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• isnt the chat room available any more posted (3 months) ago
  the chat room available any more…

• how to get clarity in thinking…..i am finding difficulty in studies…i am a very smart sharp minded and quit witted gal otherwise.. posted (11 months, 1 week) ago
  but still i am not able to do well in studies.in fact this has costed me to failing thrice. i feel a…

• what is this site all about. posted (2 years) ago
  i wana know…

• how to deal with diplomatic peopple.. posted (2 years) ago
  their diplomacy disturbs me when i get emotionally very close to them.because there isnt an ounce of…

• wats the best website to watch movies posted (2 years) ago
  the best website to watch movies…

• how to deal with the situations where the people u love the most hurt your self respect (which u value immensly)…. posted (2 years) ago
  i really lose control over myself wen i have to confront humiliations from people i love the most an…

• i hate my mom. posted (2 years) ago
  she is a ***** . she thinks no end of herself. i really dont know how to deal with her in a situatio…

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• isnt the chat room available any more
  

  http://chat.help.com/
  - written 3 months ago

• What is the purpose of life?
  

  yeah rando i agree with u…i am pretty happy with the way u replied .i guess u expressed my opinion more beautiful than the way i wanted to…i guess u misinterpretated wat i wanted to say or i failed to put it across in words…
  i personally feel wat defines ones individuality is their wants..in would include even animals wild domestic as well.. our wants define our personality..so i would like to reframe the question of wat is the purpose of life to wat is the purpose one’s birth..
  we are all bound to our wants..as long as we get wat we want we are not botheres wat it took to get it( the procedure followed is ethical to our true conscience).. so i persoally would like to make a statement here this is inspired from a very good english writer who once wrote in his work “wen we want something with a true desire the entire universe conspires in making arrangements to get wat we always asked for”..so people be as specific as u can about ur wants..ask for it eveyday… work for it everyday.. include it in ur prayers everyday… know why u want it…dont give up till u get it because have faith in this universe..its higly spiritual… so i here terminate my reply saying we are what we want… our wants or our urges are something that happpens to us unconsciously… so let the wants kick when it has to kick inside us…follow the procedure that takes to get it like its gods desire that u should have it…. so wee all are very very natures creation and we should be inside our true natures box…eveything has a box in itself..like if lion craves for fresh blood to make its apettite happy then monkey asks for a bananna and deer for grass…but forest wants all the kinda of animals inside it to keep up the ambience of the forest…likewise are we part of this big universe
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago

• I don’t really like anybody at my school.
  

  hi rain..u seem to me like a nice person after reading ur post.. some where down the line after reading wat u had to say i arrive at the conclusion that u way too conscious about the way u want to resonate with the people.. wat i wud suggest dont be so much into detailing abt the people’s reaction and their behviour..accept them the way u are… every body wants to be understood… nobody wants become in friends with someone who doesn want to understand them.. i wud brief it as “accceptance factor ” is very important to build up any reputation..and moreover one wont change his/her nature because u want it to change…. and then rain if u want people to get influenced then even u need to have that flexibility inside u to get influenced by them..look at things in positive way.. never ask a “why”…universe has no answer for that… “WE ALL SEEK FOR LIKE MINDED PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND THE DISTINCTIVENESS IN US”…somewhere i do also feel u want to overpower the situation where u do so much of observation as how one is nice 2 him/her and u compare it with that same person is with u.. insecured people urge to over power because they are scared of rejection.. i know u dont need that insecurity… i wud say have a wider vision.abt the situation like how for a human body all the five senses are equally important AND SO THEY NEED TO BE EQUAL IN POWER in the same way is the “U” and the rest all equally FOR THIS UNIVERSE TO FUNCTION AS A HEALTHY HAPPY SYSYTEM..
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

• hi guys… i am a 24 year old..years back when
  

  do i like my brother..??????he is a very self centred guy… and the country in which i live has a very strong family sysytem.. that once again i can crack out of if i really wish to…but is it possible for me to keep distance with him is a question even if i dont want to stay in touch with him……he is one guy who doesn know where to draw his ends..the liberty that he gives himself be it in his actions or in his words explains that he first needs to self discipline himself…i am not bothereed about the toss of my relationship with my brother ..i am more bothered about my mental status.. inspite of me confronting him after many years of that molestation episode ..he gets the hitch he is guilty for a while, he accepts it ,but he doesn stop calling me names after that inspite ..wat outlook can i draw after all wat has happened … i am so disturbed ..my ego of being a gal is questioned. my self respect is at stake .i am disturbed…i sometimes want to strip him off naked in front of the world
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• my mom really pisses me off with her rude statements…
  

  she says thinks like i am a thrash and no man will marry me… she puts it in a unpleasent way like nobody will carry me off
  - written 11 months ago

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