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i was in spanish today and i made up my mind that i was guna ask him today
and all my friends think he likes me cuz i had to finish a math test so i was 15 mins late. and he was like “wheres katelyn” and my friend was like “why? ooo u love katelyn!” and he just kinda smiled
so my friends think he likes me and i really hope he does
but then i got there and my friends turned my desk around so i couldnt sit by them so i had to sit in front of them, which is next to the kid i like
and at the end i tossed him a note but idk if he read it
cuz he told my friend that he didnt read it
and cuz he prob thought i was throwin paper at him
cuz i tend to do that sumtimes :]
but at ultimate he talked to me like normal so idk
should hand him a note tomoro and make sure he reads it?

i just dont know wat to say, how to say it… like by handing him a note wen i sit like right next to him or actualy askin him

idk like wen or where though. idk if i should ask him during spanish, art (not a good idea… teachers wicked mean and hates wen ppl talk) or after skool at ultimate… and idk if i should ask him on tuesday or another day… but i only have about 2 weeks left of skool so i wanna do it soon

im 5′3″ and 102 lbs. im like 20 days away from my bday.
u could just have a fast metabolism. i have a fast motabolism and i eat a ton. so i dont gain a lot of weight. and any weight i do gain. i run off in sports.

this happened to me a couple of months ago…
ppl that ive been friends with for 2-3 years, IMed me one day saying they dont want to be friends with me anymore.. sayin i was a lesbian and stuff. the guy i liked for 2 years that i was friends with, said he didnt wanna be friends with me either. then they girls that said that to me paid him a month later to ask me to a skool dance, knowin i liked him for 2 years. he was paid $20 and i knew cuz they were watchin and he said it really loudly. andd they paid one of their friends to ask me to the dance. i rejected both.

my advice… if they treat u like dirt, dont bother they arent ur real friends. just show them ur better off with them not being in ur life. thats wat i did. they all want to be my friends again. i forgave them… but i dont tell them anything. not friends more like aquaintences. well i hope i helped. :] bye

i know exactly how u feel. in august i had to wear a dress to my friends bat mitzvah which was from like 9 in the morning to like 6-7 at nite. and in june my grade is goin to DC and theres a nite on a yacht or sumthin lke that. its a dance and dinner thing. and we have to be realy fancy. that means 2 things i hate. heels and dresses

um im not sure. ive been in this situation alot.

idk thats a tough one. try talkin to him more.

thx.

middle school

you just need to find something your good at. it wont be easy to find. but once uve found it, ull know.
dont be so harsh on urself.
if u think of urself in a bad way others mite too.
so think good of urself.

thanks you are a huge help!

i have been avoiding them and alot of ppl that are friends with them im also friends with and asked me or them wat was going on. and i told ppl wat they said. but i havent lately. they told ppl i was a lesbo and that eevrything was true and they go and tell ppl everything. they are hurting themselves more.
cuz they lost alot of friends in this. cuz no one wants to be friends with them cuz they did this. im glad it happened though. cuz now i know they werent my real friends. and i know who really are now. and wat goes around comes around. i ges i believe in karma now. cuz they spread a rumor about me. and then they are losing friends becuz of it.

two of them are guys. one of the guys is weak. so i could take him. both short btw. (shorter then me). the other plays hockey and idk how strong he is. then theres 5 girls. one plays hockey and is stronger then me. 2 others play basketball. and 2 are just… well idk.
were going on a field trip for 5 days in june. and its on my bday on the trip. and i realy wanna go and ive paid $500 to go. and still have to pay $250 before end of april. but if u get a suspension u cant go on the trip. and my parents would kill me cuz money is tight. otherwise i would kick theyre sorry lying butts.

one of my best guy friends i was really good friends with for about a year maybe a lil more. i told him everything. then he started calling me annoying and said that i changed and im different and that he wanted the old “me” back. none of my other friends thought i was different, only him.
i hope everything works out for youu.

retaliation is like my middle name…
i havent retaliated.
psh. no way im tellin an adult. sory dont wanna b rude. but u dont know my mom shell make this worse then this really is.
but by not retaliating they think they are winning. they told me to stop and walk away. cuz they won.
o well.