[Help] i feal like i did a bad thing i called 911 on my mom Updates to this post /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal Tue, 09 Feb 2010 07:33:38 +0100 The post was closed by S /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-9165458 S Sun, 08 Nov 2009 03:10:39 +0100 The post was opened by S /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-9165450 S Sun, 08 Nov 2009 03:09:30 +0100 The post was closed by S /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-9165447 S Sun, 08 Nov 2009 03:08:28 +0100 Reply from david900 /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5331707 man u did a bad think ur dad will hate u forever no camping no nothing nice job duche

]]> david900 Sat, 07 Nov 2009 23:19:10 +0100 Reply from Squirrel ツ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5331058 [quote grippinglin]mom says how is he going to forgive me and or my mom do i run away?[/quote]
Might be a good idea for you and mom to try and get away

]]> Squirrel ツ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 14:34:46 +0100 Reply from Uzma_101 /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330975 (Y) does he or as he ever abused u? anyway, if he can to ur mum he can to u too, its just trying to keep urself safe. Its better for urself to live away from ur dad than putting up with that crap all the time, that is just worser for u and trust it will take u know where.

]]> Uzma_101 Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:24:29 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330971 [quote Uzma_101]dw, u did nothing wrong u were only doing the right thing. Ur dad will and needs to understnd and realise wot he did was wrong. After all ur only a kid (right?) u shouldnt have to put up with that **** and neither should ur mom. Ur the innocent one, and ur dad wont hate u, he might be angry for a while, but he can never hate u remember, even if it seems like it.
Hopefully calling the police has helped make ur dad realise etc.[/quote]

Good one :)

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:21:02 +0100 Reply from Uzma_101 /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330966 dw, u did nothing wrong u were only doing the right thing. Ur dad will and needs to understnd and realise wot he did was wrong. After all ur only a kid (right?) u shouldnt have to put up with that **** and neither should ur mom. Ur the innocent one, and ur dad wont hate u, he might be angry for a while, but he can never hate u remember, even if it seems like it.
Hopefully calling the police has helped make ur dad realise etc.

]]> Uzma_101 Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:19:04 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330965 :)

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:18:27 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330955 ok bye add me on here :)

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:09:35 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330954 I have to leave for work sweety, I check in later:) There are lots of people here that will help:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:08:57 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330953 its 4 in the morning…dont tink anyone use there phone :s..

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:08:43 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330952 Call them now, go use a pay phone or neighbors if it’s safe. Tell them you are frighten.

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:07:55 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330951 they talked 2 me and stuff and i told em wat happend and stuff and my age they didnt ask anything about that though, wish they put a camera somewhere in here

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:05:45 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330950 Why are you alone?

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:05:20 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330948 Also, this maybe your first time..not the police’s! They do this everyday, hundreds of times and they can counsel you, tell them your age:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:04:21 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330947 If he acts like he is going to do something, yes I would run.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:03:53 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330946 i hope he dosnt do anything hope he just goes 2 bed..

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:03:45 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330945 they dident tell me when hes getting out, and i do have fast feet, so do i run?

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:02:47 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330944 [quote grippinglin][quote Max]Let me word it this way…show me a man who hits women and ignores police and I’ll show you an animal that belongs in jail. Show me a man that would harm a 12 year old and I’ll show you a strong young woman that will put him in jail.
Your mother needs you to be strong:)[/quote]

heh… but what if he dosnt… then what and i dont have a phone no more[/quote]

You’re 12, you have very fast feet:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 12:01:09 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330943 btw the police can tell you when he’s getting out.

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:59:47 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330942 It says in the bible “Behold, I have given you the authority to tread over serpents & scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and NOTHING can harm you.” Keep your faith in GOD and remember that he will keep you safe if you ask him to. Just try to keep your focus on knowing everythings going to be okay.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:59:44 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330941 [quote Max]Let me word it this way…show me a man who hits women and ignores police and I’ll show you an animal that belongs in jail. Show me a man that would harm a 12 year old and I’ll show you a strong young woman that will put him in jail.
Your mother needs you to be strong:)[/quote]

heh… but what if he dosnt… then what and i dont have a phone no more

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:59:35 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330940 you guys arent helping much on what i should do now…

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:58:40 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330939 Let me word it this way…show me a man who hits women and ignores police and I’ll show you an animal that belongs in jail. Show me a man that would harm a 12 year old and I’ll show you a strong young woman that will put him in jail.
Your mother needs you to be strong:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:58:35 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330938 [quote Anonymous]Do you believe in GOD?[/quote]

YES! I DO

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:56:39 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330937 Do you believe in GOD?

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:56:05 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330936 his with you dont worry..he have been with you12years and going to stay with you..

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:55:38 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330935 GOD WHAT DO I DO?

