[Help] I'm going to kill myself. Updates to this post /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself Mon, 07 Dec 2009 13:29:31 +0100 Reply from jesse_gione /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5144699 nobody understands what its really like ppl say things liek seek help and **** but they never ever tell you anything you dont already know they just change your mind, which is wrong. why should someone have to wake up everyday and not be happy, FEEL GOOD, wtf is the point of living unhappily…i think i partially know how this person feels they know everything they WANTED is gone and that the past cant be changed i am with a poisonous girl and i know she wants to leave me and she wont and i am to weak to leav her and i know i am not strong enough nor do i want, to live on if she leaves me and that situation makes now sense but its because of the twisted torn away feelingswhich ppl dont uderstand, this person doesnt need help they need closure if anything its what obviously has to happen to close this wound, know that you cared for eachother at one point and it doesnt mean you are each NOTHIng now you need the respect and understanding to sit down with the person and understand that you knew what eachother had and that it was real and that it has to change, i know what its like to KNOW just KNOW in your heart and mind that the feelings you feel arent worth the thoughts and situatuions and pain they bring about, its simply to much to deal with it IS overwhelming to someone who can have everything but what they want and need. noone can HELP anyone its a matter of whatevers is going TO happen is going to cause the coinciding reaction be that terrible(she leaves you and you cant stand it) or wonderful actions(you get what you want) actions , its much much more complicated than i am willing to discuss but if anyone is on oshawa canada and wants to help someone stop hurting jesse 44 hillcroft 9054362936

]]> jesse_gione Tue, 21 Jul 2009 17:49:15 +0100 Reply from BaconByAnyOtherName /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5111295 OP: best of luck in your endeavors. and before anyone asks, yes, i did read the post.

]]> BaconByAnyOtherName Fri, 03 Jul 2009 09:30:05 +0100 Reply from chunkymove /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5111271 “Give up, you’ll never get anyone as great as her again.”

fair point. I’m three years on and still feel that way.

The other side to this was that “having” someone so great that towards the end wasn’t into me was terrible for me. Not till I got selfish and realised having someone “not as good” on a global scale, was actually better for me, because I was a “pathetic loser” in many ways too. Had some wins since then, not so much a loser anymore, and not having someone who doesn’t want you helps a lot.

Get some music, get some fresh air, get some good food and sleep, and in a few MONTHS you might be able to make a plan for what you want in life beyond putting a woman on a pedestal and then getting upset when she won’t meet all you subconscious unmet childhood needs.

Don’t get over it, don’t move on. Experience it if you need, its a part of your life, and it HURTS. I remember hoe much it hurts. I was sucicidal for months, and one of the biggest rays of hope I clung to was when I talked to someone who’d truly been there and they said they remembered how much it had hurt. Past tense. The pain lessens, you learn, and one day you start a whole new chapter of your life. But not till you been down some tough roads.

Is there anything you’d want to do before you quit? got to be something?

]]> chunkymove Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:41:08 +0100 3 users were invited to read this post by Max /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-8590379 Max Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:03:41 +0100 Reply from Max /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5111255 As i said before, I’m not real good at this topic. I know you have too move out of this funk. Buy a motor cycle and go on a tour or something. I have see this before and if you give it a couple of years and it was suppose to be ,it’ll be. This funk or obsession will drive you friends and family away as they won’t know how to help you. You do have the right to be happy, but it needs to be with yourself:) What are some of your hobbies?

]]> Max Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:01:17 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5110873 is anyone there? I sitl feel really bad - could use some suggestions

]]> suicid Fri, 03 Jul 2009 02:24:16 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109482 Thanks - that’s a good idea I’m gonna try that - let her wait for me for a while. Thanks - I feel faint so I am gona lie down - back later

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:38:07 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109473 so if i act less needy…

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:33:15 +0100 Reply from jessica1233 /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109457 okayy first of all wht is wrong wit u u act likeee u neeeddd her shutt the fukk up she aint nobody and dnt ell me the ******** ohh ive waited for her my whole lig=fe boo hoo if u wanna kill urself over a dumb ***** go head ur actin stupid then ull go to helll for suicide soo go kill urself

]]> jessica1233 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:14:42 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109453 Please help me - I’m not an attention seeking weirdo, I need help to get through this - pelase, tell me she’ll come back to me

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:11:44 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109449 Is there anyone out there

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:07:36 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109419 This is not just a rite of passage - this was my whole life - I’ve cut my wrists

