Erik's shoutbox - Help.com

make me #22 pleaseee thanks and fix chat and i like when it auto updates..and it doesn’t anymore and it makes me sad also one last thing i’d like to be a mod cuz i spend all my time on here anyways..THANKS!!!

Hey i dunno if you still work here or not figured i ask anyway, can you clear the mod Q thing.

i beg of you, come back, we seriously need help here

How do you report a moderator whom I think keeps on posting as anon just to make help.com members angry?

Figured no-one left a comment around here in a while!
How are things man? how’s the Italian coming on??

***pokes*** how are u number one?? lols!! Can i be number 22 it’s my favorite number??

Hello Erik, you rock - all in all this is a sweet site

Hi are you an admin? cos I need to ask something if you are

Are you the creator of Help.com?

Erik, I am having a problem with this site, and I dont know who to talk to about it… I have been a member for over 2 years and hate to leave unless I can talk to someone who could resolve some issues…

awesome site man. keep up the good work!

I’m serious, how are you? =p i’m a pest, you should call a exterminator…

Hey,
You don’t know me but I joined recently (2 months ago)
And love it here… I have become addicted!
Just thought I might say Hi as you are one of the original help.com people!

(: Sam

Hows it goin guy?

Hi. This site is really good. I enjoy it here. There’s no need to worry about people using what you say against you.
Was this site your idea?

i here you created help.com who else helped you

Wow, haven’t seen you on here in ages… =]

Life has been good for me. My wife and I have our first baby. A 4 month old little girl. Work as an insurance agent is satisfying and affords me time to be a parent all at one stroke. Anyhow, I was thinking about all the old friends from Help.com and came back to check in and reassure them that all is well with me. Not that I’m doing anything particularly interesting to anyone else. Looking after a baby is facinating to the parents but it’s a total bore to everyone else. I hope things are going well for you. Obviously the Help.com seems to be going well. Take care!

Hello Erik! it is so good to see a number of mods and admins up lately! :)

Take care!

Erik, there are some mean-spirited moderators on this board. Tried to make this post about 10 times, changed it up, etc. and they will not post it….Also, wrote a message under report a post and no go…I know you have bigger fish to fry than this site, but there are some real numbers here in the name of moderators…Nothing like C.M.. Jeff, etc…here is the post…

Spunky101

Baldwyn, MS, US Why do people step on your feelings, and say, “I’m just this way!
”

Come on folks…that is NOT way to treat your fellowman. Good hearted people don’t do things to hurt other people’s feeling willingly and knowingly. Sure, because we are human, we hurt others sometimes without knowing it…that is different…. In this life, we as human beings should treat others the way the way we want to be treated. There has been lots of discussion on this site about religion etc. and leave religion out of this discussion, but there is much scripture about, Love Thy Neighbor As Thyself, etc… Regardless, if you are religious or not, think about loving thy neighbor as thyself. If everyone did this, would this not be a great World to live in today!

Everyday, as you walk thru your daily life, be nice and kind too every human being, regardless of their social position, their color, their looks, their sexual perference, etc…Don’t treat anyone any different. They are all special. Don’t be mean to the mean-spirited, the person who has committed a crime, etc… You have no idea what they have gone thru…You can never judge another person until you have walked in their shoes. Believe me, I’ve not always followed my own advise, but as I’ve gotten older, and hopefully more wiser, see life much differently. I’ve said things which should have NEVER been said. Done things that should have never been done. Hopefully, I can make up for those transgressions.

Help.com is a great site to offer your hand and love to other human beings that are dealing with problems that are beyond our ability to understand. When the curtain falls and our life is at the end, how you treated your fellowman, in my humble opinion, will be HUGE.

Tonight, reach over and hug someone and tell them, I LOVE YOU!

Erik, all my Christian friends have left this site. And, after today, thought about leaving it, but no way I’m quitting. They are not running me off…

Just a question, when are these mods going to be changed?

Not much, just surfin’ past once in a while. I’m astounded that the chat room, over 2 years later has almost the same people in it. Wow.

So you are rea then! I was haveing my doubts.

Please, please, explain how this kind of stuff it allowed on help.com, but they ban us good guys..no one seems to care…maybe I’m getting too old and need to find other things to do..

