[Help] Height In a relationship... Updates to this post /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship Thu, 04 Sep 2008 22:25:36 +0100 Reply from villaveces /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3066672 I think that you have a problem. Most people have this problem. And it involves you needing reassurance from others about who you are and what you look like. Because its your height (just like if you looked chinese, or albino, etc) there is not alot you can really do about it (like cutting your legs or the like). You need to learn to love who you are and what you have. It is hard to not be affected by the media and our programming of what beautiful, pretty, normal, etc is. Part of the cure for this is realizing that what others think is important but not half as important as what you think and how you feel. The main thing is to figure out what type of person you are:
are you a pig, a sheep, or a wolf.

]]> villaveces Fri, 31 Aug 2007 17:48:26 +0100 Reply from soccer24/7 /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3066473 i doesnt matter, if your still in school then maby ur guy will grow some (im 13 going to be 14 and when i stop growing ill be aroung 6′ 5′’)

]]> soccer24/7 Fri, 31 Aug 2007 16:26:51 +0100 Reply from Sweetydei /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3064701 Love knows no height.

]]> Sweetydei Thu, 30 Aug 2007 23:03:07 +0100 Reply from xi.love.yoo /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3064223 Thankyou so much =D im sooo relieved!!

spesh thankes to rosa8604 & PJz198

Made me smile lots…well they all did

]]> xi.love.yoo Thu, 30 Aug 2007 19:20:48 +0100 Reply from issybelle /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3064161 Nah it’s cool.
I knew a girl who got mistaken for her boyfriend’s babysitter.
lol but they were still happy.
I’m 5 foot about and I don’t intend to keep growing.
So I must admit when I DO go with guys shorter than me, it’s kinda awkward at first.
But then you have to realize, who cares?!

]]> issybelle Thu, 30 Aug 2007 18:56:14 +0100 Reply from PJz198 /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3064043 I think it’s kind of sexy. You’ll look sort of like a model with her beau out on the town. That’s what I pictured when I read your post, anyway. Ever see those pictures of the models and their shorter boyfriends? I guess you could say it’s kind of vogue. :P

]]> PJz198 Thu, 30 Aug 2007 17:48:49 +0100 Reply from rosa8604 /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3064018 I’m 5′11″ and my boyfriend is like 5′8″ and we are as happy as can be together. we are so in love with eachother the hight thing never even was an issue. it is perfectly ok to be taller than your boyfriend! :)

]]> rosa8604 Thu, 30 Aug 2007 17:31:26 +0100 Reply from xi.love.yoo /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063823 interesting question…
well….. i would tell him height doesnt matter…and ask if hes just picking on that section because of something else in our relationship.. otherwise i would move on but it wouldnt stop me going for someone else smaller

]]> xi.love.yoo Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:15:26 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063811 .

]]> Anonymous Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:12:57 +0100 Reply from lalanieriver /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063809 i have a question for you. how would you feel if he broke it off because you’re to tall. i’m sure it would hurt you and hurt your confidence, well it would do the same to him. If you want to brake it off don’t make it about height. and what the people around shouldn’t matter in the end it only matters if you make each other happy

]]> lalanieriver Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:12:05 +0100 Reply from xi.love.yoo /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063803 i understand… and its helpd me and ive made my mind up! i dont care what anyone else thinks! aslong as im living and i love myself the way i am… i should hopefully find someone who loves me that way too! no matter how tall i am… and i wudnt want to be any shorter!.. i stand out and love it….thanks you lot

=D

]]> xi.love.yoo Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:11:19 +0100 Reply from nixevan /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063793 Hmm that sounded a bit horrible didn’t it. I didn’t mean it in a horrible way. Tough love and all that

]]> nixevan Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:09:04 +0100 Reply from asa /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063790 Well, that’s not a lot, I mean, your length or the difference in hight. I think a lot of guys would even like that you’re taller. Anyway it is not something you should really be concerned with, I wouldn’t be.

]]> asa Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:08:23 +0100 Reply from nixevan /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063789 What others think shouldn’t matter, live for yourself and what makes you happy. You can bet those people you are worrying about are not busy getting worried about you. They are just getting on with their lives.

]]> nixevan Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:08:18 +0100 Reply from xi.love.yoo /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063784 when i think about it….it does come across my mind
but if im happy isnt that all that matters?

]]> xi.love.yoo Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:07:20 +0100 Reply from ~LazyDaze /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063779 Mayb you need to focus more on that then. If you worry what others think about you then you will find that what others think wil start to control what you do and who you are.
Be an indevidual, if your not harming anyone then do what you think is best.

]]> ~LazyDaze Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:05:41 +0100 Reply from Xeno Dragon /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063778 The outside doesn’t matter. If anyone thinks it matters, then they DON’T matter.

]]> Xeno Dragon Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:05:08 +0100 Reply from lalanieriver /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063777 height shouldn’t be an issue but if you’re asking this it’s because it’s an issue for YOU. and if you aren’t comfortable with the height difference it will always be in the back of your mind.

]]> lalanieriver Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:04:54 +0100 Reply from xi.love.yoo /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063776 I Dont Think It Matters…Im Just The Kind Of Person Who Worries What Other People Might Think…

]]> xi.love.yoo Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:04:22 +0100 Reply from nixevan /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063775 If you want to be with someone love has no barriers, tall, short, fat, thin, anything, if you love someone you love them

]]> nixevan Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:04:18 +0100 Reply from xi.love.yoo /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063773 Errrrrr 180 and 175 cm

]]> xi.love.yoo Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:03:31 +0100 Reply from ~LazyDaze /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063769 Its not other people you should ask , its yourself, if you don’t mind then nothing else matters.
If he is taller, shorter there is no difference , the only difference is in your mind.
So ask yourself, does it bother you?

]]> ~LazyDaze Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:02:46 +0100 Reply from asa /post/93316-height-in-a-relationship#reply-3063765 What’s that in Metric?

]]> asa Thu, 30 Aug 2007 16:01:30 +0100