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• The divorce is imminent. posted (2 weeks, 3 days) ago
  I’m not sure how I feel about it. I’m the one who left afterall. It feels like deep…

• I’m going to San Francisco. posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  Actually, I won’t be living in San Francisco, but I will be in the Bay Area. My friend and h…

• This is your life: posted (1 month, 4 weeks) ago
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6uRg9aslZg I know it’s mine. (the song is by Don McLean, …

• Test. posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  This is a test. I’m just seeing if this will post because another user if having difficult…

• I’m home. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  For those of you that didn’t see my last post, I separated from my husband. Fortunately, we…

• I’m moving out. posted (4 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Things weren’t as great as I said they were. Yeah, I’m a liar like that. Tonight, all…

• I’m looking for an artist and title of a painting/poster that I have a print of. posted (5 months) ago
  The print has been cut to fit a piece of wood and I can’t find a signature on it. The pain…

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Nyx (ninja)'s Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) I saw something disturbing on the road today.
  

  It is normal to feel bad about it.
  
  I don’t tell people that they SHOULD stop and get in the middle of fights because you can put yourself in danger that way. But that doesn’t mean that we can’t try to help anyway. If you knew that others were calling 911, that was fine to leave because there’s no point in flooding the 911 lines with multiple calls over one incident. Also, since you were with your mother, HER first priority is to protect you and stopping to help could have put you in danger, so I’m glad that she kept driving.
  
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by An²a

• (1 vote) The divorce is imminent.
  

  [quote lakepoin]Hi Nyx, thanks for your quick reply to my post. I feel for you in your situation. You said you like to write; I’d encourage you to write down your thoughts & feelings- its very medicinal and can often reveal underlying truths that you may not be conscious of. I did it after my divorce, it ultimately revealed many things for me that I’d either ignored, or not realized. I could offer you a page out of my book, I’d you want/need inspiration.[/quote]
  
  Thank you, but it’s a funny thing about my love of writing: I hate writing about myself. I project myself into my characters a lot, but I hate keeping any sort of diary or journal. I don’t even really like writing letters and if I do, I rarely mail them. I might enjoy seeing a page out of your book though. It could inspire me regardless.
  
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago – voted for by Belief

• (1 vote) help ..
  

  Look for dietary and environmental triggers to your panic attacks. I found that whenever my blood sugar gets low or if I have too much caffeine or get dehydrated, it feels exactly like a legitimate panic attack. Sometimes, eating whole grain foods also makes me feel like I’m having a panic attack. You might still be having true anxiety attacks, but controlling your diet can help reduce them.
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by PureLogix

• (1 vote) I need a lot of prayers and an answer ….This is a serious question and I really dont know what to do.
  

  That is strange that she can’t have visitors up until the very end. When my grandmother was in hospice, her children and grandchildren were by her side until her very last breath.
  
  Just remember, Mas, (although it is still painful) that no good person ever wills a child to suffer or die, but God works in mysterious ways and if He has chosen to take this child, then there is a purpose. Perhaps instead of fighting it with your prayers, you can simply ask God to do His will and to help you and the parents to understand why He would do this thing.
  
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Hope

• (1 vote) tips for revenge on a cheating partner
  

  Don’t stoop to their level and move on.
  
  Be the better person. That way, they’ll have lost out of the best opportunity of their life, rather than some psycho bent on revenge who no one wants to be with anyway.
  
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by -Camithings-

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• Hi there,
  

  If you’ve only met her these few times and you’re already talking about marriage, then you probably scared her off. As Americans in general, we like to take relationships slow. We like to have a relationship for a while with no pressure. We are a culture where most people date many other people before they ever settle down and get married. Sometimes, both people are really passionate about each other and they’re both willing to try to aim for marriage earlier in the relationship, but for the most part Americans don’t view every date and every relationship that they get into as having potential for marriage.
  
  You didn’t mention if she has any of the same culture as you, like religion. She may also have realized already that you might be better off with someone who understands your culture better and is willing to try to meet the expectations that you were raised with.
  - written 5 hours, 41 minutes ago

• how do you find the least common multiple of 5 and 7?
  

  you list all the multiples of both numbers and then look for the lowest one that they have in common.
  
  if you were looking for the least common multiple of 3 and 4, then you would list 3’s multiples, which are 3, 6, 9, 12, 15, 18, 21, etc. and 4’s multiples with are 4, 8, 12, 16, 20, etc. You notice that 12 is the first multiple that they both have in common so that’s the least common multiple.
  - written 11 hours, 47 minutes ago

• Please, someone help me.
  

  If you have myspace, you should try to find a herp group. Then browse through their group bulletins before asking the question just to make sure it hasn’t already been answered. I know that there are a lot of really knowledgable people on at least one of the myspace herp groups (they’re the same people who are in the tarantula lovers group) who could probably reassure you.
  - written 2 days, 12 hours ago

• My life is falling apart..
  

  How to dress:
  http://www.lanebryant.com/
  http://www.torrid.com/
  
  If you’re taking online classes, then you can take a Quickbooks class. If your online school is a technical school, then perhaps you should look at different community colleges with online classes to see if they offer a Quickbooks class that you could take. You would probably have to buy the software, but it’s comparable to buying textbooks anyway.
  
  As for not driving and still having social problems, I think you are definitely still having problems with some form of social anxiety disorder and the agoraphobia. It is a good idea for you to seek professional help and perhaps medication. My best friend also has those problems, but through counseling and medication she has been able to relieve her symptoms enough that she now holds a hostess job in a restaurant and has a driver’s license, which she uses. She no longer takes medication regularly as once she learned to cope with it, she slowly weened herself off and taught herself how to cope without it. However, she does keep a reserve of her prescription for whenever she anticipates a particularly stressful event such as a job interview.
  
  Good luck to you. Don’t give up. There are ways for you to accomplish all the things that you want. It’s work, but it’s possible and that’s enough to know for a good start.
  - written 2 days, 20 hours ago

• how do you tell your best friend that her fiance is a cheater?
  

  i told his best friends the week before the wedding because i was too chicken to tell him. it didn’t matter. he married her and she broke his heart. she had a baby by some other guy while they were married.
  - written 3 days, 4 hours ago

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