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• i dont like my life anymore!
  

  Hey, everythings ok. It’s not that people don’t care about you, it’s just that they don’t show it enough for whatever reason. I’ve had friends like that, and I might still. I don’t talk to them much. There was a girl I really liked and she liked me I think. It was one awkward situation after another and then she’s leaving to Oregon to stay with her parents for a few reasons, one being medicare. I found out the day her friends and I were wishing her good-bye that she had been sleeping with a guy. I left, came back, left again, and then I didn’t feel like I had a choice. I went back, got her in private, and after a long few tries said “I think I love you”. Before she left I asked for a hug and she kissed me on the neck. Thinking on it now, I really think she’s playing me, cause she’s really smart and I think concieted. That doesn’t matter, I’m not even going to school. Not because of her, but I’ve been depressed. I don’t talk to her anymore. People do look out for you, your so messed up, what’r they supposed to say? Sorry? They don’t understand whats going on. It’s really personal, but try to open up a little bit. They won’t avoid you and if they do, who cares? You’ve still got people who love you probebly very much. I came to this conclusion: You can’t live for anyone else and you can’t die for yourself. Sorry it’s so long, but if you can still be in school, your stronger than I. That means something at least.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• How can i let my parents know that i have a boyfriend without feeling cheezy about it?
  

  This’ tough. I don’t know your parents at all. I think that they’ll either freak out or they won’t. They probably will. If you tell them, they might just keep you away from the phone. Are you sure this guy isn’t really ugly or something? I mean, it does matter, a little. I think it depends on what you value. Talking to him, or letting your parents know. I don’t know your parents. They might just surprise you. It seems like you’ve already made up your mind to tell them. I would approach it by telling them that you two are talking and lead up to how you feel about him and plead for them to understand or just be okay with it. I’d argue, but thats just with my Dad. Hopefully he’ll get to come see you and meet your parents too.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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