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get rid of everything that is his/reminds you of him, and then maybe start dating. I dont believe there’s a specific time frame after a relationship where you have to be single… If it feels right for you to dive back into dating, then do it… It worked for me, as it made me realise that there are muuuch better suited people out there for me.

And the reason why you feel so angry etc towards him, is he (probably) did something to really piss you off, which is still affecting you emotionally. When you can think of him without wanting to hurt him, then you know youve moved on mentally.

Go and make yourself happy, and somebody better will find you soon!

Do you know the reason behind you feeling this way?

Seriously? It’s only a freaking dinosaur toy thing D:

8 weeks for a toy…

Well, thank you anyway!

I’d invite him along too. You’d be in a public place, so you *could* go on your own, but it would be more sensible to go with a friend, as you don’t actually know who he is, he might be lying.
Just be careful, and have fun :)

She had the same doctor etc, guess it just didn’t agree with her the second time around.
Have you thought about an IUD? Yes, its a bit uncomfortable getting it put in, but it lasts for up to 10 years, and it won’t bugger up your hormone levels.

One of my best friends had it. She said the first one was great, the second one screwed her over majorly and she had to have it removed after a couple of months.

why don’t you try to work it out yourself? Or at least show us how you think you do it? You won’t learn if somebody just gives you the answer!

Guess it depends on the guy… my boyfriend hates the idea of me getting implants. It’s all to do with personal opinion and stuff

thanks everybody as well for the advice and help.

I think I’ll have to have another talk with him tomorrow or something so he’s fully aware of what’s going on and things.
Thanks Bamby for understanding my situation :) x

It’s just in my past relationship I had that support and I guess I’m having a hard time adjusting to not really having it in this aspect. Granted he is very caring and loving, but his lack of understanding in this area gets to me when I’m down and feel empty. He says he wants to know what’s going and when I tell him, I just get an “oh,I still think you should go to a shrink” and that’s it.
I’m extremely glad that he hasn’t gone through anything which has mentally affected him badly, but I just wish he could be more understanding and be able to help me through it

[quote nic0_garci][quote Anonymous]If you’ve got to the point where she’s looking at it mate, you’ve already won 3/4 of the battle.[/quote]

i guess but im really insecure bout the size , hell can she even enjoy herself[/quote]

It’s true when people say “it’s not the size, it’s how you use it”. But believe it or not, there are a lot of girls out there who don’t actually care about the size.
You’re young, go and enjoy yourself. and like anon said^, if she doesn’t like it, then it’s not your problem, and move on

im not crazy D:
and i do.

[quote Anonymous][quote Smarty]nice to know you have such a high opinion about yourself.
I wish i did[/quote]

You should - you deserve too, a good word would be astounding.

It sounds like a nice word too aaa stow ding[/quote]

Whyyy should I deserve to? It’s not like you know me. I could be an awful person.
Although I shall soon be pretty if I get the surgery I intend to getttt. Yay for modern science!

nice to know you have such a high opinion about yourself.
I wish i did