[Help] Choose Updates to this post /post/290687-choose Tue, 01 Dec 2009 07:04:51 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/290687-choose#reply-5107990 [quote missy10139]It’s not really the selfish thing to do.. But you need to make a decision on where you want to be in the end. Are you always gonna chose work over love? Think about when you die. About how your life flashes before your eyes. What would give you a happy life? Work or love?[/quote]

he is still young.. has a life in front of his eyes
and love.. if he feels right now he needs work to be in the first place then love can still wait..
dreams are important :)

]]> friendlyheart Wed, 01 Jul 2009 18:48:43 +0100 Reply from alexandru_email_12 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107968 @missy: I’ll choose love.
@friendlyheart: thanks!

]]> alexandru_email_12 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 18:37:34 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/290687-choose#reply-5107937 would be nice..
i have to rush now.. but add me as friend and i’m going to talk to you later
hope you can make it and then you will feel a lot better about your choice:)
see ya

]]> friendlyheart Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:59:17 +0100 Reply from missy10139 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107936 It’s not really the selfish thing to do.. But you need to make a decision on where you want to be in the end. Are you always gonna chose work over love? Think about when you die. About how your life flashes before your eyes. What would give you a happy life? Work or love?

]]> missy10139 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:58:26 +0100 Reply from alexandru_email_12 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107922 @friendlyheart: sometime when dealing with extraordinary people you may be friend all your life, you can’t dissapoint them. The point is that I don’t have all my dreams in the making (I talk about money in the first place) and leaving college will dump he home - another city. I hope I’ll make enough money this summer in order to go on the college city on my own and don’t dissapoint her - and continue getting both things done.

@littlenick: I always follow my dreams. In this case there are more dreams I have to choose at the moment.

]]> alexandru_email_12 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:41:28 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/290687-choose#reply-5107897 Never put your life on hold or the things you dream or want to do just because someone tells you to.

You should always follow your dreams otherwise you will have a life full of regrets.

]]> littlenick Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:51:59 +0100 Reply from trekkie /post/290687-choose#reply-5107874 Talk to her about your plans. Tell her that you need to do this for yourself.

]]> trekkie Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:37:08 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/290687-choose#reply-5107867 sorry to hear that.. i mean that you will dissapoint her..
but then what would you like to do?
i mean if you decided already then there isn’t really way out.. but hurting her by your decision.. but she might understand.. i hope so.. even if it’s really hard..
but don’t just disappear like that.. will hurt her even more.. talk to her baout it..really

]]> friendlyheart Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:32:47 +0100 Reply from alexandru_email_12 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107864 It’s all my fault. All the year I watched her - never had the courage to get into the conversation. At the end she contacted me and I promised her something - and I won’t be there any more. I won’t help her to create, I cannot dissapoint her. She showed me the nicest friendship from all the people I know.

]]> alexandru_email_12 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:30:43 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/290687-choose#reply-5107861 may be selfish..
but it’s your life btw.. and it’s your choice.. we all do what’s better for us.. don’t we?
if that’s your dream..you shouldn’t give up on it..
and tell her that she probably won’t give up on her dreams..

]]> friendlyheart Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:28:42 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/290687-choose#reply-5107857 that’s sad but true.. why don’t you tell her that you broke your promise..
it might not seem like but she will once be thankful for you being honest..
she might hate you in the first place but later she’ll be better
at least you tried to make things better
it’s your life and your choice..

]]> friendlyheart Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:24:57 +0100 Reply from alexandru_email_12 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107856 @friendlyheart - I’ll tell her. But whetever I tell her, breaking my promise and putting me in the first place would be a very selfish thing.

]]> alexandru_email_12 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:24:53 +0100 Reply from alexandru_email_12 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107854 I’ll regret - Because I hate breaking my promises. And I saw her face how happy she was finding someone like her to start something (I don’t talk about relationship her, but a little bussines for people), I’ll promise her I’ll be next do her and I won’t be.

]]> alexandru_email_12 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:22:36 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/290687-choose#reply-5107850 [quote alexandru_email_12]@Victoria: yest, it’s true.
@trekkie: I will not :-)
@friendlyheart: I’ll regret, because I promise her we’ll change the world together (or a small piece) and after the sea-side I’ll dissapear forever. But it’s my choice.[/quote]

you’ll regret it because you’ll leave her?
but then why won’t you tell her what you are going to do.. and see how she reacts…

]]> friendlyheart Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:21:27 +0100 Reply from trekkie /post/290687-choose#reply-5107847 [quote alexandru_email_12]@Victoria: yest, it’s true.
@trekkie: I will not :-)
@friendlyheart: I’ll regret, because I promise her we’ll change the world together (or a small piece) and after the sea-side I’ll dissapear forever. But it’s my choice.[/quote]

Why do you think you’ll regret it?

]]> trekkie Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:20:13 +0100 Reply from alexandru_email_12 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107842 @Victoria: yest, it’s true.
@trekkie: I will not :-)
@friendlyheart: I’ll regret, because I promise her we’ll change the world together (or a small piece) and after the sea-side I’ll dissapear forever. But it’s my choice.

]]> alexandru_email_12 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:18:40 +0100 Reply from Victoria Sponge /post/290687-choose#reply-5107829 Honey you need to think about what will make you happy in the future, even if it is a little selfish thats what we all do really

]]> Victoria Sponge Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:10:22 +0100 Reply from trekkie /post/290687-choose#reply-5107828 I respect your decision. Just make sure you don’t lead her on into thinking that you two hanging out is going to turn into something more.

]]> trekkie Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:09:18 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/290687-choose#reply-5107826 well dear, it is not childish.. it’s your choice.. as you feel it’s better for you
if you still feel work is in the first place then you should do that ..
it’s your choice..no one can do it instead of you..
and as long as you won’t regret it it;s ok

]]> friendlyheart Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:05:20 +0100 Reply from alexandru_email_12 /post/290687-choose#reply-5107804 She won’t. In the future everything will be different :-)

]]> alexandru_email_12 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:43:07 +0100 Reply from sxebitc /post/290687-choose#reply-5107799 hey
u made the rite choice
wot if she turned out to be a tottal b.it.ch??
so wot chu want
mayb u could meet up when ur both older

]]> sxebitc Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:39:15 +0100 Reply from Miiau! /post/290687-choose#reply-5107798 Doesnt most of us do that… choose ourselves? Id choose hatever Id find more important.

]]> Miiau! Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:38:10 +0100