[Help] Contact with ex's family? Updates to this post /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family Sat, 05 Dec 2009 16:23:09 +0100 Reply from partlythere /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5131289 it went ok! was nice to see her. didn’t talk about him. i was really glad to have seen her one last time.

]]> partlythere Wed, 15 Jul 2009 10:47:46 +0100 Reply from firstmom7270 /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5129216 how did it go?
To help out a little late. If I was close to his family I would have done it no if ands or buts about it.

]]> firstmom7270 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 13:15:58 +0100 Reply from partlythere /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100069 hmmm maybe she does but as i said she’s not nosy and she’ll mind her own business. i think she understands why i broke up with him. she’s a young mother and not overly motherly if you know what i mean. so yeah, i dunno. ohwell i’ll just go and see waht happens

]]> partlythere Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:48:27 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100049 [quote pheeebsste]be careful that shes not trying to get you and her son back together. if she likes you enough to see you after you dumped him, chances are, she wants you guys together.[/quote]

My thoughts exactly but partlyhere says that’s not gonna happen.

]]> littlenick Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:43:11 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100047 If she’s mad, she’ll get over it.

]]> littlenick Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:41:43 +0100 Reply from pheeebsste /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100045 be careful that shes not trying to get you and her son back together. if she likes you enough to see you after you dumped him, chances are, she wants you guys together.

]]> pheeebsste Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:41:22 +0100 Reply from partlythere /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100043 hmm yes good idea. something tells me this is just a one off thing anyway. i just hope she’s not mad at me for dumping her son :S

]]> partlythere Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:40:48 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100039 Just go then. But the next time she invites you, make yourself unavailable. It looks weirder if you keep in touch with her and keep on accepting her invitations to get together.

]]> littlenick Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:39:53 +0100 Reply from partlythere /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100018 ****, i’ve already made an arrangement, it looks weird to cancel now

perhaps catching up with her is a goodbye thing?

i mean surely she’d know she couldnt bring us back together.

]]> partlythere Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:34:51 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100014 Well, it is still not a good idea. Unless you hope to rekindle that romance. Which you say it’s not going to happen.

Let it go. Make it part of your past and maybe a time that you enjoyed.

You need to move on.

If you keep on wanting to relive those days and reminisce about the time you and your boyfriend were an item, his mom is the best instrument to make you do it.

Now, I’m thinking she’s the one who wants to bring you back together again and hopes for a reconciliation.

I would be polite with a firm “thanks, but no thanks.”

let it go.

]]> littlenick Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:33:06 +0100 Reply from partlythere /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5100000 no that’s not going to happen. besides he’s away.

i’ve recently been on holiday and she said she was interested to see all the photos and stuff, and catch up with me

]]> partlythere Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:29:33 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5099993 Are you still hoping to get back with him and him with you?

]]> littlenick Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:28:14 +0100 Reply from partlythere /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5099987 hmmm yes i know, but the thing is she suggested it, and also i didnt really hurt him, because we only broke up because we were planning to move in together and then he freaked out and said he didn’t want to do it.

]]> partlythere Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:26:17 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5099984 then it’s not a good idea. I would let sleeping dogs lie and move on. It’s not a good idea to open old wounds on people whom you hurt. It’s not a good idea.

]]> littlenick Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:24:05 +0100 Reply from partlythere /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5099975 no it was just a casual relationship (began at age 18) but i hung out with his family heaps.

]]> partlythere Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:20:40 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/289541-contact-with-exs-family#reply-5099961 Do you and your ex have children together?

]]> littlenick Sat, 27 Jun 2009 17:15:33 +0100