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Thanks Axeman101.

I agree with leia_av, if this guy is seriously scaring you or you have any fears or doubts, please don’t wait until it’s to late. You’ve been doing the right thing by talking to you dad, have you told you dad you are afraid that this guy may come after you?

If he really loved you, he wouldn’t put all this unneccicary guilt on you, living like that isn’t healthy, sometimes, as hard as it is, you just gotta think about you and how you can’t let one person rule you.

Pretty similar with me, we just drifted apart, when it comes down to it, it’s no-bodies fault, it’s just the way life takes us, and I think the hardest part is for your dad to start to see that his daughter is growing up and for you to see that in your dads position the most precious thing in his life won’t be there forever, causing him to panic, and react in the only way he feels he can, which unfortunately for you is through over attention at the wrong times causing such embarrassment.

I got a similar thing with my Dad, I use to be daddies little girl, and I think he just doesn’t want to accept the fact that I’m growing, this may be similar to you.

I’m 20, and I think the pain is greatly nerve based, as for friends, the one’s away at the moment and the other’s more concerned with a part of how this recent unpleasantness started.

Is it one thing in particular that annoys you.

I’ve been bullied since I was 6, a lot this has followed me, getting more and my mind just can’t always be strong enough to hold this in.

Recently stereotype comments had been made against me.

Take Care :)

I think the best, and no doubt the hardest thing to do is to tell him, this will be hard and may not have the desired results, but at least you will know how he feels. If it’s good you can move forward and work on things and if it’s not, then at least you will know you tried and why things are the way they are, it will take time to get over loved ones, sometimes you never do, but the whole thing moves quicker if you simply know, you’d be surprised how much weight is lifted when your minds questions are answered.

I’ve experienced this kind of thing, but I never resolved anything, and trust me, you will regret losing the opportunity to set things straight.

I wish you the best in the decisions you make.

I think you did the right thing, that wasn’t you’re only chance and accepting it just to be polite would have put both of you in awkward situations.

I wish you luck, but please remember, some friends aren’t really real, and would deliberately try to break you up for a reason.

Yeah, just be yourself, it’s the best choice in the world, I love sensitive guys, but wouldn’t want a tough guy to pretend just for me, to begin with I’d feel really guilty.

She did say sorry and explained herself, if this is just the odd mood swing, try not to let it get to you, I also agree with Langers.