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• Lately I have been looking at where I am at in my life and wondering what I really want, what is going to make me happy and fulfilled. posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  I have been hearing a lot about following your dreams and stuff like that. I sit back and think ab…

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• My boyfriend left his wife, now what!
  

  When I was 5 my mother left my father for my step-father. They got married 11 months after she left my dad. 21 years later my step-father left my mother for another woman. Justin Timberlake - “What goes around comes around.” I hate to say it to you but Karma is gonna come and smack you down, whether it is in this relationship or a future one, so you have to decide, do you want this guy to leave you in a few or many years down the line or do you want that to happen to you with someone new. Either way it is gonna come back to you for what you’ve done, I can give you many examples of Karmic Payback but you are going to experience it one way or the other. Why would you want to be involved in wrecking a relationship anyway, sorry to sound harsh but you deserve everything you get.
  
  P.S> Ive never been cheated on or had a woman leave me nor have I ever cheated on anyone I was in a relationship with and I am not a religious person or anything so I am not ‘preaching’ to you, but if you are going to f**k around you should do it with another single person and if you dont want it to go past a certain point, end it, but dont make the same mistake twice because it is easier to be in that kinda relationship where you know deep down that it could never get past a certain point, I hope you are in your earily 20’s cause if not then you have issues.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• Lately I have been looking at where I am at in my life and wondering what I really want, what is going to make me happy and fulfilled.
  

  Thank you Lillies! That is sweet of you.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• Lately I have been looking at where I am at in my life and wondering what I really want, what is going to make me happy and fulfilled.
  

  First, thanks Silverwings for that response it was very nice and insightful.
  
  Lilies, I appreciate your post as well, but again my problem is being able to connect with my heart, I’ve been disconnected for so long. I am dead broke right now and just started a new job with no guarantees. It is a stressful situation.
  
  I have had a lot of money in the past but right now I cant say that. I am struggling in several ways. Life, relationship, and money are all part of these although I do believe that I will come out of this somehow-someway, I am tired of working for the money because when I had a lot of it I was the most unhappy. I am no so much unhappy as I am stressed right now. I do believe, because of the epiphany I had last night that if I could figure out what my passion/dreams are and did it that the money would come and stay. As Silverwings put it I am in “transition” and hopefully the rest of her post will come true also.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• Get a job or stay in school?
  

  By the way I am 37 and I am pretty successful and I didnt go to college but if I had to do it all over again, I definitly would have gotten a degree. Not just for the degree but the memories and friendships I missed out on. Think of all the connections of like-minded individuals you will make that can help you in your future.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• im am just so upset…i just dont know what to
  

  Yes the world would go on without you so toughen up. You should never let anyone’s words get to you. If you are fat you can lose the weight, if you are not fat then dont worry about it. But you can not place your worth on just looks alone. I have dated some of the hottest girls and I gotta tell you after you get to know a lot of them, watch the movie ‘Shallow Hal’ and remember fat can be lost, if you were missing an arm and your uncle said something mean about that I go kick the crap out of him myself, but words are ‘just words’ don’t let them get in you, if you do that is ‘your’ choice. So toughen up, it will make you stronger in all areas of your life.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

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