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yeah, exactly x.x

sometimes, i walk away from a post with a warm, fuzzy feeling, seeing how everybody helped some desperate person through a tough patch in their life.

and sometimes i just…. scream… and duck out quietly, and weep in the corner…

no problem.

it’s a lot more satisfying than trying to talk some 35 year old woman through her jealousy over who her bf talks to… only to find that she’s never actually *met* the guy in person.

i mean, what the HELL… do you… i’m just speechless… ay carumba…

I try not to be mean, I just tell people like I see it, I truelly feel if you dont just do that you do people a great diservice and if it pisses em off, oh well, maybe they get something maybe not, No matter how I felt about advice on what I was seeking I wouldnt want anyone to hold back any punches. And dont worry your not going to be the friend forever, just take your time and remember to value yourself so you dont get taken advantage of.

but you seem nice, too, that’s why i clicked the link to your post, you know

aw, shucks :D

:D

one more thing, don’t give up your morals just because you’re feeling lonely or desperate, because what you’re really looking for will only be met by a guy who loves you BECAUSE of those morals (along with everything else ;)

just wanted to say that… :D

that’s true, but i didn’t want you to be left with him getting you down in that post… o.O

p.s. you don’t have to listen to kludo, he’s kinda mean sometimes :\

oh, hey, you’re about the same age as me :D

i’m 18, you’re right where i was a year ago, i guess :P

listen… i know that “there’s a whole life ahead of you, you’re very young” sounds stupid, but seriously, high school its society has NOTHING to do with real life. ;D

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If its going to hurt someone then it probably contains truth, and Im sorry but if words hurt you then you need to look deep inside yourself and see what it really is that defines who you are, because if simple words even begin to scratch your surface then that definition is not well in place. Things do hurt and pain is okay, It reminds us were alive. Im not spitefull I dont hate anyone. Im just who I am and I wont defend that. You say that not saying anything is best sometimes, I can agree with that to some extent, then again I have always believed the only thing worst then the wrong decision is failure to make a decision or take action. So I think we will just have to mutually agree to disagree on that.

Because I dont tell them what they want to hear, I dont sugar coat it, and I dont feed into there sympathy cries. I dont mean to offend anyone but if they take it that way then maybe there’s a reason. People give me advice all the time that is straight and to the point, I take it on-board for what its worth and move on with my life and don’t take it personal. I dont know you or anyone else here, therefore it’s pretty much a safe assumption to assume I’m just telling it like I see it. Nothing personal.