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Well if you are smart and the picture does not look like a dummy in it. What you have to do is learn from your experience and move on.

My first experience was with a woman was she was 18 years old and I was 20 years old. She hurt her back at work. Asked if I would pick up her rent and oh by the way I could not move in with her because she had a roommate (another female) who had an daughter of about three. So I could not live there, could not play house. I was to maintain me place and her place as well. Needless to say she was fu*king around. She went down to Columbus Ohio for about 8 months, shacked up with another guy and I was still paying for everything Christmas gifts included. She asked me to buy a car that she just had to have. Evrytime I would inquire about going down there, there was an excuse. Final the car broke down and she scrapped. Well she never had car, what she had me do was pay for an abortion for a kid that was not mine. Remember I told you I had not touched in 8 months. Come to find out she had been screwing her room mates boy friend too. I ended up dropping her. The only thing I regret is that she did not hit up the other SOB’s for up keep, but they sure as tf enjoyed the free ride.

Second relationship was with a young woman who has Cerebral Palsy. Don’t get me wrong we started out slow, just friends. She was 21 and I was 39. That lasted about 2 years. You know that young stuff is tight, don’t let them kid you. Come to find out she had a trust fund. I wasn’t interested in her trust fund. My forte is computers, this is how I met her was when I was I hired as a computer tutor (she attended the same community college I went to). She would visit me at my other job, we got to know one another, and we talked a lot because she has a speech impediment. At least I knew she was not fooling around. What she could not do was basically she could not cut her mothers umbilicus.

Usually the third is the charm. I am married to her, I know even if I am not a round she will not cheat on me. This whole thing of baring my soul is for you to LEARN BY YOUR MISTAKES! Learn so that you end up with the woman you want, need and deserve.

By the way most of the time my approach to something like this is to use the 2X4. I will not validate what meanbearpig is doing.