GodKing

Ballinteer, 07, IE **** this, I’m pissed off…
I blame all of you because you’re right there… *******, ehh… fucken M&M’s, lookin at me wrong, I’ll have them I will… And you, are you looking at me wrong? Cos If you are I’ll throw M&M’s at you, they have biscuit so they explode on impact. So watch out, or KABLAMO!!1 I feel kinda sick, time for happy pills :D… I’m pissed off with bein single…

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Erik, Kt1 closed the post complimenting Papa Bear. Just absolutely amazing…With all the junk that goes thru here day after day, Kt1 did not like mine. There is no doubt in my mind, this is a “witch hunt!” In the scheme of things, no big deal…but, interesting…

Hi Erik! Thought you would want to see this..probably not, but anyway…here it is…

Would like to take the time to tell Papa Bear thank you for your work here!
Papa Bear, a moderator on this site, knows how to correct people and leave them with their dignity. He is an excellent peacemaker. Always loved C.M., a former moderator on this site, and Bear and C.M. are cut out of the same mold. They both have excellent people skills and never came across a dictatorial and mean-spirited. As I’ve always said, “there is 100 ways to say something, be sure to pick the one that fit the Golden Rule!” In other words, treat people like you like to be treated. Bear certainly does that…

Thank you Bear!

Take Erik,

Qzzzz, now Spunky101..

Hi Erik,
Sometimes there are posts where people are discussing how to spy on their believed-to-be-cheating spouses. Sad stories with no possibility of happy endings, when people take such steps. But anyway, there use to come those robot-generated ads for spyingt programs, people or companies making money out of others’ misery.They have passed the limits of decense, but I guess it is legal as long as the spying is made on your own computer.
But is it legal if it is made on another person’s computer? One of the ads is actually promising that.

It is found in the bottom of
http://help.com/post/100639-how-can-i…

Has that not passed the limits of what *help* allows?

Hello Erik, this is my first time sending you a message. I have been talking with Qzzz through email after his account has been deactivated. May i ask you to recheck the background of the situation that resulted to the deactivation of his account.
I really hope he is coming back. He is a well mannered man. Just some misunderstanding in most parties involved. Thank you.

so, like, really..In the last month to 3 months, can you find an example of where a ANON reply actually contributed anything, much less anything positive.

the more i think about it, the more I think the option should be limited to posts authors, and only within their own posts.

I really think it would eliminate some of the anumousity on here..think about it, huh?

NICE HOUSE BY THE WAY..they must pay you a lot..ha ha jk

ooooh Not seen you here before even though in help.com age you are ancient :D
Well anyway, Hi!
Hope you are well :)

KT1, and admin for this site, is abusing his powers. He removed 3 of my ads as duplicates, but he didn’t even leave the original up. The reason I reworded the question 2 other times is because I wasn’t getting the response I wanted, or the correct response, so I figured people weren’t understanding the details of my question. KT1 had insinuated that I “hijacked” 2 other posts and I clearly explained that was not the case. My opinion is that he has singled me out.

My advice to people has be excellent….you can see that I am the only person who knew the answer to a question about free database software, for example, and was thanked by the poster of the question.

Again, KT1 is abusing his powers and I am requesting your help.

Hello Erik,
I would like to report a user for violating rule 8 of the terms of service: Restrict or inhibit any other user from using and enjoying any public area within our sites.
Here is the link to this person’s page: http://help.com/user/124408-prettygoof
As you can see from all the posts, replies, and shouts this person as posted, the only reason he/she made an account is to “Restrict or inhibit any other user from using and enjoying any public area within our sites.”
This person has not made any posts or shouts requesting help, and has not made any replies or shouts offering help. The sole intent of this person is to shove their opinions down others throats, and to insult other people’s lifestyles out of sheer hatred and bigotry, without any evidence to back up their claims, and without the intent of helping.
All this person has achieved in creating an account is insulting and offending others. As that is the opposite of what this site is here fore, I think it would be completely within the rules for you to deactivate his/her account. I, and im sure the rest of the help.com users, would appreciate it if you would take this into consideration. thanks.

I am NOT interested in the Ajax job, so please stop sending me letters..also, I have paid my memebership dues up to the 1st of Febuary, so please no more reminders.

