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Thank you for listening -

I am going to call someone at the school board in reguards to this matter -I am just not sure what good it will do .. but I am going to try -I know I am fighting the good fight -I just know he has so much potential

I am want to get him out of that school -the only alternitive they gave us was to go to a GED program- OH, I could just yank him out but I would have to pay tuition for another school..His principal at his former school had daggers for him and was new and i feel just didnt want any problems in her quaint small town and school so ship him somewhere where they can deal with it !

I pray alot …I feel I am loosing my son …I wish we could move …

The kids he attends school with are moderate to severe cases anything from gang violence to assults they cant even take a pencil to school they are provided there. I dont know where to place the blame …so I blame myself for not knowing what to do !

I hope that it is just a phase-
He was kicked out of the regular high school because he refused to do any detentions now he goes to a behavioral school and it has gotton worse since…he never got into this much trouble before he started to attend this behavioral school…they dubbed him trouble -now he is !!!

None that I am aware of

He is my only son and he is breaking my heart…

He has to go to court over these things he has done–this has all been within the last 3to4 months I am worried that the courts will intervene and put my son in a boys home. I am not sure what will happen and I dont feel I am in control over this

My husband and I dont even drink -My son said he just wanted to try it

He stuck the fifth under a coat he was wearing and told the clerk he didnt have anything-

I appologize if I scared you in any way.. its just that you really shouldnt let it go on any longer -My husbands problem wasnt dirreah it was chronic stomache upset and he took antacids like they were candy and he overlooked it for months and so did I- thinking its just a phase-he would get over it soon.. if it was detected earlier it could have been treated quickly and not caused so much for him-Dont be embarrassed or anything even if it is something small-Take Care

Has anyone else gotten a diagnosis from being sick? I would check around and see if anyone still is having the same problems -sounds like some kind of bacteria that you have and it can cause all sort of problems -Dont wait anylonger and be seen by a doctor -my husband recently had to be hospitalized for 7 days because of a bacteria and it was an 85,000.00 dollar bill! dont wait til it gets any worse-never take your health for granted!

The Girl I Used To Be
She came tonight as I sat alone.. The girl I used to be….
And she gazed at me with her earnest eye And questioned reproachfully:
Have you forgotten the many plans And hopes I had for you?
The great career,the splendid fame, all the wonderful things to do?
Where is the mansion of stately height With all its gardens rare? The silken robes that I dreamed for you And the jewels in your hair?
And as she spoke, I was very sad For I wanted her pleased with me…
This slender girl from the shadowy past
The girl that I used to be.
So gently rising, I took her hand And guided her up the stairs
Where peacefully sleeping, my babies lay Innocent, sweet, and fair.
And I told her that these are my only gems, And precious they are to me;
That silken robes is my motherhood Of costly simplicity. And my mansion of stately height is love,
And the only career I know Is serving each day in these sheltered walls For the dear ones who come and go
And as I spoke to my shadowy guest, She smiled through her tears at me.
And I saw the woman that I am now..Pleased the girl I used to be..

I had to take custody of my sister when she was 11 and she lived with me til she graduated with a 3.9 gpa- she was failing before-It is important to keep family together but also know when you need help in doing so- make calls do what it takes legally!Remember you are fighting the good fight-They are worth it! Good luck and God Bless -let us know how it goes..