[Help] Well, I have royally screwed up, AGAIN. Updates to this post /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag Sun, 21 Mar 2010 16:29:52 +0100 Reply from darkscorpia /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5276112 [quote kjdsa]oooh, it sounds like something i would get into.
honestly, tell him he was sending you mixed messages and you didn’t know where the two of you were going, let alone whether or not the two of you were exclusive or serious. serious as in.. actually going somewhere.
you really should just talk to him, and depend on your natural instinct to find the right timing.[/quote]

great advice, thank you!

]]> darkscorpia Sun, 04 Oct 2009 00:51:58 +0100 Reply from kjdsa /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5276100 oooh, it sounds like something i would get into.
honestly, tell him he was sending you mixed messages and you didn’t know where the two of you were going, let alone whether or not the two of you were exclusive or serious. serious as in.. actually going somewhere.
you really should just talk to him, and depend on your natural instinct to find the right timing.

]]> kjdsa Sun, 04 Oct 2009 00:34:20 +0100 Reply from Agaa /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275378 okay its by no means our fault you didnt really have a commitment there so dont think that its your fault, as someone mentioned above , i cant remember who, an apology is good but it doesnt mean youre sorry for doing something which was wrong if that makes sense seriously to get him on his own just mske out you need his help for something but not so big a thing that itll take more than him to help

hope this is a bit better
feel free to completely dismiss it hehe

Jay

]]> Agaa Sat, 03 Oct 2009 15:59:54 +0100 Reply from darkscorpia /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275377 [quote Dr. Ralph][quote darkscorpia]i didn’t make out with the other guy! i was sitting on him, and he just bit my neck, kissed my neck.. and i hit him on the head cos he was drunk and high, but he is just a friend to me. After i made out with him (i mean the guy i go to school with, not the guy who was biting my neck) i didn’t make out with anyone else after.. i really didn’t want to.[/quote]

I bet if you tell him this it will make everything wayyy better for both of you.[/quote]

Yeah, i guess so. i just dont know how to bring it up.. if it’s meant to be it will be- is that my spiritual side talking or my scared side? :/

]]> darkscorpia Sat, 03 Oct 2009 15:58:57 +0100 Reply from Dr. Ralph /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275371 [quote darkscorpia]i didn’t make out with the other guy! i was sitting on him, and he just bit my neck, kissed my neck.. and i hit him on the head cos he was drunk and high, but he is just a friend to me. After i made out with him (i mean the guy i go to school with, not the guy who was biting my neck) i didn’t make out with anyone else after.. i really didn’t want to.[/quote]

I bet if you tell him this it will make everything wayyy better for both of you.

]]> Dr. Ralph Sat, 03 Oct 2009 15:53:47 +0100 Reply from darkscorpia /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275367 [quote Richard Cor de Lyon]You could apologize to him for hurting him… that apology by the way does NOT imply that you did anything wrong, you didn’t. You are not in a committed relationship with this guy… if you were, you would have known it… the two of you would have talked about it. People in committed relationships talk about their relationship, they don’t just assume things.

But I want you to think about something and I apologize up front if this offends you. Perhaps he was not hurt because you were making out with someone… but rather he was hurt that you ALLOWED a drunken, drugged up looser to be slobbering all over you, and feeling you up in public. Perhaps he thought you were a better woman than that… maybe that is why he was hurt.

You have to talk with him to heal anything.[/quote]

I’m not offended, honestly i just didn’t think.. the guy i was sitting on is like a brother to me, but they don’t know each other so it’s my fault..

]]> darkscorpia Sat, 03 Oct 2009 15:48:50 +0100 Reply from darkscorpia /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275361 i didn’t make out with the other guy! i was sitting on him, and he just bit my neck, kissed my neck.. and i hit him on the head cos he was drunk and high, but he is just a friend to me. After i made out with him (i mean the guy i go to school with, not the guy who was biting my neck) i didn’t make out with anyone else after.. i really didn’t want to.

]]> darkscorpia Sat, 03 Oct 2009 15:46:09 +0100 Reply from Richard Cor de Lyon /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275342 You could apologize to him for hurting him… that apology by the way does NOT imply that you did anything wrong, you didn’t. You are not in a committed relationship with this guy… if you were, you would have known it… the two of you would have talked about it. People in committed relationships talk about their relationship, they don’t just assume things.

But I want you to think about something and I apologize up front if this offends you. Perhaps he was not hurt because you were making out with someone… but rather he was hurt that you ALLOWED a drunken, drugged up looser to be slobbering all over you, and feeling you up in public. Perhaps he thought you were a better woman than that… maybe that is why he was hurt.

You have to talk with him to heal anything.

]]> Richard Cor de Lyon Sat, 03 Oct 2009 15:20:34 +0100 Reply from Dr. Ralph /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275338 I guess he didn’t expect to see you making out with random guys. Maybe he thought when you made out with him it was something special and now he is hurt. Guys seem to ease into relationships and girls don’t.

]]> Dr. Ralph Sat, 03 Oct 2009 15:14:05 +0100 Reply from darkscorpia /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275315 [quote Agaa]hes messing you around
get him to be completely clear of how he feels about you
ask him plainly do you have feelings for me?
do you want a relationship ?
althoough be careful coz if he wants you you cant let him take you for granted okay ?

hope this helps a little

jay[/quote]

thanks.. i want to do that, but i’d just have to get him alone i guess.. That’s a little hard since he’s surrounded by people all the time..

]]> darkscorpia Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:47:11 +0100 Reply from Agaa /post/317433-well-i-have-royally-screwed-up-ag#reply-5275296 hes messing you around
get him to be completely clear of how he feels about you
ask him plainly do you have feelings for me?
do you want a relationship ?
althoough be careful coz if he wants you you cant let him take you for granted okay ?

hope this helps a little

jay

]]> Agaa Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:21:56 +0100