinced that everybody else if fully in the wrong and your the good guy I mean somebody wont say somethiing like that if it wasnt true would they, its pretty full on!
Sounds as if you winded the story so that it was making you sound like some deprived poor man that cant stand up for himself!

and i agree with the above comment that people dont like reading long comments and dont reply to them!

Especially if they are as false as this one! =D

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]]> annabellambe Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:12:31 +0100 Reply from J.N Location unknown /post/289301-well#reply-5098372 You dont attract psycho’s its just that there are a lot of them out there so it is inevitable that you would come across a few, its a case of decent - psycho ratio.

]]> J.N Location unknown Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:11:32 +0100 Reply from turner.bell /post/289301-well#reply-5098368 [quote drew.marshal]Is there ANY decent people left out there? Anywhere?? How do I stop attracting the Psycho’s? Is it good to run away and start fresh somewhere else in a totally different culture? What are my options? The way I feel right now, I want to go and stand on the corner where the angels sit. If there’s no reply, or whatever.. thanks for taking the time to read and I hope this can help somebody in some way, somewhere…[/quote]

I’m a decent person :) it sounds like you need to get better psycho radar and get out of these crazy relationships before they start!!! You poor, poor man :( I think first you need to worry about getting out of this legal mess… then you can worry about finding a nice girl. Because they are out there!!! You just have to look in the right places.

]]> turner.bell Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:07:18 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/289301-well#reply-5098341 No offence but people on here arent really interested in reading really long posts, if you were slightly more breif then added the rest of the info in your replys youd be more likely to get replys.
Dont mean 2 b rude, just trying to help.

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