[Help] I dont know what to do. Updates to this post /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do Sun, 29 Nov 2009 05:28:19 +0100 Reply from celeste_557 /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107374 you are a baby (18!!!)… let life happen… do you at 18… seriously, from a 32 year married woman!

]]> celeste_557 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 08:33:31 +0100 Reply from Firemouth199 /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107349 well you see i would not really be moving to Iraq like my car and all other posessions would stay in the states but i would be in Iraq then when the contract would be up i am sent back to the US.

]]> Firemouth199 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 08:04:20 +0100 Reply from LoneWulf /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107346 Consider firehalls outside of your state then, you seem to love firefighting and are willing to move to Iraq for it so why not another state? She may still come with you. You can apply to them secure a position and move. Thats all the advice i have. Cant tell you how to choose love over career, its up to the individual, as only you know how much she means to you and how much firefighting means to you.

]]> LoneWulf Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:59:48 +0100 Reply from Firemouth199 /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107341 well you see emptysoul the thing is im in VA and no one within reasonable driving distance is hiring and the contract job is 1 year, i get a couple R&R’s but its only 10 days and its arround 90 to 100 thousand dollars.

]]> Firemouth199 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:53:38 +0100 Reply from Dead By New Years /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107339 This could work too.[quote EmptySoul]what about other firehalls outside of your city, perhaps within 100 km from your area?[/quote]

]]> Dead By New Years Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:52:51 +0100 Reply from Dead By New Years /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107336 Well, i’m glad your mind is focused on one thing then. :)

Anyways!..

This is probably the most ridiculous and unhelpful answer that you’ll ever here, darling, but, “YOU, are going to have to make a decision”.

I think you should go, even though you want to be with her, it seems like your strongly passionate for Firefighting.

]]> Dead By New Years Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:50:05 +0100 Reply from LoneWulf /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107335 what about other firehalls outside of your city, perhaps within 100 km from your area?

]]> LoneWulf Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:50:01 +0100 Reply from Firemouth199 /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107329 not really, Firefighting is my life and has been since i was 16. i am at the firehouse 5-7 days a week more arround 6 but its whatever. and i love it.

]]> Firemouth199 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:44:34 +0100 Reply from Dead By New Years /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107327 Is there anything else at all that you have a strong interest for? That may lead to another career or no?[quote Firemouth199]I do love her abd we talked about it and she said to do it but i dont want to leave her[/quote]

]]> Dead By New Years Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:42:26 +0100 The post was retagged by Firemouth199 /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-8580007 Firemouth199 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:40:52 +0100 Reply from Firemouth199 /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107319 I do love her abd we talked about it and she said to do it but i dont want to leave her

]]> Firemouth199 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:35:03 +0100 Reply from Dead By New Years /post/290598-i-dont-know-what-to-do#reply-5107317 Darling, if you really love her you’d give up the job. However, if she really loved you, she’d let you do it……

Think about it..

]]> Dead By New Years Wed, 01 Jul 2009 07:33:59 +0100