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• I’m more Cynical towards people than I used to be, and I wish it would stop. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  I’ve had some problems with people being honest about their feelings in my relationships wi…

• Respect for a President and the office? posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  I just wanted to open up a discussion tha was in a previous post that had a more narrow focus and …

• What is wrong with me? posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  I am hardly ever a depressed person. I have some periods of sadness like anyone else, but I usual…

• To Divorce or Not to Divorce… That is the question posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  I have been married for 5 1/2 years. The main problem is that I don’t want children and my w…

• I am at a loss at how to handle this friendship problem with a female co-worker. posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  Sorry this is so long but I’m not even going into as much detail as I could. If it will help…

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eqspike's Top (3) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) What do i about a girl that i love so much, that she doesnt feel the same way.
  

  I agree with dancefloor. IT sucks to be in that situation. Definitely try and move on. Sometimes people don’t fully apprecaiate something until it’s gone. So the sooner you move on the better it will be.
  
  Be her friend, but don’t give more to that friendship than you are getting in return. Always keep an eye towards possible love interests that aren’t this friend.
  
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by capcomvssnk

• (1 vote) It is time for a mass movement away from religion,
  

  There is a lot I think is wrong with a lot of what I see in many religions, and denominations with religions, but I don’t blame all religion as a whole.
  
  I like what you’re after. It just seems it could be more proactive. In other words “It’s time for a mass movement towards exploration of the interconnectedness of all of us, nature… We should move towards establishing and and explorations connections with each other, rather than allowing ourselves to become more and more isolated.”
  
  That would allow people with strong religious convictions to join you in your stated goal. As is the goal might actually “isolate” some folks rather than strengthen any sense of connectedness.
  
  It also doesn’t force anyone who doesn’t want to accept any religion to all of a sudden become religious.
  
  It’s minor tweak, but I think the idea you are exploring is cool.
  
  PS - I would probably be able to focus on it more, but I’m really worried right now wondering if everyone thinks my body is ok ;)
  
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by rncwnd home safe

• (1 vote) I know a guy who thinx hes my friend, but hes not.
  

  It is always strange when you see a person who is more concerned with their reputation than with another human’s feelings.
  
  By all means don’t get a reputation as someone who would actually be nice and friendly to an overweight person.
  
  - written 2 years ago – voted for by cmfleming11

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• Weedpedia.net
  

  I understand, but I thought good information was still the goal.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Weedpedia.net
  

  The hard thing with wikipedia is to find good sources to put up whatever information goes on the page. Personal anecdotes won’t really do any good there. A lot of the info on it has already been presented in a slanted way by both the legalize and war on drugs crowds.
  
  It will be difficult to find quality unbiased information.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• For Guys - what do you like in a girlfriend?
  

  I like girls that have a sense of humor. I want them to be original, and appreciate originality in others. Good taste in music and/or movies is a plus. I like her to not nag, but at the same time not let me get too carried away and get away with stuff.(that’s a fine line)
  
  I’m very unorganized, so if they are at least a little organized and even willing to help me here and there.
  
  They have to not mind that I’m different, and see things in a different way. If they can see things in the same kind of different way that’s great too, but not necessary.
  
  I like girls that like to have fun and have a good time. I like them to be able to appreciate other people’s strange unique character quirks. I don’t like them to put on a show of trying to show people how weird they are. But if they are just naturally weird, then that’s great.
  
  I like teasing, and joking around with people, so if they aren’t defensive, and can take a joke that’s huge. If they can dish out some good jokes that’s a bonus.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• i have been friends with a girl for over a year now.
  

  You have done everything you can. The ball is in her court. You should just get on with whatever else you can, and live your life. Be open to her should she need help with anything, or want to talk.
  
  You can even send her another text. Saying “I haven’t heard from you in a while. I hope everything is OK. I’m just letting you know that if you need any help with anything just let me know.”
  
  Then don’t talk to her again. It’s all on her what comes next.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I’m more Cynical towards people than I used to be, and I wish it would stop.
  

  That’s a great point, els.
  
  The only problem I have now, is that I’m not sure if their motives are genuine or not.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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