Ashtabula, OH, US
The snow falls, cold, whispering to the ground. Flake upon crystalline flake, drifting, piling, sticking.
The wind blows, scattering the flakes, sending them off to new places and adventures. The flakes never know to where they go, only where they’ve been. Their passing presence makes a difference, unseen, unappreciated, but definite, like the currents under the placid lake.
Each of us is a snowflake.
tknomage's Top (1) Replies by other users' votesMY own values in this probably wouldn’t match yours, but here’s my 2 cents. Many people simply aren’t wired for long term relationships, and especially not life long. Most of us have a part that needs attention from new people once in a while. If your husband gets overly uptight or abusive, definately time to leave. But, before you make any kind of commitment to this other guy, make sure he is right for you and not stringing you along for the ‘benifits’.
Even if you make a mistake, its good to get the attention you need, and as long as you learn something it is probably worthwhile.
Having said that, you probably made certain promises to your husband, so you need to work the situation out one way or another with him.
- written 2 years, 2 months ago – voted for by Richard Cor de Lyon