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:48:17 +0100 Reply from Max /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109411 That’s what I mean….you missed the get over part when you were younger. Being pleasant or hanging with other people will help. From what you have mentioned, I think once you get over the grieving part and start having fun…she’ll be different. Either better or worst. Even thinking about death won’t solve anything. If something should happen to you, she’ll move on. Be the bigger person and get started on living:)

]]> Max Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:43:09 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109407 [quote suicid]Please help me - i don;t want to die and leave her but I can;t see another way out[/quote]

Please talk to someone first it may be the best decision u ever made. U sound like you don’t want to commit suiside then dont. U never know u may walk down the street tommorow and find someone else? There are always other ways to feel better suiside is not one of them and never is.

]]> Anonymous Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:41:40 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109401 No ur definatly not immature you sound very emmotional mabey u should talk to someone before suicide?

]]> Anonymous Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:38:34 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109400 Please help me - i don;t want to die and leave her but I can;t see another way out

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:38:24 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109396 I need someone to tell me a way that I can not feel this pain without “moving on”, ie without accpeting that it’s over and we’ll never be together. I need to ahve hope that she’ll come back. I need to hold on to that. I can;t let go, I can;t be that failure.

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:36:56 +0100 Reply from Max /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109394 You should stay with a friend:) Take a holiday with them.

]]> Max Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:36:20 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109392 I have no family. And yes, I am 40. Youmay think I’m immature but she is the only person I have ever been with. I waited my whole life for her - I never had a partner before her.

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:35:36 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109391 No don’t Please don’t

]]> Anonymous Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:34:21 +0100 Reply from guystuf /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109390 K bye suicid.

Write a will to www.help.com

K thnx bye!

]]> guystuf Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:32:57 +0100 Reply from Max /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109388 Are you sure you are 40?

]]> Max Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:32:29 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109385 Hey do you have family
(Its an honest answer im not trying to be funny by the way)

]]> Anonymous Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:31:15 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109383 I’m killing myself tonight - if it’s over between us - I ahve nothing left to live for.

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:29:06 +0100 Reply from guystuf /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109382 Wow whats with people killing themselves on help.com its like every night lol…

K well just do it…you don’t have to tell us…and goodluck!

]]> guystuf Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:28:11 +0100 Reply from jessica1233 /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109379 whtss wrong wit u over a dumba ss girll u wanna kill urslef im srry but cut the crapppp

]]> jessica1233 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:26:17 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109378 I do suck. I hate myself. I can;t give up on her - it means I have failed. I saved my virginity for her, I can’;t be with nayone else now it is against my religion.

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:25:59 +0100 Reply from Max /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109377 It’s a life of torment with an unhappy journey of trying to please someone other then thinking of yourself. Never ending. Your friends may see this…love is blind:) Sorry, I’m not good at this topic.

]]> Max Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:24:49 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109376 shes not worth it, If she’s your first love yeah its gonna be tough but you have to be brave and accept that you will find that someone special in a couple of years of course your gonna get other people but thas the process that your gonna have to go through to find that person who ur gonna marry have kids and grow old with if you kill ur self your never gonna have that.

]]> Anonymous Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:23:35 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109375 Cause she left u.
Its the hardest thing to accept it when things are over.
It will hurt but it will get easier every day

]]> Anonymous Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:23:19 +0100 Reply from tstoreyrock /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109373 Ha looks like u suk man it must feel bad to suk as bad as u do well im great

]]> tstoreyrock Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:23:11 +0100 Reply from suicid /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109371 I’m 40. (and I’m not in San Fancisco) Why do I have to move on? Why do I ahve to give up on ehr. She was my first and only love, why does everyone want me to give up?

]]> suicid Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:19:20 +0100 Reply from Max /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109370 But she won’t get you. I take it you are young. It hurts, but it’s a process you go through to learn. Try hanging with friends and moving on. Anybody that calls you a loser is worth your time anyway. Good luck:)

]]> Max Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:17:33 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/290891-im-going-to-kill-myself#reply-5109369 Never put thoughts into other peoples heads and believe them!
It is very damaging and always wrong.

Dont brainwash yourself.

And most of all dont kill yourself, this moment will pass, u dont have to move on with anyone, but u do with your life, when its time again 4 love u will be in a better place to treasure it.

She wasnt the one.

Stop caring what others think
I wont judge u btw
I have suffered b4 2

]]> Anonymous Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:15:36 +0100