[Help] Hi, I'm having a bit of a problem. Updates to this post /post/291105-hi-im-having-a-bit-of-a-pro Sat, 05 Dec 2009 08:35:59 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/291105-hi-im-having-a-bit-of-a-pro#reply-5126644 YAY! see things worked out for the best. im glad you have someone to help you get through that. it makes it so much easier. good luck :)

]]> Anonymous Mon, 13 Jul 2009 02:52:23 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/291105-hi-im-having-a-bit-of-a-pro#reply-5123114 hi, i’m worte the question. Thanks everyone for all the advice unfortuneatly my fiance broke things off and now there is no wedding. He broke it off because I was annoying him too much to hang out and other crap like that. Good riddance so now me and the coworker are now going through the getting to know each other out side of work and stuff he is sooo much fun and we have a lot of things in common too, who knows we just might make a good couple.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 10 Jul 2009 13:00:47 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/291105-hi-im-having-a-bit-of-a-pro#reply-5110957 i think that if you have a crush on another man that you cannot fully and truthfully be in love with your fiance. just the fact that you are writing this tells me that you want to pursue things with this coworker you just need reassurance that you are doing the right thing. i know that it is scary to walk away from something (like ur fiance) for fear of losing it for good and being alone if things dont work out with this other man, but honestly the fact that your writing about this has told me uve already made up your mind. i say that you tell your fiance that you want a break. tell him how you are feeling about you and him. obviously this isnt about the other guy u and your fiance are having problems. you know in your heart its not going to work thats why your heart fell for someone else. go for it. whats the worst that can happen? you go back to your fiance and say your sorry? at least you had fun girl!!!!

]]> Anonymous Fri, 03 Jul 2009 03:23:56 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/291105-hi-im-having-a-bit-of-a-pro#reply-5110926 Really think about it, because it’s going to be for the rest of your life if you marry your fiance. You might last too long if you do. Hey take your time because once you are living with him he will change, he won’t be the same. Take this advice from a person who’s been married 14 years. Some marriges do last, but just really think about it. Especially if he has a good job or not. I think that is where I didn’t think about it. I was too in love. Good luck

]]> Anonymous Fri, 03 Jul 2009 03:10:17 +0100 Reply from Joey_PR /post/291105-hi-im-having-a-bit-of-a-pro#reply-5110908 hmm…
Seems to me ‘the man of your dreams Mr. fiance’ has reached the plateau point of thinking that since you two are engaged, “all his work is done”… which is not good.
I really do not know what you should do, because its up to you to decide what you think would be best for your future, remember that its not all about making that significant other feel happy, its also about you making yourself happy and feeling comfortable in the relationship.

What do you think?

]]> Joey_PR Fri, 03 Jul 2009 02:56:43 +0100