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I’m curious about the volunteer moderating…..but admin privileges would be good, too. ;)

Well, the only thing that would alleviate your confusion is having the conversation with him. That way, you would know how he feels. Any discussion with anyone else about it will not alter the reality of your situation given that it’s his input for which you’re searching.
So, having said that, I’ll retract my original suggestions of remaining selfless, and suggest, instead, that you have the convesation with him in a careful and respectful way.
My first reflex, upon entering the discussion, was to not encourage the interruption of a happy union, however, I’m sure, as good friends, you and he can discuss it with no ill consequences.

Dragons are creatures of imagination and myth brought to life by literature. In the same token, there are some fictional human characters in books who I wouldn’t mind believing in, either. Let’s not cap it at dragons, only.

The clue is not in how he deals with you necessarily, but how he feels about where he is currently. What you’ve described is someone who seems to be very comfortable with you and engages in playful flirting. No harm in that, given the vast and varying definitions of flirting. However, if he’s not given any indication that he is unhappy with his current girlfriend, then I would certainly breach the topic carefully and respectfully, if at all.

…then they wouldn’t be dragons.

Well, there has been no fossilized evidence of them. So, I’m going to have to go with a “no” on that one.

If he was unhappy with his current girlfriend, then I can easily imagine, based on how you’ve described your freindship with him, that he would’ve been very comfortable to either say it directly or let some telltale signs slip out.
Either way, if you do tell him, try to be respectful to all concerned. Good friends are hard to find and I’m certain you wouldn’t want to do any damage.

Seems a little silly and unnecessary. tsk, tsk

Well, if you really love him, I assume that you must really care about his happiness and well-being. That he’s been involved with the same girl for 3 years may indicate that he is happy where he is. Does he show any signs of being unhappy with his current relationship? If not, then having that discussion with him may not be the best idea. Loving someone is a selfless thing, at times.

Brilliantly funny! Thanks for sharing.

Awwwww. He’s a cutie.

Poetic genius!

Great question, sag. I always choose a fractal because they appear similar at at all levels of magnification and are considered to be infinitely complex–so, it’s kind of an abstract metaphor for the human condition.

Decisions, decisions…..do I watch the footage or do I consider the minty, chewy, and theological deal of Rubberchickenonastickism?

Ah yes…the familiar and iconic rubber chicken on a stick.