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:54:02 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330934 hes not going too listen to what the cops say hess gunna try too kill me..

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:53:07 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330933 Be brave and get someone to be there with you. They may even send someone with them.

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:52:33 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330932 not actually punched her but threw her pushed her and stuff but it got better over the years

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:52:15 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330931 i wish i knew when hes coming back id feal a bit more comfertable

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:51:43 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330930 Has he hit your mom?

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:51:32 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330929 but hes hurt my mom before this aint the frist time i just got sick of it and pressed call but i dident mean too it like did it automaticly i paniced then my mom threatned 2 kill me and stuff

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:50:36 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330928 no hes never hurt me

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:49:30 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330927 Has he hit you before?

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:48:52 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330926 my mom thinks i deserve it being hurt or something i bet i never called the cops on anyone i dident want to press call… im fricking freaking

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:48:15 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330925 They don’t hate you…they hate that they got caught.
It’s not hate…it looks like it…it’s fear and sadness!
Have you even seen a normal person smile when they got caught doing something bad….no!
When do they get home?

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:47:05 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330924 can someone answer this, what if he trys 2 get near me what do i do? tell him too go away? leave me alone? or do i run away? how can i solve from him not hurting me or trying too..

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:47:00 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330923 [quote Anonymous]Honey, don’t be so scared. You are going to be okay. You are so young and precious, it’s normal to feel like you hate your life right now because of what you are going through. This time will past sooner than you think.[/quote]

Yep Agreeee..
and dont worry you done a good thing

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:46:50 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330922 Honey, don’t be so scared. You are going to be okay. You are so young and precious, it’s normal to feel like you hate your life right now because of what you are going through. This time will past sooner than you think.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:44:36 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330920 [quote grippinglin]god i shoulda never called the cops[/quote]

you done a good thing called cops..if you did not it can be much wrong..

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:43:51 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330919 mom says how is he going to forgive me and or my mom do i run away?

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:43:00 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330916 god i shoulda never called the cops

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:41:29 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330914 well what should i do now what do i do? mom and dad hate me now looks like mom wont talk too me she got better when cops talked too her but idk about my dad im just fricking really scared…

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:40:49 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330913 [quote grippinglin]i hate my life…[/quote]

you dont have to..

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:40:27 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330911 i hate my life…

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:38:51 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330910 well all im gunan do is hide in a fricking closet under bunch of blankets etc

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:37:34 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330909 [quote grippinglin][quote Max]Hey sweety, I’m a dad and my friends have gone through something like this. Come to think of it, my brother did too. They need to understand you will be strong and not tolerate this. I’m sorry for hearing you have to play the role of the adult, but you did a GOOD thing:)
Can you stay at a relative or friends place?[/quote]

no relatives live around me but my brother loren hes closet too me[/quote]

but no, i do have a friend but hes not always at his dads house its by me

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:36:51 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330908 [quote Max]Hey sweety, I’m a dad and my friends have gone through something like this. Come to think of it, my brother did too. They need to understand you will be strong and not tolerate this. I’m sorry for hearing you have to play the role of the adult, but you did a GOOD thing:)
Can you stay at a relative or friends place?[/quote]

no relatives live around me but my brother loren hes closet too me

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:35:59 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330907 [quote grippinglin][quote grippinglin][quote ℓινιηg4уσυ]=/ yes you could do something if your mother come to abuse you..
you have to talk…how old are you??[/quote]

me?[/quote]

well too be honest im only 12..[/quote]

Your 12…but you Still done a good think that you call to the police.

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:34:39 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330906 Hey sweety, I’m a dad and my friends have gone through something like this. Come to think of it, my brother did too. They need to understand you will be strong and not tolerate this. I’m sorry for hearing you have to play the role of the adult, but you did a GOOD thing:)
Can you stay at a relative or friends place?

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:34:37 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330905 [quote Anonymous]I always hid in my closet and prayed. I knew that I couldn’t do anything if my mom did abuse me, all I had was GOD to look after me. So I would just ask that he would keep me safe. I’m still here so he must of answered my prayers.[/quote]

and how olod are you?

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:34:20 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330903 [quote grippinglin][quote ℓινιηg4уσυ]=/ yes you could do something if your mother come to abuse you..
you have to talk…how old are you??[/quote]

me?[/quote]

well too be honest im only 12..

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:32:59 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330902 [quote ℓινιηg4уσυ]=/ yes you could do something if your mother come to abuse you..
you have to talk…how old are you??[/quote]

me?

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:32:16 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330901 =/ yes you could do something if your mother come to abuse you..
you have to talk…how old are you??