Thank You, the Managment

Please hold off on canceling my acct. Just going to step back for a while and re-access things..sorry about the mess..I do love this site…think we do some good!

Thanks,

Quay

NOOOO….. if only i had learned php a little faster… but im still learning it… ajax… got that down. oh, and i would have to move…. shoot. out of luck it seems.

can you still be christian if you curse?
would you still be christian if you curse everyday except sunday?

Erik, please read the exchanges on this post..and nothing said to them…I’m not the only one that feel this way..I’m just the outspoken one..

Anyway, I know you are tired of hearing this..and thought the matter was closed and behind us…and then this morning get this “stuff” from KT1…

Anyway, have a great day Erik…I’m going to the Alabama/Mississippi State game…believe me, will not be thinking about this “stuff”…lol…

Here is what KT1 sent me…these moderators, in my humble opinion, are causing the problems…

KT1
9 hours, 19 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

Please do not be dishonest with other users and tell them things that are not true. Rocky did not send you any threatening emails and you did ask, more than 5 times, for your account to be closed.

Erik, thought this matter was closed. Kt1 has called me a LIAR…not a happy camper…this getting out of hand…And, by the way, so called problem that i had with Times, in my view was not problem. We were have a friendly debate on depession. The other poster, Danihaxxxx cannot remember the rest..just called me an old man…that did not set well…lol..not at all..anyway, here is what I sent Kt1

Qzzzz
0 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

The problem with this site is the moderators like show their power. KT, due to crap lately, I really don’t care what you folks do…but, let me tell you one thing, if you are going to call me a liar…WE GOT ISSUES MY FRIEND…don’t appreciate that one DANG bit…NOT ONE IOTA….what did I lie about…just tell me that… Rocky sent me a shout threating a ban on me. ONLY then, did I request my account closed…He said I was causing problems with posters…if you will check and see, Times and Danihaxxxxx cannot remmember the other part of her name have had problems…and Times and I were just having a friendly debate on depression. Nothing bad said and Rocky takes it upon himself to step in and close the post. It seems to me that many old-time posters have had problems with you guys lately. It appears to me, you guys ALWAYS take up for the young posters. And believe me, some of them are not nice folks. I’ve stuck my nose in the chat room and GD and the F word are common and it appears they can get away with anything, but you guys take your shots at us…I’m going to send this to Erik…DO NOT AGAIN APPRECIATE YOU CALLING ME A LIAR…………..THAT IS STEPPING OVER THE LINE…..

Qzzzz
12 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

I beg your pardon…this is between me and Rocky…did not know you had a dog in the race….and Erik and I’ve discussed this matter..and you can put this in your pipe and smoke it, I DO NOT LIE………..have a nice day!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Erik, that is fine…there were only two people that I had problems with…if you read their posts, you will understand…but, having said that, understand your position…having been a teacher and coach, when two students have problems, TODAY, they are both wrong…NOT IN MY DAY…there was more justice then…people don’t want to take the time today to see who was wrong…they both get in trouble…well, sure hope the other two posters got the same message…

Thanks…bye……..

This is my last post on help.com!
The moderator says I’m a problem!

Qzzzz, you’ve been involved in a lot of squabbles on Help.com as of late. I hate to say this but if it continues, your account will be banned. We appreciate the great replies you’ve given but please refrain fighting with other users! (Rocky’s comments)

When people challange you as two posters did recently and I’m the ones that get chastized, I’ve better use of my time. I’ve made over 6,000 replies on this site and anyone will tell you that I’m conscientious and professional. The two posters, if read their replies, they are the problem, not Qzzzz. EVERYONE KNOW THAT, but you Rocky. Maybe, they need to change some moderators that will take the time and look into the problem rather than chastizing the good guys…Just want to point out Rocky, you spend a too much time in the chatroom and it is amazing that Times is always there when you are there…and she is one of the poster that I had a problem with…and the other poster, just take time to read the JUNK she writes on this site…..I want these comments to ge to Eric.

Please delete all my post and close my account.

Qzzzz

Eric, started to post this but decided not too….Rocky and I’ve never gotten along..He is NOT a fair moderator…you make your judgement…but, this what I see…I love this site, but under these circumstances it will be difficult to stay….

Please give me your views on the subject…