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GOod work.

Btw, if you can’t get her outta your system, you might not want to move in with her. If you can’t get around it, then avoid her if you have to.

Run for your life. Anyone interested in just a fling, but leads others on is a self-certifiable jerk and you shouldn’t even try touching them with a fifty-foot pole. Ignore “Dan” and, if worst comes to worst, get some Mace.

If you can’t get enough of her, she is.
If you see her in your dreams, she is.
If you get butterfllies every time you think of her, she is.
If you can seriously imagine your kids, a white picket fence and a happy life with her, she is.
If you need to be with her more than with anyone else in the world, she is.

Ok, try this.

You know that she’s just broken up with the biggest, most egotistical jerk in the world, X. Even though their relationship might not have been the best, she did devote a huge amount of time into it. Now, it’s officially gone.

What to do?

Let her calm down, get over X and then make a move. Let her know in a ton of subtle ways that she’s what you want. Then, make yourself scarce. She’ll appreciate you more if she sees you less. Don’t go out on a ton of flings, because it will just re-enforce her beliefs that all guys are jerks (this happens every time there’s a breakup, even if it’s the girl breaking up with the guy).

Then, come back into her life. By this time, she should be able to move on and accept you and fall in love with you. If not, then just stay being friends.