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:31:47 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330900 [quote Anonymous]I always hid in my closet and prayed. I knew that I couldn’t do anything if my mom did abuse me, all I had was GOD to look after me. So I would just ask that he would keep me safe. I’m still here so he must of answered my prayers.[/quote]

yeah il do that thts like the bst post yet..

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:31:39 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330898 owell well this hasnt helped me much that but it helped in a way though

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:30:37 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330897 I always hid in my closet and prayed. I knew that I couldn’t do anything if my mom did abuse me, all I had was GOD to look after me. So I would just ask that he would keep me safe. I’m still here so he must of answered my prayers.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:30:18 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330891 i..se..
but you can go out??
Go to the police station..and talk to them if anything wrong happend..

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:21:29 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330889 what do i do too try to avoid him? or like get him away if he goes near the door or things

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:19:37 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330886 [quote ℓινιηg4уσυ][quote grippinglin][quote kolbeaid]You did the right thing. There is something wrong with your father’s behavior
and he needs professional help. You did the right thing, your heart and mind
were telling you it was the right thing to do. Great that you acted and helped your mom before it is too late. Your dad hopefully will get help from
a doctor with his anger issues, if he cannot , then you must understand that
there is something wrong with his thinking and rational, and you must
protect yourself and your mom.[/quote]

i know but what should i do now, just wait and see what he does?[/quote]

Wait. And see how is going to reject him self. But if he tries to do that again…
CALL AS FAST AS YOU CAN!![/quote]

ok yeah but my mom took my phone and i dont have another anymore and thats freaking me cause i cant talk to no friends and stuff and ask them thats why i came too a site like this, im just afraid hes going too hate me and yell at me and try too hurt me or w\e when he gets here thats my most fear right now.

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:16:23 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330883 [quote grippinglin][quote kolbeaid]You did the right thing. There is something wrong with your father’s behavior
and he needs professional help. You did the right thing, your heart and mind
were telling you it was the right thing to do. Great that you acted and helped your mom before it is too late. Your dad hopefully will get help from
a doctor with his anger issues, if he cannot , then you must understand that
there is something wrong with his thinking and rational, and you must
protect yourself and your mom.[/quote]

i know but what should i do now, just wait and see what he does?[/quote]

Wait. And see how is going to reject him self. But if he tries to do that again…
CALL AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:14:24 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330878 [quote kolbeaid]You did the right thing. There is something wrong with your father’s behavior
and he needs professional help. You did the right thing, your heart and mind
were telling you it was the right thing to do. Great that you acted and helped your mom before it is too late. Your dad hopefully will get help from
a doctor with his anger issues, if he cannot , then you must understand that
there is something wrong with his thinking and rational, and you must
protect yourself and your mom.[/quote]

10000% agree..

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:11:48 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330877 [quote kolbeaid]You did the right thing. There is something wrong with your father’s behavior
and he needs professional help. You did the right thing, your heart and mind
were telling you it was the right thing to do. Great that you acted and helped your mom before it is too late. Your dad hopefully will get help from
a doctor with his anger issues, if he cannot , then you must understand that
there is something wrong with his thinking and rational, and you must
protect yourself and your mom.[/quote]

i know but what should i do now, just wait and see what he does?

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:11:42 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330876 Unless he’s stupid…..he won’t:) Plus, there will be a time an your mom will step up. If not, save her and save yourself…call…talk:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:10:41 +0100 Reply from kolbeaid /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330874 You did the right thing. There is something wrong with your father’s behavior
and he needs professional help. You did the right thing, your heart and mind
were telling you it was the right thing to do. Great that you acted and helped your mom before it is too late. Your dad hopefully will get help from
a doctor with his anger issues, if he cannot , then you must understand that
there is something wrong with his thinking and rational, and you must
protect yourself and your mom.

]]> kolbeaid Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:10:31 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330872 [quote jetmoo]you did the right thing by helping your mam. I dont know what to suggest. but if he ever hurts you then you have to tell the police. could you talk to your mam about it? maybe if you are so scared, you could tell the police that you are scared that he may hurt you.[/quote]

but i cant just call the police again, there gone.. now he asked me if i wanted too stay here i said yes, but then i thought i dont want too stay here now i want to leave

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:10:17 +0100 Reply from jetmoo /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330869 you did the right thing by helping your mam. I dont know what to suggest. but if he ever hurts you then you have to tell the police. could you talk to your mam about it? maybe if you are so scared, you could tell the police that you are scared that he may hurt you.

]]> jetmoo Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:08:53 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330867 [quote Anonymous]My mom use to abuse my dad and after the police talked to her she would have usually have calmed down by the time she was around us again.[/quote]

I..see..
She was abused him aswell..
So it can that police talk to him and then it will stop every abuse..

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:08:37 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330866 uh what if im under 13..? do i get kicked out of this site?

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:08:17 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330864 How old are you?

