[Help] I almost broke up with my girlfriend earlier. Updates to this post /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien Sun, 29 Nov 2009 23:17:06 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114511 Oh man now I get it, they block the email!

lets see if this works…

a.n.d.r.e.a.a.-.@.l.i.v.e.c.o.m

there are no dots until after live.com

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 04:21:21 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114495 lol wthell!?

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 04:13:33 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114493 Just add me since my other comment is waiting approval because I said the word murder in the sentence I don’t think anyone is going to murder you (or something like that)

aaanyways here: (email removed)

If anyone else tries to add me I will not accept, so don’t bother :þ
And I’m sorry Dorian if I “damaged” your thread :3 srrryy!

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 04:12:47 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114486 [quote ☆MoNiCa☆]ahaha… ddon’t worry, i dont’ dress like a punk anymore haha… even took out my lip ring yrs ago LOL! i’ve had every colour hair ever (xecpt pink) but now i’m normal, because being a mom, i understand i do have to tone it down a bit!!!
isn’t it nice living w/a wonderful guy? i miss that! my kids father was NOT a nice guy, but b4 that i had a quite nice one :)
awww ur so lucky, lately i’ve had the worst luck w/guys!!! :(
is it ok to give my email over here?[/quote]

I don’t know Oo I don’t think anyone is going to murder you so go ahead
but is there no pm in this stuff?

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:59:04 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114484 ahaha… ddon’t worry, i dont’ dress like a punk anymore haha… even took out my lip ring yrs ago LOL! i’ve had every colour hair ever (xecpt pink) but now i’m normal, because being a mom, i understand i do have to tone it down a bit!!!
isn’t it nice living w/a wonderful guy? i miss that! my kids father was NOT a nice guy, but b4 that i had a quite nice one :)
awww ur so lucky, lately i’ve had the worst luck w/guys!!! :(
is it ok to give my email over here?

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:56:40 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114481 Let’s just hope you won’t turn out like my former friends mom did.
She likes to call herself the Eternity Teenager and she wears gothic clothes.
Talks just like you in fact *wink wink* Nawwww Im joking again, but not about the gothic mom though! I also moved from my hometown I didn’t want to but Mrs.Mom made me, she almost decided to stay IM SO GLAD SHE DIDNT, I would never have met my guy.
I moved in with him now, it’s kind of awesome. The kind of awesome where you have a SWEET watermelon in your mouth.

I think you should add me on msn or something, gimme your email>:(

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:53:10 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114474 hahaha so there, don’t worry i’m just average-smart LOL.
yeah i will still always be young at heart, cuz i remember what it’s like to be a kid, i mean really young, and when i was young i always told myself i’d remember and not be dumb like all the other adults! loll… i ask lots of my friends like “do u remember how this/that felt?” and they don’t!!! i’m so shocked, but i will always be a kid LOL
at ur age i was already moved out and living in a diff city than where i grew up… me and my bf went on an adventure, lol…
love is great and i really hope everyone finds it!!! we all need that sumone to be there no matter what!

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:45:27 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114465 [quote ☆MoNiCa☆]I AM jeez let me get my wallet LOL. i think u could make a killing like that LOL!

well i have 2 kids i’m 23 yrs old… it’s hard to have hope, but i do!!!
But I love my kids, and even if i was alone for the rest of my life, i really wouldn’t be cuz i’d have them!!! that’s what i tell myself and it usually works :)
Life goes on, and i find things come to us mostly when we’re not looking for them.[/quote]

Wow I am mind blown by every word, specially the wallet part hmmhmm hahaha :D
Well I’m 6 years younger, you do the math 8)

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:38:41 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114463 I AM jeez let me get my wallet LOL. i think u could make a killing like that LOL!

well i have 2 kids i’m 23 yrs old… it’s hard to have hope, but i do!!!
But I love my kids, and even if i was alone for the rest of my life, i really wouldn’t be cuz i’d have them!!! that’s what i tell myself and it usually works :)
Life goes on, and i find things come to us mostly when we’re not looking for them.

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:35:09 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114451 [quote ☆MoNiCa☆][quote Dorian]Aye, but sometimes you can’t really get to know a person without spending at least some time in a relationship with them as well. As one of my friends once put it, the only way to get to know someone completely is to be their friend, their partner and their ex, because you’ll see a different side to them in each situation[/quote]

so true… some ppl put on a show for everyone BUT their significant other, and i hate that!!! we should be the nicest to the person we’re supposed to love, and who cares what anybody else thinks about us!? i don’t get ppl who care what total strangers think! i sure don’t!

aw andreaa ur lucky :) i’m still crossin’ my fingers, but i’m still young and stranger things have happened :P[/quote]

But I am young :3 If you’re younger, boy you must be the smartest youngster! Oh yeah, never give up hope! EVER, hope is awesome, plus it helps.

HOPE NOW 15$, WHO’S TAKIN?!
lmaoo

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:26:54 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114443 [quote Dorian]Aye, but sometimes you can’t really get to know a person without spending at least some time in a relationship with them as well. As one of my friends once put it, the only way to get to know someone completely is to be their friend, their partner and their ex, because you’ll see a different side to them in each situation[/quote]

so true… some ppl put on a show for everyone BUT their significant other, and i hate that!!! we should be the nicest to the person we’re supposed to love, and who cares what anybody else thinks about us!? i don’t get ppl who care what total strangers think! i sure don’t!

aw andreaa ur lucky :) i’m still crossin’ my fingers, but i’m still young and stranger things have happened :P

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:23:38 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114440 [quote Dorian]Aye, but sometimes you can’t really get to know a person without spending at least some time in a relationship with them as well. As one of my friends once put it, the only way to get to know someone completely is to be their friend, their partner and their ex, because you’ll see a different side to them in each situation[/quote]

