[Help] My Girlfriend. Updates to this post /post/291316-my-girlfriend Thu, 26 Nov 2009 01:35:16 +0100 Reply from usurper /post/291316-my-girlfriend#reply-5112658 But the not telling anyone that you’re dating thing…well that’s just plain old insecurity.

Insecure about what people might think. Maybe she has some friends who she talks to you about and she doesn’t want to hear it from them about going out with you AGAIN so she just avoids it altogether. Maybe they know things about how she feels that you dont. Again, ask. If you’re friends, you should be able to tell if she is holding back.

In which case, if she really wants to be with you, she should just stand up and say “yeah, hes my boyfriend again”.

]]> usurper Sat, 04 Jul 2009 02:21:56 +0100 Reply from usurper /post/291316-my-girlfriend#reply-5112655 Maybe shes scared. Maybe shes worried about getting hurt. Maybe shes loosing interest. Maybe a lot of things.

There is only one way to know - talk to her. If she is that great of a friend, than it wont be a problem to just ask.

]]> usurper Sat, 04 Jul 2009 02:18:57 +0100 Reply from Dr. Ralph /post/291316-my-girlfriend#reply-5112630 Maybe she’s worried about getting dumped again and is trying not to let everyone know she’s dating so she won’t look bad if it happens again… maybe not. Either way friends with benefits and you’re complaining?.

]]> Dr. Ralph Sat, 04 Jul 2009 01:49:38 +0100 Reply from njwingate /post/291316-my-girlfriend#reply-5112609 have you told her this?

]]> njwingate Sat, 04 Jul 2009 01:37:53 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/291316-my-girlfriend#reply-5112608 You should tell her this. Sometimes girls don’t realise what they are doing or not doing. Also need to assure her that the 2 of you are perfect and she doesn’t need to be afraid or worried.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 04 Jul 2009 01:37:49 +0100