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• I done it, i have moved to Spain. posted (5 months, 1 week) ago
  all is going good at the mo. i have been here 5.5 weeks. have done a lot of work clearing the ground…

• open to all that want to come in. posted (7 months, 2 weeks) ago
  to all that want to come in.…

• Is there any girls out there to love me? posted (7 months, 2 weeks) ago
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• just found out that my ex-wife-to-be has been conning me out of money. posted (8 months) ago
  she has been saying that she is in bad money poop. she sent me sms’s, to invite me round for …

• just to let you all know, no matter how hard to find things you can get over them with help, love and talk. posted (9 months, 3 weeks) ago
  you can get through it all, it is a hard time, i know and am still hard at it trying to get out the …

• i need some love and hugs, love and hugs to you all. posted (10 months, 3 weeks) ago
  need some love and hugs, love and hugs to you all.…

• Things have been bad but are starting to get a bit better, i am going to move to Spain, i need a clean start, i need some love & hugs. posted (10 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Love and hugs to you all. If there is any one out there that lives near me that wants some love and …

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• Does anyone really receive help on here?
  

  to answer you Q; i was in need of help and i did not know how badly i needed it. i was on this site and was able to help a lot of people, then one day someone asked me why i was here? i looked inside and relised that i was looking for help my self. i used this site to talk to people and then i moved on to talking to the doc’s. i then went through hell and back to come out the other side. i am now back to my self and living life to the full.
  so yes in a way we can and do get help form this site and the people that use it.
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• I done it, i have moved to Spain.
  

  thanks ^j^ (((hugs))) back to you.
  - written 5 months ago

• So, I found out that my ex was getting married in Feb.
  

  you have to let him go. i know that it hurts, more than you can put in to words. you have to move on and find that person that you can now make a life with, someone that you can have a family with!
  the pain will go in time, not a week or a monthe but in time. then you will know that you can move on. the sonner you are able to move on the better for you, you will find love in some one and that love will be given back to you.
  there is light at the end of the pain, time is the only cure.
  - written 5 months ago

• I wrote this myself 10 years after my sister died… do you think i shoudl publish it?
  

  i have to say, thoes words cut deep. you should be proud of them. i know that you feel a lot when you read or think of them. if you think you want to put the words out there, well you have just taken the first step.
  thank you for the chanse to read what is writen inside of you.
  - written 5 months ago

• I done it, i have moved to Spain.
  

  thank you all for your kind words, you make me tingle inside with your love.
  i have been working very hard on the garden, and i have now got a job. i am working for a local bloke, in the building trade, so a bit of this and a bit of that. it is hard work but it gets me out and to see other people.
  i am a lot happier here, i am still on the meds and will be for a year, if there is no relaps! i have still not got to grips with making any time for myself. so i know that if i keep on the way i am i will burn out at some point.
  the thing is i just put all of my energy in to work and the property that i dont find time for my self.
  to be totaly honest the reason that i am back on help.com it to talk to people with out the time to go out………… you know easier to find time to chat no here than to go out.
  the weather is to and i have worked hard to get the pool up together, but again i dont make the time to go in it. sad, i know!
  
  we thank you again for you kind words, they go along way.
  
  P.S. Anon’ i have put my thoughts on the post that you asked me to look at, i only hope that they help in some small way.
  
  x x x
  - written 5 months ago

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