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Well Fi. I no its hard, and your trying to face the fact that u 2 finished but..
I no that wat u say is hard to stop thinking and feeling. And that me and Ryan wernt like u and Aidan, that u had a stronger relation ship and all that.
But i am soo happy that i am over Ryan, and instead of looking back at me and him and thinking goddammit i want that again/bak!, im thinking, those were gd times i had then, then thinking about sommit else.
now i no that i can find someone else that will make me feel as loved and amazing as he made me feel
which is wat u can do eventually. but thats only if you realli believe that you want to. and i can tell that ur not realli sure at the mo
but u need to decide soon coz else it will drag on forever
and you’ll never feel the love of someone else. Seeing him at skl will be tougher than wat i experienced
and i just chickened out wen i saw Ryan and hid! and i sometimes do a bit of that even now so basically i avoided him which is wat maybe you shld do.
and if you want, maybe you shld tell him that your gunna do it (if you do) because you simply arent ready yet.
Maybe being friends again isnt the best thing 2 do rite now
sorry, this is like completely the opposite u wanted 2 hear i bet =S =S
so sorry! i wish i cld actually help
lv bex xxx

hey dont worry, ur not the only one out there =]
my bro has it too, but its under control bcoz hes taking pills
just go to ur nearest surgery =D

Hey Chel
i guess i no who this is
like some1 sed up there ^ i think (i no its hard, but u’ll hav 2 try evry way =S) that u need 2 just get out there, hav fun wiv ur other mates
go out wiv ppl where u can just get ur mind off him
its the best way.
U no, u will find someone out there again, who made you just as happy as he did b4
=D the same amazing feeling that u had when u were with him, isnt buried forever, there are so many other really great guys
=D hope i helped
lv ya xxx

yeh mole u’ll always hav Chel anna me fi kalur helen and all those ppl!
=D
if u tell them that u think u made a mistake or wateva, all those other ppl will b fine
dont worry, things will turn out okayy =)

Hey mole, tis Bex.t
I completely understand wat u mean.
I say, dont leave him. Give him a chance if u realli do love him
If u act like ur not bothered about him and her, then he shld think, and realise what he’s doing is wrong. Do u trust him mole? If u do, next time u talk, try to force urself into telling him that u trust him, and that u hope he’s having a great time
even if u do hav ur doubts
hope i help Mole =)

How long have you been friends with her?
If you’ve been friends with her for a few years or so, then thats obviously going to happen, as all people change.
My close friend who i’ve known for 4 years has told me that i’ve changed too, and so i was a bit down about this.
But i just asked her if its a good change, or a bad one, and she said its a good one
so i was fine
Thats after i asked a couple other people tho
I’m sure your still the nice person you were a few years ago
not that i no you or anything =D hope i helped

fanx a lot Crestfallen, ur right, and most guys do think about s** evry 15 seconds or so.
Thats why i thought he mightve been fake. =(
and i guess if we had carried on i wldve ended it anyway
in a worse situation.
But i still wish i had told him that i hadnt liked it, that way he wld think different of me
if u no wat i mean =P
fanx a lot u deffo helped =D

Thanx a lot fi =)
you’re probs right =D
for wat its worth, it was perfect at the time.

Wat do u guys think..??

wooo i’m the only one here who can truly understand wat u mean
as i no him
well. Wat i thought was..
Maybe he’s just acting like this as his way of trying 2 move on. And Trying to make u move on too? Probs wrong but hey =] I guess on ur part, its workin coz like u sed, the person u loved is gone.
Sorry Monobrow Tamer if i’ve totally got the wrong end of the stick
hehe
lv ya xx
P.s Not always ‘Manbearpig’ like u sed fi, ppl can be best m8s + in love at the same time