[Help] My ex and i were best friends. Updates to this post /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:39:10 +0100 Reply from oriana_griffi /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053496 sadly to say you took that risk of of making that great friendship into something more. he might just feel that hurt or just need time…but i doubt that if you two do go back friends you won’t be as tight as you were before.

]]> oriana_griffi Fri, 24 Aug 2007 23:33:52 +0100 Reply from eqspike /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053311 You are fortunate to have your problems progress so quickly. You should be thankful. If you want to remain friends with him, don’t lead him on and give him false hope about getting back together. Be aware that may be what he wants, and if you don’t want that, make sure you keep things as just friends, and that he knows that is what it is going to be.

]]> eqspike Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:51:30 +0100 Reply from - Fourthings™ - /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053310 :O hehe

]]> - Fourthings™ - Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:51:26 +0100 Reply from manbearpig /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053267 Fourthings is the wrongest wrongness wrong person i ever heard! And he’s a panzy! hehehe!

]]> manbearpig Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:39:23 +0100 Reply from Molly-12 /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053236 well thats good news
im please for you

]]> Molly-12 Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:28:37 +0100 Reply from Sallywoo /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053235 Good luck…but give him space too…

]]> Sallywoo Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:28:35 +0100 Reply from NatashaPlease /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053233 Update….

He foned me just this second sayin he was bein unreasonable, and at school on monday were goin to try and get on normally bcuz we miss talkin to each other as friends..

Hopfully tht will b all sorted :]

]]> NatashaPlease Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:28:09 +0100 Reply from - Fourthings™ - /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053227 Alright, Sorry, that was mean, I’ve been in his possition before and it really is hard to get over a girl that wants to stay friends, give him a cuple months space…. Sorry!

]]> - Fourthings™ - Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:25:39 +0100 Reply from Molly-12 /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053221 You Must Say You’re Sorry For Causing Him Pain But He Has To Move On And He’s A Good Friend You Dont Want To Lose Him.

]]> Molly-12 Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:22:14 +0100 Reply from - Fourthings™ - /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053218 So “http://help.com/post/89042-iv-just-broke-up-with-my-boy” was a different bf? Slow down b4 ya get the clap. Broke up with = Dump
Me = Bogging off now, Good luck!

]]> - Fourthings™ - Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:21:28 +0100 Reply from eqspike /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053208 I know you want things to go back to normal, but he’s obviously not over the break-up. You can tell him that you eally value his friendship, even though you aren’t together and hope that one day he will be able to be your friend again.

It won’t get immediate results, but later on down the road when he is thinking about it, he may remember those words kindly, and not hold a grudge.

Right now, all you can do is give him as much space as possible.

]]> eqspike Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:17:58 +0100 Reply from NatashaPlease /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053206 i never dumped him.. i wasnt mean, we were better off as friends it just shudnt of happened to begin with.
And yes i have been dumped.. Very hasly a couple of times aswel, so i choose to do it in a way thts reasonable and not hurtful.
Dont b so mean and bog off pls

]]> NatashaPlease Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:16:44 +0100 Reply from - Fourthings™ - /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053204 Did you dump him? If so he has every right to hate you right now. Ever been dumped? If you want things to go back to normal get back with him otherwise sleep in the bed you made!

]]> - Fourthings™ - Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:14:02 +0100 Reply from NatashaPlease /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053200 Meh, i just want it back to normall he said he doesnt feel the akwardness but it doesnt give him a reason to ignore me!

We have to work together on the year book comitee aswel… this shud b enjoyable :S

]]> NatashaPlease Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:12:32 +0100 Reply from eqspike /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053198 The only thing that will help is time. He’s hurt, and he needs time. As a friend you should give him time to deal with the split and get over it. Once he’s over it, and has been for some time then try and talk to him in a friendly way.

He may decide that it is ok at that point. It really depends on how he deals with the hurt he is feeling right now.

]]> eqspike Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:11:10 +0100 Reply from - Fourthings™ - /post/92291-my-ex-and-i-were-best-friends#reply-3053197 You can’t. Another case of want cake and eat it syndrome

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