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I have always posted anonymous

this is me

In my opinion they should have admin only. No mods because they are user like us
and have many friends and can be influence by their friends.

Thank you sandy for your kind words, I just hope it changes.

henr you are lucky, but I am not lucky as you.

[quote henr]did you sit upside down right after? i know you didnt cause otherwise you wouldnt be bored. what have you got to lose?[/quote]

I don,t know.

[quote Richard cor de lyon]Well… that’s fairly common. I wish you luck.[/quote]

Thank you.

[quote Richard cor de lyon]if our dreams came to us easy… then it wouldn’t be worth it.[/quote]

I kind of a lazy person and Loose hope easily, I know I should work hard but I can’t get my self to do what i should do.

[quote henr]dont run, walk 19 times.[/quote]

done, but still bored lol

[quote Richard cor de lyon]make a goal… set you plan… then proceed with passion.Dream it, plan it… live it![/quote]

I had dreams but I found it difficult to do.

[quote henr]run around in a circle 10 times then sit upside down until you have a brilliant idea.[/quote]

I hate Running.

so what should i do ?

Don’t do it :(

Suicide is NEVER the answer,
getting help is the answer.

I think to care is part of life

I think it is rude

I am a Christian
How do I understand god ?

Hey soulsearcher
I not sure what to say, I think you may be have fear of being lonely,death and aging, a very mixed type of fear. Fear of being alone can be caused by all kinds of things. Maybe you felt abandoned at some time in life and came to associate being alone with being unloved or neglected. Like anything in life you can learn to be better at being alone without being lonely, so you have the choice whether to be with others or not. When you are alone you have time to think calmly, and there is a special kind of peace you can experience only when alone. Time spent alone sometimes can also make time spent with others even more enjoyable. After all, chocolate cake just doesn’t taste as good if you eat it every day!

Fear of death is natural if you feel threatened in some way - after all your survival instinct is an essential drive. However when fear of death becomes a preoccupying obsessive thought then something needs to change. If you are constantly ruminating about death, or if the mere mention of the word ‘death’ makes you feel anxious then a natural concern has gone too far. The thought that some day we won’t be around any more can be hard to comprehend and cause fear and even panic. Or maybe it’s the process of dying that is feared. Obsessive fear of death may originate from witnessing the death of a loved one. Putting death into its proper perspective can allow you to see how an occasional awareness of death can add to life, making living much more enjoyable, fulfilling and meaningful. We live in a world where for many of us death has become a taboo, something to be brushed under the carpet and ignored. Occasional awareness of death is a great motivator to do better, take life by both hands, dismiss pettiness and live more fully or may be you feel your life is meaningless but its not true we all make a difference in life, the people we meet, like our friends and family, we do influence people around us, also people get influence by us, either directly or indirectly. so we all have some purpose in life that what I believe. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Thank you all for your help, i will try to do what i can, it true that life is not what i expected it to be is hard and complicated and i am all alone.

[quote Soulsearcher]It was a general question about life experiesnces and how you would utilize them in your life. To what extent your experiences would influence your actions regardig people[/quote]
To me It influences me a lot and I might be a bit cautious and expect the unexpected but I’ll never complete trust/mistrust a person just because he/she is a stranger until they give me a reason to.