[Help] i love a girl, she loves me too, but saying no for marrige or wedding..

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 17:16:21 +0100

U know dat she loves u. B happy about dat. She isnt ready and/or she believes dat marriage isnt necessary. Let her make her decision. She probably wont like u pushing her toward marriage.

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 17:13:03 +0100

Nothing.Only wait and someday she will married you or be happy and never get married

Reply from aliwalli

aliwalli — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:39:29 +0100

Right..

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:37:54 +0100

Ok thnx 4 ur care.. i’ve 2 leave, she is calling on ma cell phone bi frnzzzz, dnt tell her that i was askin u 4 suggetions.. haha bi.. take care!@!

Reply from Abba Zabba

Abba Zabba — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:36:58 +0100

Lol.

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:36:11 +0100

nah i m not forcing her.. aliwalli>

v r 2gethr 4m 2 yrz n v knw each othr deeeeeeply

Reply from aliwalli

aliwalli — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:33:57 +0100

My dad asked my mam alot of times to marry him before she actually said yes..they’ve been together for over 30 years now and we’re going out for a long time before that too - have to say they are very happy together, my mam just wasn’t ready!
What’s the rush, take your time..its worth the wait. :)
You have to get to know eachother, every aspect of eachother first.
Don’t force her to marry you

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:33:38 +0100

u said “Marriage, to me, is an outdated and senseless tradition that has no place in a modern society.”…….

wat if she jst leav me som day?? v r 2gethr 4m 2 yrz.. without even a kiss, jst cz i dnt want any that thng b4 marig..
now she jst said no!!

Reply from Abba Zabba

Abba Zabba — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:31:02 +0100

The problem with it is it is unecessary, unless you want more benefits than a regular couple who are unmarried. Marriage, to me, is an outdated and senseless tradition that has no place in a modern society. But that’s just my opinion. And if you’re girlfriend’s opinion is the same, you should respect that and just give it a rest.

Reply from DeleteMe

DeleteMe — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:30:58 +0100

troll?

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:27:54 +0100

dorian..

i thnk u r 70% correct..

but, wats the problem with “just a bit of paper work from the government” ??

Reply from Dorian

Dorian — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:25:32 +0100

Well if it’s just that she thinks marriage isn’t for her, then what’s the problem? It’s just a bit of paper from the government, and you really don’t need it to prove that you love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:25:31 +0100

bla bla blaa ralph..

Reply from Dr. Ralph

Dr. Ralph — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:23:56 +0100

LOL oh yeah… v r serous too. You’re only 18 dude, what’s the matter your visa expire soon?

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:23:06 +0100

but not gud 4 me..

Reply from linuxya

linuxya — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:22:38 +0100

[quote ecstasy199]i m not sayin her to mary me now, i jst adkd her.. “will u like 2 mary me??” she said no
wen i askd her the reason..
she said she nevr gona mary any 1 coz her thinkin is diffrent[/quote]

She’s 18. People change a lot in their 20s and change even more in their 30s.

She will change and so will you. If you are still compatible in 10 years, maybe you’ll get married.

Reply from Abba Zabba

Abba Zabba — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:22:17 +0100

Good for her.

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:20:29 +0100

i m not sayin her to mary me now, i jst adkd her.. “will u like 2 mary me??” she said no
wen i askd her the reason..
she said she nevr gona mary any 1 coz her thinkin is diffrent

Reply from Abba Zabba

Abba Zabba — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:19:47 +0100

There’s no rush to get married, especially at your age. You can’t make someone marry you. It has to be a mutual decision. And yes, if she rejected your proposal then chances are she’s not ready to marry. So the answer here is, drop it. :)

Reply from DeleteMe

DeleteMe — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:19:30 +0100

Maybe it’s because you can’t spell, so she didn’t understand “r mrry m3.”

Reply from linuxya

linuxya — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:18:21 +0100

Many people are not ready to get married until their mid to late twenties. What’s your rush? If you fee like you need to tie her down to you, maybe you’re just insecure. That’s a huge turn off for women.

Give it time. Grow your love together.

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:18:15 +0100

nahhh.. i’ll nevr drop her.. v r dam serous 4 each othr..

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:17:12 +0100

v both r 18.. nd she realy lovs me..

Reply from Armond

Armond — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:15:31 +0100

she just may be to young or she’s been married before and does not see the need for paper work.
give it some time and she’ll come around

How old are you two

Reply from Abba Zabba

Abba Zabba — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:15:12 +0100

Well then drop it. She’s not ready for marriage.

Reply from ecstasy199

ecstasy199 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:14:34 +0100

i m not forcing her.. realy, i jst askd her only 1 time..
nd she said NO!!

Reply from linuxya

linuxya — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:13:34 +0100

How long have you dated her?

How old are each of you?

Do you live together?

Reply from Abba Zabba

Abba Zabba — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:11:12 +0100

Don’t pressure anybody into wedlock.