That’s what I also thought

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:20:59 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114439 [quote ☆MoNiCa☆]key word “hopeless” … me too :( why do they put out all those love stories when no guys are ever really like that?? boohoo! :( we’ve got to find the moldable guys :P
i just recently learnt my lesson about really finding out who a person is before getting involved! :S[/quote]

Some guys are like that, I just can’t really mention but I know there are LOTS of them out there, I just don’t care because I found my match WHEEE :3 :D

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:20:22 +0100 Reply from Dorian /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114438 Aye, but sometimes you can’t really get to know a person without spending at least some time in a relationship with them as well. As one of my friends once put it, the only way to get to know someone completely is to be their friend, their partner and their ex, because you’ll see a different side to them in each situation

]]> Dorian Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:20:14 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114435 key word “hopeless” … me too :( why do they put out all those love stories when no guys are ever really like that?? boohoo! :( we’ve got to find the moldable guys :P
i just recently learnt my lesson about really finding out who a person is before getting involved! :S

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:17:55 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114432 [quote ☆MoNiCa☆]LOL.. the sneak attack break-up. oy. it’s all how u feel about her… picture being with HER for the rest of ur life. GOOD or BAD? ……[/quote]

hahaha LOL sneak attack xD

I’m going to share something:

I never date a person which I could not imagine myself with in the future.
Once I did for two weeks but that’s a whole different story.

___

I don’t know why but somehow I feel that the right thing is to always be with someone that you can imagine yourself with.

But then again, I’m a hopeless romantic.

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:15:08 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114428 LOL.. the sneak attack break-up. oy. it’s all how u feel about her… picture being with HER for the rest of ur life. GOOD or BAD? ……

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:12:27 +0100 Reply from Dorian /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114424 Heh, like I said on the other post, I keep forgetting the little checkbox!
I’ll see how it goes - I’m too tired to be making any decisions about this at the moment. She told me earlier she doesn’t want to lose me, but she would have broken up with me if I hadn’t met up with her for her birthday three weeks ago because I’d been neglecting her during my exams. She’s also told me in the past that if she thought I was about to break up with her, then she’d break up with me first, which I guess is fair enough.

]]> Dorian Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:08:27 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114420 [quote Dorian]I know what I SHOULD do - that’s never really borne much resemblance to what I actually end up doing. I guess we’ll see next time the two of us meet up. I really owe her better than to just break up with her over the phone.[/quote]

Yeah braking up on the phone isn’t a very good idea unless she would want it that way (which I find highly impossible hehe). I think you should tell her how you feel and what you’re thinking and if you have then I think you know what to do next, either stay with her and try to sort things or a gentle brake up :).

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:06:30 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114417 lol, totally gave up the anonymous thing, huh? :)
breaking up over the phone sucks, and it sounds like u really like her!! maybe u could tell her how ur feeling uncertain and see how she feels? it’s always good to be honest!

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:00:20 +0100 Reply from Dorian /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114410 I know what I SHOULD do - that’s never really borne much resemblance to what I actually end up doing. I guess we’ll see next time the two of us meet up. I really owe her better than to just break up with her over the phone.

]]> Dorian Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:57:41 +0100 Reply from andreaa /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114405 Some relationships have to work on a bit more, I’m not sure if I should say that to your situation since I don’t know everything about it and I’m not you.

But at least I could say when me and my boyfriend were together for 7 months or so I didn’t really feel anything, I told him and he asked me to wait.

I waited for some time and the bad feeling in my stomach went away and I felt that I was in love finally again.

Maybe you need to stick to each other for a while and wait for the summer to be over, I know it’s hard but if you want to and she does then you should give it a try.

But like you said, you knew what you were going to do and I think that’s probably the best decision since you know yourself the best.

]]> andreaa Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:55:23 +0100 Reply from ☆MoNiCa☆ /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114377 lol… it IS hard work, unless it’s meant to be! if u almost forget about her for like a week, i think u could find sumthing (sumone) that (who) grabs ur attention a bit more!!! long dis is hard too!!! u know if it’s worth it, like u said, and u deserve to be happy!!
should it be about finding someone else?… u should try and chill, have fun, and it might come to you and u’ll know when it’s someone u wanna be with!

]]> ☆MoNiCa☆ Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:44:32 +0100 Reply from Dorian /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114376 No, I’m acutely aware that there’s no way I can handle this where she won’t get hurt. It’s just a case of limiting the damage. I also know how long it took her to get over it last time, so it’s not just the initial pain I’d be causing. Am I thinking too much into this?

]]> Dorian Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:44:09 +0100 Reply from Cecilia /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114372 My only thoughts are that you seem like a dead nice amazing guys. The fact that you are so concerned about not hurting her is really nice. I know a lot of guys who wouldn’t even think about that. They’d only care for themselves. But that will probably inadvertently make it harder for her because you’re so nice. But I think the fact you are so in tune to not hurting her will make it easier for her.
For example, my friend just got dumped by her boyfriend and two days later, he was sleeping with someone else. And they had supposedly been in love and almost getting married. You don’t sound like you would do anything like that. And I think you will automatically know in your heart how to handle each aspect of it so she doesn’t get hurt, but so you also do what is right for you.

]]> Cecilia Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:41:27 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114368 To be honest I kinda miss being single - if we did break up I’d be staying that way for the forseeable future. Relationships are too much like hard work.

]]> Anonymous Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:40:20 +0100 Reply from fjdsakfjdl /post/291537-i-almost-broke-up-with-my-girlfrien#reply-5114367 . . . I’m almost in the same boat . . .
It seems like its easier just to find someone else…
but is it? is it really?

Why. . .

]]> fjdsakfjdl Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:39:09 +0100