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:07:40 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330863 yeah but what if he dosnt do what hes told and just do things he did before, because i dont wana call the police again, and get thrown out of our house and loose stuff like that wish i could rewind time…be cool

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:06:54 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330861 Did you watch the video link I sent you? Your mom is not thinking straight right now. She’s scared and needs support too:) It’s not you job to decide right and wrong, the police will:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:05:06 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330859 [quote Anonymous]My mom use to abuse my dad and after the police talked to her she would have usually have calmed down by the time she was around us again.[/quote]

i hope it turns out the same

[quote ❀❁✿❁❀][quote grippinglin]hes not good at confronting either… i feel like im going to get my headbusted open by him what should i do when he comes back? i have a note on the door and stuff but i dont think that’ll help and mom thinks i did a bad thing cop thinks i did a good thing i dont know im confused..[/quote]

Sounds like your mom just wants to protect him, even though hes doing wrong.[/quote]

yeah sounds like that too…

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:04:25 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330855 My mom use to abuse my dad and after the police talked to her she would have usually have calmed down by the time she was around us again.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:03:36 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330854 okay thank you i hope this helps if it dont il post again, talk too you laterz

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:03:11 +0100 Reply from Squirrel ツ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330853 [quote grippinglin]hes not good at confronting either… i feel like im going to get my headbusted open by him what should i do when he comes back? i have a note on the door and stuff but i dont think that’ll help and mom thinks i did a bad thing cop thinks i did a good thing i dont know im confused..[/quote]

Sounds like your mom just wants to protect him, even though hes doing wrong.

]]> Squirrel ツ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:03:02 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330851 Dont worry police they will talk to him..and they will warn him..
You done a good thing that you call the police..
You care about your mum and about your self..she didnt have to Mad about you you dont a good thing..you are trying to help him and her as well.

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:01:47 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330849 hes not good at confronting either… i feel like im going to get my headbusted open by him what should i do when he comes back? i have a note on the door and stuff but i dont think that’ll help and mom thinks i did a bad thing cop thinks i did a good thing i dont know im confused..

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:01:24 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330848 Unless he is sick or lost his mind, he may follow the directions he’ll be given. The police will warn him very strongly and so will your mom. He may apologize and if so smile, hug and let him work it out.
If not, he’ll be dealing with other issues. It should be better:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:01:23 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330847 Keep the phone in your room close to you.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:01:14 +0100 Reply from Squirrel ツ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330846 I think that was actually really brave. He needs to either go to jail, or stop abusing her, and if hes abusing you too you need to call social services. No matter what he thinks, or what anyone has done, it does not give him the right to use them as a punching bag.
Hopefully this will be the wake up call he needs.

]]> Squirrel ツ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:01:09 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330845 she dont care shes mad at me i called the police she tells me not too but i dont want him hurting me or my mom its happend before but i never called the police and usally it gets worst after time… and he can like bust down my door and stuff im afraid hes going too react crazy but idk if nice i hope police talk too him or something

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:59:51 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330843 Talk to your Mom about how you don’t feel safe.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:58:03 +0100 Reply from grippinglin /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330841 no he dosnt abuse me im just scared because when he gets here im afraid hes like going to try too hurt me or something im like freaking out i dont want too get hurt im fricking i dont need this stuff i wana like run away or something i dont want too have to deal with this i just want to be left alone

]]> grippinglin Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:56:46 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330839 [quote Max]He crossed the line, not you! I’m sorry you are in this and hope he gets the help he needs. Be safe and as living4you say’s….talk:)[/quote]

:)
Thanks max.
Yes its better you talk and he will get the help he needs..beacuse abused your mother is not a good think dear friend..
Goodluck..
Takecare

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:54:45 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330836 He crossed the line, not you! I’m sorry you are in this and hope he gets the help he needs. Be safe and as living4you say’s….talk:)

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:52:17 +0100 Reply from ℓινιηg4уσυ /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330834 [quote Anonymous]If your dad is abusing your mom he should hate noone, but himself. Maybe it will make him realize what he is doing wrong. It may have needed to happen so that he could see what he’s doing is wrong. Does he abuse you?[/quote]

100% agree..you done a good think..you done it to hel your mother..
And does it abuse you aswell??
If he does TALK..

]]> ℓινιηg4уσυ Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:48:40 +0100 Reply from Max /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330833 http://ca.yahoo.com/s/994868

]]> Max Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:47:32 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/326133-i-feal-like-i-did-a-bad-thing-i-cal#reply-5330832 If your dad is abusing your mom he should hate noone, but himself. Maybe it will make him realize what he is doing wrong. It may have needed to happen so that he could see what he’s doing is wrong. Does he abuse you?

]]> Anonymous Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:46:00 +0100